Real shyt. That's why I dont even bother to even mingle like that because a lot of gay dudes have suicidal tendencies. They looking at anybody who wants to live a long healthy life funny. They literally are resigned to living a miserable life revolving around sec and loneliness. Just the other day I was on grindr after a month hiatus just peeping what's going on and this one dude messaged me. This man wrote in his profile that he was a sociopath that was intentionally infecting other gay guys with hiv and herpes without telling them shyt and now he was doing the same thing but being honest about it. After that shyt, I deleted the app and refuse to go back. Imagine how many other guys like that are on there that arent telling.
I've had a few hiv poz dudes all pushing themselves on me talking about let's have unprotected sex because i'm on this new viral drug that decreases me spreading it and I was like
hell even now. One of my homeboys was hitting me with that there's no point in being on a monogamous relationship and seeing how dudes left and right are in open marriages abs relationships. Seriously... I understand if it were some folks but for it to be the norm where it's expected and people shaming you for wanting to not do that shyt like.... "you're being a puritan" or you have issues with you send because you're not willing sharing yourself with someone else besides the man you want to be in a relationship with is disturbing to me.