Why Are Most Couples Breaking Up Right After Having A Baby?

[Chrishaune]

thats a wild outlook breh breh

It's the truth.

 

[GreenGhxst]

It's the truth.

its not, its a very frigid outlook based on internet culture and anecdotal experiences

stop

 

[perfectblack999]

need to see some data on this, but in summary, parenthood is NO JOKE. If you don’t have a solid foundation, you won’t make it. Both partners have to sacrifice a lot

 

[Chrishaune]

its not, its a very frigid outlook based on internet culture and anecdotal experiences

stop

ok

 

[Jcotton1]

Well it makes since why put the cart b4 the horse? That post clarity is a monster on both sides. Must be 2 side Shawty Lo voice.



I've told some classmates they were idiots and wouldn't be crying in Child support court if they did followed the steps ie following your life's purpose.

You cannot cheat life thinking you can hit a lick. If u want a kid that bad go be a mentor. Heck if u want it go find an old broad and pay 4 it.

You got broke individuals joining together and creating a kid. That doesn't make good sense. It's like buying a Benz and you cannot afford rent.

 

[1thouwow]

"Most" couples or "More" couples?

Show me the data

Yall nikkas always want some stats. Go live life and you’ll see this is true

 

[FluffyEyes]

Even in the most rock solid and healthiest of relationships a baby is gonna test the limits. You have one person who just carried and pushed a human out(or had it cut out of her uterus)and another person (hopefully) trying to support her through that and no one REALLY knows what they're doing.

The lack of sleep alone is killer, adding common issues like lack of money or an already rocky/toxic relationship is a death knell.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Its usually woman gets preg. Man says he doesnt want it/Not ready.

He gives her ultimatum Shes has it anyway. He deads the relationship.

It does happen alot. My cowoker just went thru this. Shes seems leveled headed and very mature to me.

But a baby will quickly test the dedication and strength of a relationship. shyt fast forward the shyt 3-4 yrs.

Surprised this didn't get many daps. I honestly think this is a great majority on why there's so many single mothers. You fukk a woman enough times and she'll fall in love. If you handsome she falling in love day 1

 

[WesCrook]

Yall nikkas always want some stats. Go live life and you’ll see this is true

Live life?

That's the best you can come up with?

You have no proof of this. You probably encountered a few couples here and there and decided to make a general assessment based on a very small sample size.

 

[Amo Husserl]

instant gratification is gone once baby comes along

 

[Striving For Greatness]

Her belly turned into a big wrinkly sack after the pregnancy

 

[Bumblebreh]

a baby is a true commitment and testament to a relationship’s health.

true colors are revealed and they split.

-Lack of sleep
-Lack of finances
-Lack of sex
-Lack of alone time
-Hormonal changes
-Incompatible parenting styles
-Being an actual parent is a full time job with no days off

 

[levitate]

It’s easy and stress free to fukk.
It’s not easy nor stress free to raise a child.

 

[UpAndComing]

For alot of modern women, their only goal is to have a child

Once they have the child, the man is considered useless or a bonus

 

[Legend27]

Most women want that thug alpha male seed. Before pregnancy she be hot n ready.

After pregnancy her hormones force her to want a soft man more fit for raising children.

You see this on a daily basis all the time. The research does not lie.

Post the research then