9 year relationship?Why do women do that to themselves? If your goal is marriage, and he hasn't proposed after MAX year 4 he is not trying to marry you.
Well she damn sure isn't gonna let that happen again. She's all fukked up.
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Well she damn sure isn't gonna let that happen again. She's all fukked up.
Well I hope he would have some tact about it.
"I'm not really into casual relationships so if that's what you are looking for then let's not even waste time."
"I'm not saying we have to get married, but I date with purpose. I'm looking for a wife, not a concubine. If that's a deal breaker then I understand but that is not something I am willing to compromise on."
Yes, I would be 100% comfortable with that.
I will add that I got married one year after my husband and I had our first date so I am not really on that "I need years to decide if I am into you" schtick. American dating practices are. Yes, I am American as is my husband.
Me too 
and I whole heartedly agree
I wouldn't want to talk marriage with someone I just met either.
You don't arrange for the marriage to happen, you start dating and get in a relationship and then the next point is marriage.
If he's known her for a week she probably doesn't even know if they're moving toward a friendship or if they're toward a relationship.
The whole point of "dating" is courting someone to see if you want to marry them, not setting up that you need to be married to them.
This is probably a recently acquired attitude on her part, otherwise she'd already be married.
Sounds like she asked you straight up, you gave an answer, you want to different things 
A lot of women no matter what age, if you are chilling with them regularly and having sex with them want to define it no matter what age. Especially when sex is involved. Just a women around that age is more likely to tell you its not gonna work vs. try to still turn it into something and be strung along.
A lot of women no matter what age, if you are chilling with them regularly and having sex with them want to define it no matter what age. Especially when sex is involved. Just a women around that age is more likely to tell you its not gonna work vs. try to still turn it into something and be strung along.
I agree to an extent... I don't see a problem with asking someone if marriage is off the table for them... Many men don't want marriage these days... Nothing wrong with figuring it out early...
I think the tact and level of communication used by the lady was off putting; but discussing viewpoints on marriage is pivotal and should be done early
Well I hope he would have some tact about it.
"I'm not really into casual relationships so if that's what you are looking for then let's not even waste time."
"I'm not saying we have to get married, but I date with purpose. I'm looking for a wife, not a concubine. If that's a deal breaker then I understand but that is not something I am willing to compromise on."
Yes, I would be 100% comfortable with that.
I will add that I got married one year after my husband and I had our first date so I am not really on that "I need years to decide if I am into you" schtick. American dating practices are
I wish you and your husband the best.
Sounds like she asked you straight up, you gave an answer, you want to different things
A lot of women no matter what age, if you are chilling with them regularly and having sex with them want to define it no matter what age. Especially when sex is involved. Just a women around that age is more likely to tell you its not gonna work vs. try to still turn it into something and be strung along.
Women under 25 don't trip like that. At least not the ones I deal with.
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Boy you know you better watch out some girls some girls are only about that ring that ring that riiiinngggg
Me, my friends and peers have been asking men "What are we?" "You have sex with me we go together" since I was in college. Some of those same women just had fun with some guys. It just depends. But it was definitely happening especially if they weren't the sleep around types...or thought they weren't
I'm 50/50 on this. You shouldn't have to rush into things, but you should know where you want the relationship to go.
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Fall in love and decide this is the man you want for life after a week brehettes
You're definitely right, talking about it early is keep to gauging personality. The way she did it probably the reason she continues to be single, though.
People who are Day 1 "I'm going to marry you," are not people I view as stable ordinarily. I want to grow in a relationship that inevitably leads to marriage, as do the vast majority of people.
timothy_strickland
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28-34 women trying to get serious and get a man longterm lawst.
They should have done this between 20-27. 20-27 waste their time on silly games and silly nikkas. 20-27 the time for women to get married, have healthy kids, but but but i want to take thirst traps on instagram and be on fleek at the clubs. Social media likes are important. Lookinh better than the other bytches . Having better things and more likes than the other bytches are important. The more time passes, the less women have access to quality dudes. At 19-20 a pretty woman has a lot of options. By 30 the good nikkas are scarce and difficult to find, more single dads, more nikkas with their shyt together but they are married, in a longterm relationship, or a single bachelor living the fast life with side chicks. And the swagless lames but even a 30 yo woman doesnt want them despite their availability....
30+ is too late, the new generation of young prime women are taking over and are receiving all the attention, from most men.
Maybe a captain save a ho with no swag might take you, but dont expect a good catch because these types of men aint taking you seriously like that. Take the swagless average dude or single father and go home.
They should have done this between 20-27. 20-27 waste their time on silly games and silly nikkas. 20-27 the time for women to get married, have healthy kids, but but but i want to take thirst traps on instagram and be on fleek at the clubs. Social media likes are important. Lookinh better than the other bytches . Having better things and more likes than the other bytches are important. The more time passes, the less women have access to quality dudes. At 19-20 a pretty woman has a lot of options. By 30 the good nikkas are scarce and difficult to find, more single dads, more nikkas with their shyt together but they are married, in a longterm relationship, or a single bachelor living the fast life with side chicks. And the swagless lames but even a 30 yo woman doesnt want them despite their availability....
30+ is too late, the new generation of young prime women are taking over and are receiving all the attention, from most men.
Maybe a captain save a ho with no swag might take you, but dont expect a good catch because these types of men aint taking you seriously like that. Take the swagless average dude or single father and go home.
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timothy_strickland
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Women should be more upfront about what they want. Nobody has time and emotions to waste. If you feel pressured by that, then you aren't the one for her. Don't waste her time.
There are men looking for wives, if you aren't one of them them then
She messed up by even entertaining you in the first place before having this discussion. That should have been said from jump.
I agree with you, but why the woman in the OP was not serious like that between 20-26?
It more or less about being tired of the games. If u want ass then get a chick who just wants to give you ass. If you want to build something serious then do so.
But the whole "just fukking" shyt gets old. And stop shaming women out of having common sense.
It's great that chicks are upfront. No bullying about it. We want to know ur intentions before we waste too much time on you.
But the whole "just fukking" shyt gets old. And stop shaming women out of having common sense.
It's great that chicks are upfront. No bullying about it. We want to know ur intentions before we waste too much time on you.