Why Are Most Couples Breaking Up Right After Having A Baby?

[1thouwow]

Live life?

That's the best you can come up with?

You have no proof of this. You probably encountered a few couples here and there and decided to make a general assessment based on a very small sample size.

Ok so I’m wrong and everybody else in this thread that are adding their input don’t see the same shyt I see

 

[shutterguy]

from what I heard, a woman's hormones changes CONSIDERABLY during/after the pregnancy to the point where some nikkas simply can't take it...younger couples are def at risk of this happening..


Now some relationships aren't meant to be or never was

I was just talking to my homie about this, he is married with 2 kids, he told me after wifey had her pregnancy she was damn near intolerable for a little over year afterwards. They almost called it quits, took some therapy.

 

[Big D Bangston]

when you bring another life into the picture, it tends to change things

 

[Mindfield333]

They have a kid and then shortly after they realize they don't really fukk with each other like that

Them weeks they can’t have sex be breaking them. In addition to the baby crying and shytting

 

[Marci-Senpai]

No relationship without a foundation in God will last…Lust is a deceiver and is brewed from the father of lies

 

[85 East]

Lack of sleep and post partem.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

 

[Bumblebreh]

For alot of modern women, their only goal is to have a child

Once they have the child, the man is considered useless or a bonus

If she thinks being a single parent is better, he is probably is useless.

 

[360dagod]

If she thinks being a single parent is better, he is probably is useless.

He was useless when he nutted in her...

All she wanted was a baby

 

[Bumblebreh]

He was useless when he nutted in her...

All she wanted was a baby

Intentionally becoming a single mother with no support is madness.

 

[dr. pill biden]

i don’t think its a conscious decision made out of malice or evil but i really do believe they want the baby and the nikka is disposable

all the women in my family who had children out of wedlock broke up within the first 6 mos—year. no surprise: all the fathers were low-investment bums from jump. then suddenly a magical revelation happened once the baby came and she “finds her worth” and leaves. 8 out of 10 homegirls that are BMs did the same thing

no way it’s shytty diapers causing the breakup every single time. its a fundamental belief in the psyche that they don’t need a man combined with their primitive instinct to reproduce

 

[ItsPeople]

Child in marriage > child outside marriage

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Because people had children for selfish ass reasons
One being that they thought a baby could fix the deficiencies in their relationship
Ie Keep a nikka baby(a lot of you nikkas were products of this pairing. It shows in your post.)
Or one of the people involved in said relationship thought a child could fix a “void” in them
Pressured by their parents and peer group because everything on the surface looked like that couple had everything going for them
When in actuality that relationship was big trash at home
Postpartum sinks in and can test the fukk out of both individuals
Especially if breh is a stand up dude, increases his workload to provide but a woman doesn’t want to be home alone all by herself and feel like she’s doing it by herself(one reason for my divorce)
But most importantly,
People having children that had no business in the first place
That goes for both men and women

 

[the bossman]

For alot of modern women, their only goal is to have a child

Once they have the child, the man is considered useless or a bonus

Very very true. Needs to be talked about more amongst brehs before they get caught up. What signs to look out for and such

 

[Ohene]

The quicker you realize most women just want the kids and don't care about you, the better.

For alot of modern women, their only goal is to have a child

Once they have the child, the man is considered useless or a bonus

this is what i was going to say

a lot of women are actually willing to have babies via a sperm donor and raise them alone. a lot of these women dont give a fukk about having a male presence around for the child or a companion for themselves