Chicks expecting you to pay when yall ain't dating *scust*

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Lmao I've never been on a date with a stranger who expected me to pay, they always insist on 50/50.

Then again, I don't mess with do nothing women :myman: exposing themselves left, right and centre :mjlol:
 

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OP. It's just a ticket. I think its clear that you don't have anyone to go with to the concert and thought enough of her to invite her for your own personal gain.

Its only a ticket. Purchasing it will not flush you into a downwards spiral of the symp-abyss. Women have feelings too yo. She wants to get plucked bro, just not for free.

Buy her the little ticket and make her significant for that very once in her life.
 

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Some of yall are missing the point. The point is that why was she flat out EXPECTING to be paid for? The entire situation maybe would've played out differently had she not come off as entitled. She's basically saying that just because she's a girl that I have to pay for her. fukk that :camby: Yall wanted equal rights, well you got em.

For those who are saying I must be broke :dead: You completely missed the point. It's not the amount of money. It's the principle.
 

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When guys get me stuff i always try to repay them b/c I don't like taking advantage of people. Got a friend who offered to buy my ticket to Magfest. Dunno if I'm going but if I do I will be sure to get him dinner or something b/c I know with 100% no drawers will be lowered and people work just as hard as I do for their money.

In this case I might have assumed same as her b/c if u invite I assume u already got the tickets and stuff unless we're planning together. But she came off arrogant when u corrected her assumption by demanding u pay.

I wouldn't blame u if u didn't pay. But also she aint wrong as some chicks be gettin finessed outta money now a days by dudes. Lmao!
 

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So yesterday I told this chick about Mobb Deep coming to DC next month :blessed: And I was pretty much like "yo i'm going to this show you should come too." It wasn't on some "hey let me take you out type shyt" :whoa: She's a friend that I've known for awhile, I used to hit it back in the day & she just broke up with some dude, so she's free to hang out now. We've NEVER dated, I've always just been like the guy that fukks her inbetween boyfriends :youngsabo: But anyway, when I tell her they were coming, she's like "Sure!:krs: So I'm like aight cool, thinking we had an understanding.

So fast forward to today, I buy my ticket, they are like $40 after taxes. I text her like "Hey don't forget to get your ticket because they are selling kinda quick." She immediately text back like :usure: "You buy it since you're inviting me" I was like :really2::adrian: I told her that I would make sure there's henny on deck & would take care of drinks, but she gotta buy the ticket. (Keep in mind, WE AINT TOGETHER & I haven't fukked since she broke up with her last dude) She says "Oh i'll pass if I gotta pay." :usure: I was just like bytch :dwillhuh:

Then she types a thesis talkin bout "I'm all about me these days, I've been too nice to guys in the past & I'm done, sorry. If a man wants me he'll do whatever it takes to get me, I ain't going out of my way for nobody."

I was literally reading this shyt like
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I'm just reading this shyt like bytch I don't WANT you :cmonb: I was just inviting you to the show. And she should know better because we've known each other for so long. I'm not some new guy you're going on a first date with. Plus I'm going to the show whether she goes or not, I was just pretty much just extending an olive branch to her stankin ass.
So I basically told her "We'll see how you act leading up until the show" :rross:Basically saying if I hit it a few times before then, THEN WE WILL SEE :ronaldo: Still not guaranteeing shyt :weakaf:

But regardless, this bytch trippin.

Her expectations :raughs: That sense of entitlement :tonio:
Thoughts?:jbhmm:

The fact you said the bolded lets me know you are going to end up buying her a ticket
 

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She doesn't sound like someone I'd be interested in personality wise, and how she responded is kind of a red flag..Most women I like the most or enjoy going out with, or always offering to pay, or even uncomfortable when I suggest something that's out of their range. I explained to a few I'd have no issue paying for your ticket to the Weeknd (they were a few hundred) and you don't owe me anything, but I'd rather have the experience with you, and I won't miss that $500, then have you not go. So, I don't have a problem paying, esp. for people I like, why would you? If they aren't worth my money, I generally won't spend time or money with them.

A $40 dollar ticket just seems extremely petty and based in some paranoid, bizarre 'principle' that I don't think will stand up to much logic, however, based on how she replied, she may not have been worth the $40.
 
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