Chicks expecting you to pay when yall ain't dating *scust*
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Also couldve NOT paid, drank henny and smashed after the concert. Life is even EASIER for some of us.Sounded like an invite. If you invite, its courtesy to pay. Would have paid, drank henny and smashed after the concert. Life is easy for some of us.
O.T.I.S.
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Stopped reading after 2nd paragraph. You invited her so you pay nikkaSo yesterday I told this chick about Mobb Deep coming to DC next monthAnd I was pretty much like "yo i'm going to this show you should come too." It wasn't on some "hey let me take you out type shyt"
She's a friend that I've known for awhile, I used to hit it back in the day & she just broke up with some dude, so she's free to hang out now. We've NEVER dated, I've always just been like the guy that fukks her inbetween boyfriends
But anyway, when I tell her they were coming, she's like "Sure!
So I'm like aight cool, thinking we had an understanding.
So fast forward to today, I buy my ticket, they are like $40 after taxes. I text her like "Hey don't forget to get your ticket because they are selling kinda quick." She immediately text back like"You buy it since you're inviting me" I was like :really2::adrian: I told her that I would make sure there's henny on deck & would take care of drinks, but she gotta buy the ticket. (Keep in mind, WE AINT TOGETHER & I haven't fukked since she broke up with her last dude) She says "Oh i'll pass if I gotta pay."
Then she types a thesis talkin bout "I'm all about me these days, I've been too nice to guys in the past & I'm done, sorry. If a man wants me he'll do whatever it takes to get me, I ain't going out of my way for nobody."
I was literally reading this shyt like
I'm just reading this shyt like bytch I don't WANT you :cmonb: I was just inviting you to the show. And she should know better because we've known each other for so long. I'm not some new guy you're going on a first date with. Plus I'm going to the show whether she goes or not, I was just pretty much just extending an olive branch to her stankin ass.
So I basically told her "We'll see how you act leading up until the show" :rross:Basically saying if I hit it a few times before then, THEN WE WILL SEE :ronaldo: Still not guaranteeing shyt :weakaf:
But regardless, this bytch trippin.
Her expectations :raughs: That sense of entitlement :tonio:
Thoughts?
If you didn't like her like that then dont hit her up to do boyfriend/girlfriend shyt like that
except you're not.Also couldve NOT paid, drank henny and smashed after the concert. Life is even EASIER for some of us.
you one cheap ass nikka, u invited her 
nikka proud of himself cuz he saved $40 and went to a concert by himself
nikka proud of himself cuz he saved $40 and went to a concert by himself
If I couldve fukked by paying for concert tickets, TRUST that I can fukk without doing it, whether she came or not. Everyone doesnt have to trick money off on women to hang out. Especially their friends. Presumably, you are a charismatic guy who's company they enjoy and doesnt warrant you having to PAY for theirs. Again, everyone doesnt move like that. I dont pay to hang out with my friends.except you're not.
You can pay for a woman you are courting but anything else is being a trick. And maybe she's just NOT your friend if she only hangs out with you if you pay breh. I might get my boy if we go out for drinks because splitting checks is a pain and I know he got me next time. And thats far and few between. I treat my homegirls the same way. In fact, the last 5 times I can remember going out with a homegirl or another I wasnt pursuing, we split 3 times, one paid for me and another I paid because she had paid the last time we hung out.
These dudes sound like lunchboxes to these women.
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Reginald Noble
Banned
Its really this simple
Not this simple
bytches need to be checked on their behavior at every point and turn, even if you not dating them because then they take this fukkery to relationships and cause drama and trouble.
Reginald Noble
Banned
you one cheap ass nikka, u invited her
nikka proud of himself cuz he saved $40 and went to a concert by himself
You don't get it, he was being thoughtful (Which all bytches request these days) and she thought she could take advantage.
Give them an inch they will try to take a got damn yard.
Reginald Noble
Banned
u lost for replying to her thesis
if you had ignored her, shed be worshipping u right now
Doesn't work that way these days with the amount of SIMPs Women have accessible. I am gonna post about this now.
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
Why wasnt OP thoughtful bout telling her she had to buy her own ticket when asking her to join him?
It doesn't sound like she's going and it sounds like she thought you were inviting her. She also sounds like she's done putting out for nothing.
Some of y'all smoking that crack rock fukk does op have to pay her for if they are just friends nothing more nothing less. Granted I paid for a friend's ticket to go see uzi it was his birthday and he was broke as a joke
So if I want a friend to go with me somewhere, how do I ask them without also having to pay for them? If I want company, I have to pay for it?
That don't seem right...
sayyestothis
Free the guys
So yesterday I told this chick about Mobb Deep coming to DC next month
So fast forward to today, I buy my ticket, they are like $40 after taxes. I text her like "Hey don't forget to get your ticket because they are selling kinda quick." She immediately text back like
Then she types a thesis talkin bout "I'm all about me these days, I've been too nice to guys in the past & I'm done, sorry. If a man wants me he'll do whatever it takes to get me, I ain't going out of my way for nobody."
I was literally reading this shyt like
I'm just reading this shyt like bytch I don't WANT you :cmonb: I was just inviting you to the show. And she should know better because we've known each other for so long. I'm not some new guy you're going on a first date with. Plus I'm going to the show whether she goes or not, I was just pretty much just extending an olive branch to her stankin ass.
So I basically told her "We'll see how you act leading up until the show" :rross:Basically saying if I hit it a few times before then, THEN WE WILL SEE :ronaldo: Still not guaranteeing shyt :weakaf:
But regardless, this bytch trippin.
Her expectations :raughs: That sense of entitlement :tonio:
Thoughts?
So you wouldn't hook ur boy up with tix to go? just friends?
I mean this is common place. if I invite a couple out to a concert or to a game with my wife or my boys out in the same sense that means I'M paying for the tickets. it always comes back when they incite you out the next time.
I don't know maybe it's because I'm a grown ass man not worrying about hooking a buddy with $40.
Reginald Noble
Banned
Welcome to America in 2016 brehs
