What would you do if a dude blatantly DISRESPECTS your girl while she's WITH YOU?
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Malik
Superstar
this is a tough scenario. Ive honestly had a similar type of situation happen before to me. A few years back I was out in Vegas leaving the club with my chick. Im walkin down the strip and 4 drunk azz dudes started talkin shyt to the chick I was with. Like these fools were saying real disrespectful shyt talking about how phat her azz was and carryin on. Of course, I stop like "what nygga?"
I was so gatdamn heated that these MFs would disrespect me like that I was ready to scrap in the middle of the street in front of Planet Hollywood. I tuck my chain in, tighten up my belt and realize that 1 of these MFs pulls out a knife.
I acted like I didnt see that shyt, I grabbed my chicks hand, did a 360 and walked my black azz back into the casino as a yelled "fucc yall nyggaz"
nyggaz can say I punked out, but that night I played it smart. Why risk 1 of them cats slicing me or my chick up? Maybe I would have tried to fight 4 of em if i didnt see the knife, who knows.
sometimes u gotta think smart and think with your head and swallow your pride.
First off............
Second......you did the right thing. shyt, you could be dead now if one of them nikkas stabbed you in the wrong place. You gotta swallow your pride sometime.
so someone blatantly disrespects you and your woman and you are thinking about how you can avoid the confrontation?This is one of the problems nikkas never seem to address on here. Guess you wouldn't know that this is a frequent issue unless you were in the situation
If you got a Bria Myles lookin broad for a girlfriend, nikkas WILL try you
This shyt doesn't happen that much, you get dudes saying what's up to your and staring and shyt like that.
I understand the logic but sometimes you gotta at least show some spine my nikka...most dudes out here is totally cool with at "ay yo she wit me play boi" anything after that, the "go sit in the car" conversation happens. If you aint got time for that you have to squab...period.
But any intelligent female worth her salt can squash shyt like that before it even gets that far...
the only ones that force your hand like that are the ones who crave that animalistic energy, and those are usually bird ass females...
i guess my point is, handle what you need to in that situation...but that ride home in the car, a SERIOUS conversation needs to happen. I been put in that position and it was my girl who said verbatim "i don't want you fighting over NOTHING because that's what CHILDREN do and i'm with a man not a child".
I get her point, but i woulda squabed but dude cooled out and the rest of the night was flawless.
Malik
Superstar
This shyt doesn't happen that much, you get dudes saying what's up to your girl and staring and shyt like that.
That shyt is disrespectful breh
Im pulling a bytch move... NUT SHOT. fukk that.
LeVraiPapi
Redemption is Coming
well, 3 weeks ago I had an altercation with a dude for talking slick to my wife.
So, my wife was checking out at the grocery store and this dude (40-55 prolly) was right behind her. I was picking up the bags. So, she covered the swipe macjine to put her pin number. Onn her way out, negga dropped everything and just ran towards her like he gonna hit her or something. I jumped in the middle quick and I asked him what was the issue ? Since he looks older, I didn't wanna just start throwing hands at an old guy. Dude then softened his voice and said that my wife acted like he was trynna steal from her. So, I m like "what's the issue then ? That's her money ? She swipes however she wants. I don't see why that offended you ". He then walked away and mumbled that rich white girls always think all Blacks are thieves.
Mind you, my wife is Black. So, thank God I didn't have to beat up that idiot. My wife then told me she was afraid I was gonna choke the guy.
Never let those situations slide. NEVER!!!
So, my wife was checking out at the grocery store and this dude (40-55 prolly) was right behind her. I was picking up the bags. So, she covered the swipe macjine to put her pin number. Onn her way out, negga dropped everything and just ran towards her like he gonna hit her or something. I jumped in the middle quick and I asked him what was the issue ? Since he looks older, I didn't wanna just start throwing hands at an old guy. Dude then softened his voice and said that my wife acted like he was trynna steal from her. So, I m like "what's the issue then ? That's her money ? She swipes however she wants. I don't see why that offended you ". He then walked away and mumbled that rich white girls always think all Blacks are thieves.
Mind you, my wife is Black. So, thank God I didn't have to beat up that idiot. My wife then told me she was afraid I was gonna choke the guy.
Never let those situations slide. NEVER!!!
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Exactly....plus to all the dudes that wanna get all Steven Seagal in a situation, ask yourself this: If your girl looks at you like she wants you to fight and even demands that you throw down with some dude you don't even know, does she really love or even care about you in the first place? I wouldn't want any female I care about to risk getting her face sliced by some crazy chick just to prove a point.
Some dude earlier in the thread said his girl deliberately didn't tell him what happened until 15 minutes later because she didn't want her man to get in trouble...that's what you call a SMART woman.
If your girl is backed in a corner and there's no other way out, that's different. Other than that, a REAL woman will understand walking away from a situation. But saying that, most of y'all dudes deal with brainless ratchet chicks anyway, so.....
Born2BKing
Veteran
But yea, a female friend of mine was just talking about this a couple days ago. Some nut approached her and her boyfriend at a bus stop and called him all types of p*ssy for no reason. Daring the boyfriend to fight (if some stranger approaches you for no reason like that, 9 outta 10 they have a weapon, is crazy, and wants to kill someone). BF kept it nice and cool and ignored dude. Ol girl is still with him. She a smart rider.
@BonitaChelz, you surprise me. I wonder how long you'd stay with your man while he was in a coma
@BonitaChelz, you surprise me. I wonder how long you'd stay with your man while he was in a coma
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Scenario:
If you were out with your girl, you're far away from your neighborhood and you're not strapped...and this nikka walks up, looks you right in your eyes then he grabs your girls ass and say she needs to leave with him...
Your girl is offended and doesn't say shyt...she just looks at you to see what you will do...What do you do?
A.) Act like you didn't see it and argue with your girl on the car ride home
B.) Fight the dude and get the love of Jesus beat out of you
C.) Say fukk it and just break up with her there cause its a loss either way.
For all you single nikkas who can't relate, make pretend your girl is super duper bad, she is smart and runs her own successful business. Plus she looks like this...
Remember, you have NO weapon (no makeshift weapons) and you're out the hood so you can't call your homies to help and you have to make a move NOW.
Here is the demonically beastly looking nikka here...
Yeah, but you shouldn't catch feelings over that shyt.
Uptown WaYo87
HARLEM/BX
i got jumped back in the day so to me an ass-beating is a ass-beating...thats just me tho i can understand why some people would run, but if you run away from 1 dude its even worse
1 or 2 dudes ya but like 5 dudes u gonna get stomped and prob killed or fukked up beyond recognition