Chicks expecting you to pay when yall ain't dating *scust*

[PinotNoir]

If you are courting, sure. He explicitly said they are only friends and not courting her. You don't just pay for friends to do everything. Asking your friends if they coming out to the bar tonight does not mean that you are expected or required to pay the cover, uber and drinks. Theyre friends. Nothing more. Thats the point of his post. Why would a woman who is not being pursued expect him to pay for everything?

Let's be real here, HE obviously likes her as more than a friend. I standby what I said.

 

[Jahmal]

Dont invite jumpoffs out. You invite chicks you are actually dealing with. Just fukk her and stop trying to be her friend.

 

[NeilCartwright]

I don't blame you. There's too many women who want it all, and who just finesse free shyt bc they can.

Fck all that noise you shouldn't be ashamed to feel the way you do

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Women think that after giving you some p*ssy the automatically dont have to pay or do anything they think they can just stay

Yall women gotta realize we got options


Just copped my ticket also too op. Im going alone

 

[jackson35]

as a man, you should not be sweating spending money on a beautiful Nubian goddess, hell you already slept together so what the problem? learn how to take charge of the woman. she can get that type of treatment from her girl pals.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

If you've smashed of course she'll feel entitled. It'll be different if you've never touched her

LISTEN TO THIS MANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Shadow King]

It is what it is....

Just say you still believe in men paying then

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

If you're doing the asking out, um you should pay. Otherwise I'd assume you're broke and it'll def be a no.....

 

[Critical Distance]

People need to stop expecting shyt.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Drinks can easily cost over $40 tho when it's all said and done.

At least you offered that.

 

[Taadow]

Nicca you fucced it up by asking her out. You asked her out by saying:

"I'm going to the show, you should come too."
Dem's dating words, bruh.

It woulda been different if you said:
"Mobb Deep comin' dunness; imma go to that joint..." and didn't say nothing about her going.

And you said you would cover her drinks if she go? Nicca, y'all Infamous Dating.
She got you stuck off the dateness.

 

[Music Fiend]

I say this for men and women alike.

Stop being indirect! So many misunderstandings...

All u had to say OP was. Aye. Mob deeps comin. Tickets are $40, cop one and roll with us.

I mean I hate butches that do this, but nikkas really scared to show true intentions these days?

 

[KinksandCoils]

Sex changes things and makes it complicated. You inviting her out makes it seem like you want her. She was confused but her response was a bit out of pocket.

 

[At30wecashout]

"I'm all about me these days, I've been too nice to guys in the past & I'm done, sorry. If a man wants me he'll do whatever it takes to get me, I ain't going out of my way for nobody."

Would have deleted her contact info right there. Thats not proper convo for someone who isn't even dating you:mjpalm:hell, thats not proper, even though i'm a hypocrite cause
I said this to my ex:mjpalm:

She was entitled from jump. Don't think about it. Cut her off. Folks need to treat troublesome acquaintances like seasons and let them pass. Don't even entertain her.

 

[At30wecashout]

This is the only part of the story worthy of comment IMO.

Despite the misunderstandin', I never understand this statement from women. Are you datin' men you're actually interested in? Are y'all tryin' to get with EACH OTHER? Why do so many women look at the datin' game as men tryin' to get, women convinced to give?

Anyone interested in a fulfillin' relationship, not willin' to be about the other person, be nice, or go out of their way, will always be lookin'. Extendin' the exclusive responsibility of initiation to other aspects of contributin' to the situation is a recipe for loneliness.

Exactly. This is also to keep in mind when people start talking that "I'm the prize" bullshyt. In that case, they give you the go ahead to treat em like possessions

Possessions get used and discarded everyday, B.

Reciprocation and meeting halfway. All that other shyt is hurt showing itself, which is a red flag.