because when you have a baby it becomes solely about the baby and nothing else. Couples neglect to spend time with each other and slowly grow apart.
Why Are Most Couples Breaking Up Right After Having A Baby?
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I always heard it was the chick getting fat after pregnancy.
I see so many fat sloppy wives with in shape dudes in the army. Lol.
Thats on the dude though. Just like chicks fail to project forward dudes dont either. If she 5', 150 and thick as fukk what you think gonna happen after she get pregnant? If she dont do shyt but eat and lay around, what you think gonna happen when she get pregnant? I know plenty of chicks that look great right after the baby drop. Some of it is genetics (which you need to be thoughtful of if you breeding) and a lot of it is lifestyle.
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People really not understanding how much time, money and energy goes into raising kids
I get generation trauma and doing only what you know. But especially if you grew up struggling in a single parent house hold, why would you think having kids.
I get generation trauma and doing only what you know. But especially if you grew up struggling in a single parent house hold, why would you think having kids.
- When you don't own a house or have the space.
- Don't have a proper job to hold you down
- Think things just magically happen and work themselves out in this life, when that's never been the case
A child will amplify/magnify problems in the relationship that already existed. If you all were on shaky ground to begin with, a baby will really cause problems.
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One thing a man better figure out is do you agree with how this woman wants to raise her kids.
Because if you don't, you're not going to stay together.
You have to ask her about what she believes, what type of school, what do they want the kids to learn, before having a baby with any woman.
But nikkas don't think ahead, they just want in those watery guts.
Because if you don't, you're not going to stay together.
You have to ask her about what she believes, what type of school, what do they want the kids to learn, before having a baby with any woman.
But nikkas don't think ahead, they just want in those watery guts.
Basically. A lot of times you get that pregnancy trap baby.
The couple gets through the pregnancy and realizes shyt still broken and now you're sleepy on top.
Speaking off the cuff.
You have relationships that were doomed to fail. They were fighting before the baby, they don't really know each other, substance abuse etc. Having a baby doesn't fix the issue, it just adds to the number of problems in a relationship.
You have relationships that break under the added stress of children. Their is a lack of communication, couples start to resent each other, affairs happen etc.
In my opinion, it feels like a bit of a pointless question. Once you realise that babies don't save relationships, it a basically a question of why do relationships come to an end. To which, the answer is there are many different reasons.
You have relationships that were doomed to fail. They were fighting before the baby, they don't really know each other, substance abuse etc. Having a baby doesn't fix the issue, it just adds to the number of problems in a relationship.
You have relationships that break under the added stress of children. Their is a lack of communication, couples start to resent each other, affairs happen etc.
In my opinion, it feels like a bit of a pointless question. Once you realise that babies don't save relationships, it a basically a question of why do relationships come to an end. To which, the answer is there are many different reasons.
My wife got more submissive after the baby.
Cooking game went from an 8 to a 10. House getting cleaned at least once a week. One time I literally had to pry her from the stove because tired as she was, she was determined to finish cooking.
She didn’t gain a lick of weight but I’m thinking of firing off another one in her to see it was just a fluke.
Cooking game went from an 8 to a 10. House getting cleaned at least once a week. One time I literally had to pry her from the stove because tired as she was, she was determined to finish cooking.
She didn’t gain a lick of weight but I’m thinking of firing off another one in her to see it was just a fluke.
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