Why the hell would you be?! Who knows themselves at 20? Lmao! Betta yet what MAN do you know is ready at that age? Seriously, stats show blk people tend to marry at a later age. Our community has a lot more financial kinks to iron out before rushing into marriage. This ain't West VirginiaI agree with you, but why the woman in the OP was not serious like that between 20-26?
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timothy_strickland
BRUHZ
Find a quality, mature, successful; older man in his 30s/early 40s who is ready to settle. A lot of 20 yo females really want a fly swag nikka their own age, but this type of dude aint the right guy for them .Older men-younger women couples provide stability, in financial and emotional terms, to the black family unit. And healthy kids are born out of young mothers exclusively. 35+ women only have retarded kids(when they try to have their first kid at 35+), if they are even able to have kids in the first place. I mean 90% of their eggs are gone by 30 yo.
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Unfortunately, a lot of men even in that age range aren't looking to settle down. Also the generational gap and compatibility has to be taken into account. And maturity as well. I think a lot of divorces come from marrying too soon, too young.
In fact studies show that married women ages 20-29 have the highest divorce rates while women 30 and over have lower ones. So all this advice for women to marry sooner is really a moot point and counterproductive.
32 Shocking Divorce Statistics - McKinley Irvin
32 Shocking Divorce Statistics - McKinley Irvin
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Elle Driver
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Maybe she hasn't figured shyt out, she's in school, she doesn't have time to focus on a relationship? I don't know. Women aren't always out there getting dogged out and wanting a man to save them. You know sometimes you're just working through grad school, your doctorate, and post doc and maybe men don't like that you can't focus on them. Or if you can, they just don't wanna stick with you like that. So you rush into a marriage, sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn't.I agree with you, but why the woman in the OP was not serious like that between 20-26?
I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman waiting it out for marriage when she is ready and settled in life too. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. You'd be hard pressed to find someone straight out of college wanting to settle down and have kids, along with the fact that you might wanna go further along in school and marriage/kids gets in the way. Not everyone trying to turn up. So what if a woman wants to make the most of her youthful years? She doesn't owe a man that, and a lot of dudes on here say a man in his 20s don't wanna settle down either.
Elle Driver
Veteran
People often don't associate marriage with stability.
MalikReloaded
All Star
After reading that she was in a 9 year relationship I can see why she wants to know if OP is marriage minded or just trying to get the dikk wet on a regular basis.
If she doesn't have kids then she might want kids and knows that after 35 the baby making tools get rusty and defective. So I can't blame a woman for curving dudes that just want to fukk as friends and she is 32 trying to build a family and never had kids before.
Sometimes as men, we need to stop thinking with our dikks and analyze the situation. Don't treat 28+ women like their 21 and have time to fukk around cause they literally cant. shyt is time sensitive, fukk a young thot if you are thirsty, but I think most cats prey on older women because they assume their despite for dikk.
If she doesn't have kids then she might want kids and knows that after 35 the baby making tools get rusty and defective. So I can't blame a woman for curving dudes that just want to fukk as friends and she is 32 trying to build a family and never had kids before.
Sometimes as men, we need to stop thinking with our dikks and analyze the situation. Don't treat 28+ women like their 21 and have time to fukk around cause they literally cant. shyt is time sensitive, fukk a young thot if you are thirsty, but I think most cats prey on older women because they assume their despite for dikk.
That biological clock is about to denote around that age with no ring. It's pretty much involuntary by that point. 
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
Broads in the age range about to hit that "wall" shyt goes downhill for a broad after 30
Exactly. You never let a man waste your time especially not for that long she could have been in 4 relationships where at least one would have resulted in marriage.
Pretty much.
That's with ugly ass American women Asian women look secky even in there 60s and there body stay slim
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Jack Trippa 3z company ho
Superstar
A week is way too soon for these types of questions/commitments.
These broads try to sink their talons in quickly.
These broads try to sink their talons in quickly.