Chicks expecting you to pay when yall ain't dating *scust*
- Thread starter Asiatic Black Hebrew
- Start date
GoldCoastSaint
Yall nikkas hate everything but Tariq Nasheed
Sounds like a misunderstanding. The way you typed it does sound like an invitation and your responses to her give the impression that you interact as more than just friends. fukk buddies should probably keep the flirting tona minimum to avoid these type of situations.
Concerning VIolence
Decolonizer
Why is everyone going against OP instead of the bullshyt female? 
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
4North1Side2
Banned
So yesterday I told this chick about Mobb Deep coming to DC next monthAnd I was pretty much like "yo i'm going to this show you should come too." It wasn't on some "hey let me take you out type shyt"
She's a friend that I've known for awhile, I used to hit it back in the day & she just broke up with some dude, so she's free to hang out now. We've NEVER dated, I've always just been like the guy that fukks her inbetween boyfriends
But anyway, when I tell her they were coming, she's like "Sure!
So I'm like aight cool, thinking we had an understanding.
So fast forward to today, I buy my ticket, they are like $40 after taxes. I text her like "Hey don't forget to get your ticket because they are selling kinda quick." She immediately text back like"You buy it since you're inviting me" I was like :really2::adrian: I told her that I would make sure there's henny on deck & would take care of drinks, but she gotta buy the ticket. (Keep in mind, WE AINT TOGETHER & I haven't fukked since she broke up with her last dude) She says "Oh i'll pass if I gotta pay."
Then she types a thesis talkin bout "I'm all about me these days, I've been too nice to guys in the past & I'm done, sorry. If a man wants me he'll do whatever it takes to get me, I ain't going out of my way for nobody."
I was literally reading this shyt like
I'm just reading this shyt like bytch I don't WANT you :cmonb: I was just inviting you to the show. And she should know better because we've known each other for so long. I'm not some new guy you're going on a first date with. Plus I'm going to the show whether she goes or not, I was just pretty much just extending an olive branch to her stankin ass.
So I basically told her "We'll see how you act leading up until the show" :rross:Basically saying if I hit it a few times before then, THEN WE WILL SEE :ronaldo: Still not guaranteeing shyt :weakaf:
But regardless, this bytch trippin.
Her expectations :raughs: That sense of entitlement :tonio:
Thoughts?
You got curved, get over it lol
Pounding my chest huh?My confidence is already high enough trust me. And I won't be alone either way, other people are going, I was just extending an invite to her.
......
So I basically told her "We'll see how you act leading up until the show" :rross:Basically saying if I hit it a few times before then, THEN WE WILL SEE :ronaldo: Still not guaranteeing shyt :weakaf:
But regardless, this bytch trippin.
Her expectations :raughs: That sense of entitlement :tonio:
Thoughts?
Chest pounding and seeking approval all at the same time
good use of smileys tho....
This mite be the funniest sequence of words + smiley I've seen in quite some time
darealvelle
Real Talk
Bruh if that's your suppose friend and if she ain't have the money for the show I would of just paid the ticket. I done paid tickets for multiple friends so they can go concerts with me. Now if she just didn't want to pay now that's a different story. She can stay her ass at home 
Asiatic Black Hebrew
Zulu passenger out of Africa
......
Chest pounding and seeking approval all at the same time
You catching feeling over the OP telling a story.... sounds like someone did you dirty in the past
Anyways, if she stressing over $40 then she broke as fukk.... Give her the
Don't hang with no hoodrats breh
You caught me breh I got past hurts... over $40...
zero legit opinions as a woman it's all hurt breh....do they sell your cape in my size?
Do you got $40 I can hold?
If you are courting, sure. He explicitly said they are only friends and not courting her. You don't just pay for friends to do everything. Asking your friends if they coming out to the bar tonight does not mean that you are expected or required to pay the cover, uber and drinks. Theyre friends. Nothing more. Thats the point of his post. Why would a woman who is not being pursued expect him to pay for everything?
Asiatic Black Hebrew
Zulu passenger out of Africa
Bruh if that's your suppose friend and if she ain't have the money for the show I would of just paid the ticket. I done paid tickets for multiple friends so they can go concerts with me. Now if she just didn't want to pay now that's a different story. She can stay her ass at home
That's pretty much what it is. #HOH
This is the only part of the story worthy of comment IMO.
Despite the misunderstandin', I never understand this statement from women. Are you datin' men you're actually interested in? Are y'all tryin' to get with EACH OTHER? Why do so many women look at the datin' game as men tryin' to get, women convinced to give?
Anyone interested in a fulfillin' relationship, not willin' to be about the other person, be nice, or go out of their way, will always be lookin'. Extendin' the exclusive responsibility of initiation to other aspects of contributin' to the situation is a recipe for loneliness.
