Chicks expecting you to pay when yall ain't dating *scust*

1thouwow

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Since when is nikkas paying for friends to hang out? :dahell:


I had a situation like this and me in ol girl fell out for like 9 months. She end up giving me my money though. We friends now, too.
 

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Nikka are you retarded :ohhh:


I'm in college maybe you got a real job and she do but in college $40 ain't nun to just part with like it's nothing. That's a full tank of gas or almost a full tank with a haircut.


In college we invite people places for free and they got the drinks and allat. fukk I look like inviting folks somewhere then saying oh yea it's $50.

I'd say nikka hell nawl I'll just buy some weed and chill at home. But if u got me I'll go. And that's with my homies and female friends I ain't tryna fukk.


You gonna invite a female who u tryna fukk then expect her to pay...then act like she trippin? The paragraph was extra but you inviting her making it sound like a date is ur fault :yeshrug:
 

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why is it that if i invite her somewhere i gotta pay, i'd never pay for my male friends if i invited them to a concert nor would they expect it. why is it different if she is female and we're not together? Girl invited me to the movies this past weekend and was still expecting me to pay :pachaha: did buy some popcorn for us tho
 

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So yesterday I told this chick about Mobb Deep coming to DC next month :blessed: And I was pretty much like "yo i'm going to this show you should come too." It wasn't on some "hey let me take you out type shyt" :whoa: She's a friend that I've known for awhile, I used to hit it back in the day & she just broke up with some dude, so she's free to hang out now. We've NEVER dated, I've always just been like the guy that fukks her inbetween boyfriends :youngsabo: But anyway, when I tell her they were coming, she's like "Sure!:krs: So I'm like aight cool, thinking we had an understanding.

So fast forward to today, I buy my ticket, they are like $40 after taxes. I text her like "Hey don't forget to get your ticket because they are selling kinda quick." She immediately text back like :usure: "You buy it since you're inviting me" I was like :really2::adrian: I told her that I would make sure there's henny on deck & would take care of drinks, but she gotta buy the ticket. (Keep in mind, WE AINT TOGETHER & I haven't fukked since she broke up with her last dude) She says "Oh i'll pass if I gotta pay." :usure: I was just like bytch :dwillhuh:

Then she types a thesis talkin bout "I'm all about me these days, I've been too nice to guys in the past & I'm done, sorry. If a man wants me he'll do whatever it takes to get me, I ain't going out of my way for nobody."

I was literally reading this shyt like
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I'm just reading this shyt like bytch I don't WANT you :cmonb: I was just inviting you to the show. And she should know better because we've known each other for so long. I'm not some new guy you're going on a first date with. Plus I'm going to the show whether she goes or not, I was just pretty much just extending an olive branch to her stankin ass.
So I basically told her "We'll see how you act leading up until the show" :rross:Basically saying if I hit it a few times before then, THEN WE WILL SEE :ronaldo: Still not guaranteeing shyt :weakaf:

But regardless, this bytch trippin.

Her expectations :raughs: That sense of entitlement :tonio:

Thoughts?:jbhmm:
Pay the $40 and keep her in the fold so that you at lease have something to fukk in a dry spell. Also, obviously you thought she was good company which is why you invited her. It's only $40. Treat the broad.
 

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All this drip on me
Too keep it 100, I can honestly see how she misinterpreted your invite.

Think about it, she's already let you hit multiple times, so you're both obviously sexually attracted to each other and you (not her) initiated this & invited her to kick it with you.:yeshrug:


It's not that serious just chalk up as a simple misunderstanding.
 

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Sounded like an invite. If you invite, its courtesy to pay. Would have paid, drank henny and smashed after the concert. Life is easy for some of us. :manny:
 
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