What would you do if a dude blatantly DISRESPECTS your girl while she's WITH YOU?

[KingHelga]

i'd tell him we need to get out of here. i get messed up from strangers touching me in non-sexual places so being sexually assaulted + watching my bf get beat up would be too much for one day

also who is to say that when my bf is laid out that big dude won't walk back up to me like "time to go"

 

[rapdonttweet]

Some of y'all are talking about getting into a fight or coming back later with backup. fukk that. This isn't high school. I don't know some random dude off the street or what he's capable of. Any man is capable of killing another man, whether its someone looking like Bob Sapp or a wimpy nerd who buys a gun. I'm not scared of taking an ass whooping, I AM scared of getting killed or permanently injured. That's why I'd try to avoid a fight whenever possible.

 

[Duhmarcus Danderstein]

i'd tell him we need to get out of here. i get messed up from strangers touching me in non-sexual places so being sexually assaulted + watching my bf get beat up would be too much for one day

also who is to say that when my bf is laid out that big dude won't walk back up to me like "time to go"

Damn patackey... i commend you on your dikktion.

Cuz there are some crazy broads that ALLOW that shiit to happen, just to see what yo ass gon' do (for instance, not reject a guy when you're with her and then have the nerve to give him her digits directly in front of you - blatant disrespect).

I say the above is due to a personal experience i had when i dated a crazy bytch.

We were dating for about 6 months already and i finally wanted to introduce her to my friends. As we all sat down at a lounge's rooftop, this one cat swooped into the scene and starting talking to her, not acknowledging the fact that i was her dude (then again, i was a difference race so he assumed i was prolly just an acquaintance).

Bottom line, right then and there, i told him i was with her and he understood, complied and walked away.

Later on in the night, i saw them BOTH DANCING WITH EACHOTHER!

I was like WTF?!?!?!?!

Next thing you know, i'm hemming dude up and security had to escort me like i was a hoe or something (but these bouncers couldn't hole me back, -and they ultimately did cuz- THESE BOUNCERS WAS JUST SWOLE AND BLACK!). .


It was fukked up cuz later on during our relationship, if i did something to piss her off, she would do shyt like say, "I'm going to (guy from the lounge's) house to stay at tonight."




It was psychologically taxing on the kid.


Thing was, i held on cuz the sex was incredible - but in retrospect, i wouldn't do it again. Worst experience in my life. Was gonna do something tumtamble.


But we still here.


We in here.


*in pastor troy voice*


"WEEEE... AIN'T.... PLLAAAYYYINNN'!!!!"







.

 

[Nintendough]

I'm slapping that kufi to another planet.








Now I might end up getting bodied if dude is bob sapp status but its the principal.

 

[So-Chi]

this is a tough scenario. Ive honestly had a similar type of situation happen before to me. A few years back I was out in Vegas leaving the club with my chick. Im walkin down the strip and 4 drunk azz dudes started talkin shyt to the chick I was with. Like these fools were saying real disrespectful shyt talking about how phat her azz was and carryin on. Of course, I stop like "what nygga?"

I was so gatdamn heated that these MFs would disrespect me like that I was ready to scrap in the middle of the street in front of Planet Hollywood. I tuck my chain in, tighten up my belt and realize that 1 of these MFs pulls out a knife.

I acted like I didnt see that shyt, I grabbed my chicks hand, did a 360 and walked my black azz back into the casino as a yelled "fucc yall nyggaz"

nyggaz can say I punked out, but that night I played it smart. Why risk 1 of them cats slicing me or my chick up? Maybe I would have tried to fight 4 of em if i didnt see the knife, who knows.

sometimes u gotta think smart and think with your head and swallow your pride.

First that Larry Merchant smiley was probably a PERFECT facial expression for that moment. 2 that was a smart move, fam. I feel you, I got kids...if my woman or myself is in danger, I fight to the death. If there is no danger unless i press a stupid situation, I find the best way to make it home to my kids. If I get killed, who's protecting them and my lady then?

 

[NonPareil]

I actually had this happen last year outside a club. My girl slapped him, he cocked his arm back and i put his ass to sleep. Latina broads stay bringing this kind of drama

 

[Brandon M.]

I would yell at my girl " Go WAIT IN THE CAR!!!!, GO WAIT IN THE CAR!!!"

and of course shes not going to do that , so ima just walk off and tell her i was whoop his ass but ur ass aint wanna go to car, i aint tryna get u hit girl!!

play it off like that

 

[BrothaZay]

shoot him a fade regardless if i get my ass kicked. i'd fight anybody. i dont care.

@ThugLife

 

[ThugLife]

shoot him a fade regardless if i get my ass kicked. i'd fight anybody. i dont care.

You wont fight me doe p*ssy meet me at Alapada Station faggit :bosh:

 

[mson]

If you really want to play it safe: try not to smile so much when you with your girl.


Shady individuals are usually subconsciously under the impression that a joyous/gleeful demeanor as a sign of weakness (and i know that's gon' be tough to convey cuz you all smitten and on cloud nine - 'specially if the babe new, but you just gotta keep that shiit internal 'till y'all isolated from any potential dangers).

For me? I've seldom been tested like that cuz like the yellow portion of an egg; i'm yoked.

But if presented with that type of sitchayshun? If i can't walk away without feeling like my manhood/dignity would be compromised and it escalated to such great heights (cuz they kept testin' me. S.A.T's), best believe:


Like leftover food... i'm gon' scrap!


In hindsight, it's always better to just walk away. Like aforementioned, what if dude is classically trained in the arts of ass kicking?


Shiit, a playa healf insurance. I'ma flee the scene like dog insects.


Damb ya man killa cam and the poster ram dam family man stan.


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Your similie usage game is on point nikka.

 

[devizelle]

What kind of female is just gonna do nothing and let another man grope her and disrespect her like that? I get that dude's intent is to indirectly diss me, but he's still doing it directly to her. Would that shyt be okay if she were single? No, she'd tell him to fukk off.

lmao at a girl who would just say nothing and look at me. It would have me seriously questioning what exactly she is up to when I'm not with her. If your girl is the type to let men do things to her and say nothing, you are sharing that girl.

This. I'll be damned if I let a random dude touch all over me and not say shyt. That makes ME look some type of way. I wouldn't want my man to fight but I'm not just gonna stand there looking dumb.

 

[Panther]

Even if dude is huge as long as its one on one im gonna square u up and fight

Now like breh said if it 4 of em we gotta get the hell on.

 

[Malik]

This is one of the problems nikkas never seem to address on here. Guess you wouldn't know that this is a frequent issue unless you were in the situation

If you got a Bria Myles lookin broad for a girlfriend, nikkas WILL try you

 

[Zombi_Jeezus]

bop sapp? I'll punch that grown ass child in the face and watch him cry like a baby ..


It could 5 dudes, if you don't defend your girl and her honor you forever gon be a p*ssy in her eyes. And if u do throw down byany means necessary, prepare to get the meanest blowjob that night

Man I had an ex-gf that was one of those "My man will fukk you up" broads. I had to drop her. I hate drama and pretty much the only time I've ever fought was because I had no choice. But the few times I had to get physical in front of her, mayne she transformed into a fukkin hoover that night.

 

[havoc00]

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It could 5 dudes, if you don't defend your girl and her honor you forever gon be a p*ssy in her eyes. And if u do throw down byany means necessary, prepare to get the meanest blowjob that night

lol @ deafening her when your getting stomped to death by 5 dudes in her presence. Id rather be a p*ssy in her eyes then a corpse.