Dysfunction or growing up and be a man ? adults sadly these days are infantized and there growth is stunted.And we are seeing the results of that....and my stepson was not under my roof..he cameto Florida with my son and told me he was done with Alabama went to school in Florida and handled his buisness he had employment no children and living life thats what grown people do not lay up under their parents like a pet... get your own place like the generations before you.Is walking around butt naked in a hovel really the flex people think it is?! Let's be reality, nearly all people's first spots ain't worth the rent being paid let alone bragging about. All of what you spoke on speaks to a deeper dysfunction. We all know a folk or two who moved out and never moved back to their own detriment most of the time.......success stories aren't prevalent like that and they aren't random.......being setup to succeed before doing so guarantees you don't have to take off that false king crown and run back with your tail tucked or worse, refuse to swallow that pride and committing heinous acts.......we all familiar with #rentsdue at this point.......numerous testimonials of people needing to have they own shyt, or couldn't be respectful enough of a shared space to not act up.......them kids only doing what they been allowed to do.....that's a different thread though........FYI that little nikka is fueled by the power of a thousand suns to not end up back under your roof.............ain't no telling what he been doing to make sure that don't happen