What's wrong with being lusted over

[notwhoiusedtobe]

Nothing is wrong with being lusted after by someone who sees you as a human being and not some damn kink or exotic creature to stare at

Legit every - except for like one East Asian and a South American - woman who was ever interested in me in hs or college was a straight white girl looking to experiment. If you're the type of person who just wants sex no matter what the motive/relationship, then do you. But that's not who I am or how I was raised.

 

[The_Truth]

Okay, let's get one simple fact straight which should've been made at the beginning of this thread.

Objectively speaking, there is nothing wrong with fetishes. And there is nothing wrong with finding nothing wrong with being the subject of someone's fetish. People have the right to whatever kinky fantasies they may hold. People have the right to be sexually attracted to whoever for whatever reason. Fetishes can be rooted in anything. It's really not complicated. It becomes complicated when people interject social-political issues into the bedroom. And you'll never enjoy sex if you always politicize it.

It's only a problem if you derive a sense of self-worth from being a fetish. Some people base their self-esteem on being objectified and THAT I do not agree with at all.

 

[Yup]

Asian Women don't start out lusting for Black Men, but once they've had a taste they usually can't get enough. And an Asian Man will never stack-up. It is not because of the dikk size either.

Mmkay. You can have an asian wife without deriding the men.

Asian men have no problem with fertility or providing for their families. So yes id say many of them stack up quite well...

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

all tall guys get fetishized if you prudes wanna talk about objectification

 

[DPresidential]

It's wrong because it's just crumbs.

Being only seen as a fetish is nothing to brag about if they only value us sexually.

Just fukk them if thats what you want to do lol. No reason to give them props.

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[Ghanaian Armor]

So yes id say many of them stack up quite well...

You sicken me with your ignorant statements

Have you even interacted with Chinese Men?

Why do Black Women always have to talk about shyt they don't know? I grew up around these people.

 

[GiGi]

Most black men do not "get it" that being fethisized as a primitive tool of a white woman's sexual pleasure is also racist. Being a BedBuck™ is winning in their eyes

 

[mrken12]

Most black men do not "get it" that being fethisized as a primitive tool of a white woman's sexual pleasure is also racist. Being a BedBuck™ is winning in their eyes

This Snorlax looking trollop came out of hiding?

 

[Lewis Black]

I'm sorry but it's 2015 and from now on I want change! Why should I be ashamed cos I got a BBC . Nah fukk that shyt *unzips pants* shyt finna change round here

Finna be 2018 soon goddamn