Cause I am willing to admit that for most things, there is no strict right or wrong.
I couldn't really care about that happening because I don't know the context. Were the friends? Is this some random dikkhead in a club?
Is she the type to typically
accept degrading advances from men?
No, it isn't a compliment, but he may think it is. Imagine the guy has been with 6 white women in his life who were dead fish, and his black coworker one day
comes around on some
"Bet you wish you could get a sista, huh? The GOAT women
"
White guy was always intimidated by black women (media messages) but one day gets some liquid courage and utters those words. Once again, variables dictate
intent, even if what he said is ignorant in any context. Imagine im in an all white neighborhood. I say the following term with the same inflection.
"Look at all these white women." Depending on the face
"Look at all these white women
"
or
"Look at all these white women
" Least you have an idea what I was thinking.
White guy might just be swagless and THOUGHT that was a compliment, and the chick might have just been glad to get some attention(is she slim? Overweight and been lonely for a bit? Whats the variable?) Iunno, your example is valid, but telling me that one lady is fetishizing me for my penis size
and complexion when I have heard much the same things come from the mouths of different types of women....