it's personality types...I'm sure I could get more women, easily, it's not a looks or a money or a whatever issue, but I'm shy, self conscious, anxious, and I don't drink/drugs, so it takes a lot to talk to a women I am interested in, not as easy for me, but he other part is I don't want to talk to some retarded idiot every weekend, just to sleep with her, the ends don't justify the means.
I'm sure you'l get mixed responses here but I look at my friends that live for that shyt, and they put in work, it's a laybrinth of schemes and bullshytting, manipulation, sacrifices, it's a whole project, just not my thing. They approach that like a military operation and shyt. I will once in awhile, but I don't have the patience, to sit and talk with some brain dead club bytch every weekend....now, if they are smart, interesting, attractive, cool, I probably just need to meet more women like that.