What's The Appeal of Smashing A Ton of Chicks?

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It's been explained thoroughly, but let me just add my two cents. It's the same reason people do anything challenging. What's the thrill in going fishing and tossing the fish back into the water after you went through all the trouble of catching it? Or climbing Mt. Everest only to come right back down after doing so? Man, throughout history, has set goals and attempted to conquer them. It's what we do.

It's not just ONE reason though. The thrill of bagging a new chick and having NO idea what you're about to experience is a thrill in itself. Peeling off those panties for the first time has you feeling like a kid again on Christmas, wondering what's inside that nicely wrapped box. The thrill is in the not knowing.

Also, I can't really speak for anyone else, but conversing with attractive women and them showing signs of sexual attraction in return is a form of validation. No, I don't have low self esteem. No, I'm not allowing my self-worth to be determined by random strangers of the opposite sex. But it certainly builds confidence and let's you know where you stand in the big scheme of things. Someone can think the world of themselves and feel like they deserve the baddest chick out all from the comforts of their momma's couch, but how do you actually KNOW until you go out and have a female of that caliber actually show interest in you? So it's kind of a self evaluation or assessment that let's you know where you fit in on the potential-mate hierarchy.

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you contradicted the hell out of yourself here....

how can something build your confidence and you not allow it to determine your self worth at the same time....

i know what youre trying to say....my question is do you?

just say...you like pulliing and smashing new broads becuz you already have the confidence to do so....and you love the thrill of it....

which i completely understand

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lol you right. I think maybe initially when you're younger and your psyche is probably a bit more fragile, it could have that effect. But I've been single for a minute, so I feel like once you've had a decent level of success with attracting good looking women, it doesn't affect you to that same extent. If I pull a bad chick, obviously I'd feel good about doing so, and it would let me know that I'm capable of doing such, but it wouldn't have such a dramatic impact on me (even if that same woman was to turn me down in an embarrassing fashion) to where I'd have a different opinion of myself.

I think the distinction lies in the fact that when I say a positive experience gives you confidence, I'm more so referring to the specific act of picking up an attractive female. So it goes to more of a reflection of how you believe women perceive you; as opposed to self-worth, which is how one would perceive himself. But I can see how interactions with women could play a part in determining how one perceives himself, so I suppose you're right.



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One of you nikkas change your screename :mindblown: I just now noticed youre two different posters :dwillhuh:
 
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One of you nikkas change your screename :mindblown: I just now noticed youre two different posters :dwillhuh:

that nikka took my name after i had already created it...notice he doesnt have spaces....

nah...im good...we usually dont post in the same threads....different interests i guess...:ld:
 

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To be able to justify a vapid existence by feeding ones own ego.


After you done smashed a good amount it gets played tho cuz women aren't really that much of a challenge to conquer, control, or smash.:manny:
 

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getting off>>>>>>>>>

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I feel the same way I don't see the thrill of having multiple women over and over again I mean for awhile it would be nice but that would get boring to me.
 

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I don't know the appeal of putting up with the bullshyt of chase...or women in general when I have my porn and my left hand willing and ready :ehh:
 

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I don't know the appeal of putting up with the bullshyt of chase...or women in general when I have my porn and my left hand willing and ready :ehh:

don't you feel like a loser when your have own mess in your hands after watching porn?:jada:
 
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