Saturday I was at my girl crib chillin and was gonna stay the night, somehow her whole damn family almost was over there. It was about midnight and she had work in the morning, and I low key hate her bed because of how soft the mattress is and I wasn't tired so I was gonna go sit on the couch and play a game on my laptop. Somehow her mama homegirl(they been cool since they was teenagers) had got over there and she started talking to me. Took me about 5 seconds before I realized this bytch was full of that liquor and was gone off some powder. At first she was like 'I think y'all real good for each other, y'all a beautiful couple.' which was fine. Then she went left and said "You didn't have no history before you got with her, so I went and stalked your facebook page and saw that you have a son. I was like ok he got a son so what else is he trying to hide?' Mind you my son comes over there all the time to hang out with her nephew because they the same age, and my son lives with me now and I had to fight to be in my son's life, so the bytch was out of line.
So being that that's her mama homegirl and I wasn't trying to push it there, instead of cussing that bytch out I packed my shyt up and left. I told my girl when she asked why I was leaving that I just wanted to go sleep in my own bed. I wasn't trying to fukk up the peace of the house, and start no shyt between her and her mama homegirl cause what she said was disrespectful as shyt. So the next morning, my girl was like I'm feeling some type of way about you leaving at midnight. I'm still over here trying to maintain the peace and I just tell her I just wanted to sleep in my own bed. My girl ends up finding out the truth about what happened because her sister was in the bathroom ear hustlin the whole time this was going down. So my girl asked why I didn't just tell her and I told her I was just trying to maintain the peace, she been a family friend to y'all since y'all was babies so I didn't even wanna open up that can of worms.
This morning my girl message me saying she still upset with me and that I lied about that even when she told me that she felt some type of way. Said it makes her feel like she wants to put her guard up around me because 'I thought we could talk about anything, and you lied about something simple and that she was still upset with me.' It was a big ole wall of text. I just simply replied with 'Ok' and called it a day and we haven't talked since. Am I trippin cause I feel like my girl needs to let this shyt go cause at the end of the day I'm the only victim in this situation and I been trying to be the bigger person here. I really don't feel like I'm wrong in what I did, and I was perfectly justified in how I handled the situation. Am I the a$$hole or is my girl trippin?
