Why Are Most Couples Breaking Up Right After Having A Baby?

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ah that’s on the breh to anticipate. Would be a fool to expect ya girl to be rainbows and sunshine with somethin’ growing inside her.

Not saying you should be a slave for ya woman but :manny:

That is true..

Men who don't have good temperament should probably think twice..lol
 

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I feel like Insecure covered this topic pretty well in the last season. Lot of women feel like the baby is theirs alone and unknowingly leave men out of intimate decisions. Lot of men also don't take into consideration the minute to minute and day by day involvement it takes to raise a bad ass kid, along with emotional changes and post partum etc.

How many men are gonna sit there rocking a baby to sleep and letting it rest on their chest for long periods of time? How many women are gonna ask a man to get formula and pull her titty out just in case she forgets when it starts crying late at night?
 

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Because having a baby means your needs take a backseat and most are selfish pricks.

A baby will push your limits. So you got 2 frustrated ass people living with each other...no sex for a hot minute after delivery as well. A lot of the things you used to do are gone. It's tough.
 

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A lot of people think a baby will fix an already dying relationship.

All it does is speed up the end.

It's utterly poor judgement on both people's parts to bring a child into this world knowing you're not really serious.

This,


or he finds out it ain't his baby.
 

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It's not that.. the relationship was already fukked before. The woman thinks having a kid together will solve the problems.. it never does.
 
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