What would you do if a dude blatantly DISRESPECTS your girl while she's WITH YOU?

[Tommy Knocks]

my foot, his balls.

or im slappin the soul out that nikka, open hand 5 finger mom slapping her child style slap and taking my L.

 

[Born2BKing]

forreal....its like a no win situation because your girl will remember that shyt...you wont be hurt but your soul gonna be burning slow

nikka be like bu bu bu baby I tried.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

this is a tough scenario. Ive honestly had a similar type of situation happen before to me. A few years back I was out in Vegas leaving the club with my chick. Im walkin down the strip and 4 drunk azz dudes started talkin shyt to the chick I was with. Like these fools were saying real disrespectful shyt talking about how phat her azz was and carryin on. Of course, I stop like "what nygga?"

I was so gatdamn heated that these MFs would disrespect me like that I was ready to scrap in the middle of the street in front of Planet Hollywood. I tuck my chain in, tighten up my belt and realize that 1 of these MFs pulls out a knife.

I acted like I didnt see that shyt, I grabbed my chicks hand, did a 360 and walked my black azz back into the casino as a yelled "fucc yall nyggaz"

nyggaz can say I punked out, but that night I played it smart. Why risk 1 of them cats slicing me or my chick up? Maybe I would have tried to fight 4 of em if i didnt see the knife, who knows.

sometimes u gotta think smart and think with your head and swallow your pride.

 

[Illeye buckmatic]

My BF is short and over 30. That negro better not try to fight no big ass dude like that. You can get over verbal disrespect but it takes a long ass time to get over the embarrassment of getting your ass beat in front of your girlfriend.

This is why its so tough. On one hand I wouldn't be able to look in the mirror knowing another nikka punked me out. On the flip side,it would be embarrassing as fukk to get your ass beat infront of your girl.

But I didn't think of what my breh @Born2BKing said Make her wait in the car during your ass beating.

After you wake up and stumble to the car, just tell her his face looks just like yours. Don't forget to tell her to park a block away though

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

who said kill the nikka. We just gonna rough him up a bit We'll make our point but leave the nikka breathing....barely

But if it was a now or never scenario, I'd walk away for the reasons I already stated

Apologies. The "within hours, police would be pulling his bodies from the bushes" bit is what made me think murder.

Either way it's at least felony assault....after all that talk about how a beating could leave you unable to provide for your family I don't see why you'd risk being sent prison over this.

I know that if I walk away, I'll calm down and realize that jealous loser ain't worth me ruining my life, but in the heat of the moment, I'm liable to just say "fukk it" and go in. That's why I think a levelheaded girl diffusing the situation is so necessary.

 

[Shameonyou]

99 percent of you nikkas are typing this shyt in the comfort of your laptop playing hero...all of yall nikkas are backing down if a nikka that size with mike tyson punching power stepped up to you


the real thing is your girl need to be keen enough to know your ass would get kicked, and she advises you to leave.


if you fukking a hoodrat bytch with no sense, RIP because they are the ones with that trivial "prove your manhood" bullshyt

 

[CaughtInTWebb]

Fight.....I could careless how big the dude is....disrespect is disrespect and everybody can get dropped....





























































































Okay let me be serious....dude is huge and I'd stand no chance in fighting dude....so I'd use my superior intellect to talk to him and show him the error in his ways....

 

[No_bammer_weed]

@Nemesis

I feel you, but as a man my number 1 job is to protect my woman, and keep her out of harms way. Now the way OP laid out the situation, both her and I are in a extremely vulnerable position. No disrespect intended whatsoever, but if you shoot one with that nikka, in an unfamiliar hood with no backup, there is a good chance you're either gunna get KTFO, or severely incapacitated. Now what happens if Bob Sapp takes advantage of your woman? If you woke up from your "sleep" to find that your woman was beaten and possibly sexually assaulted, would you still consider your actions the right course to take when you could have walked away ? There is no coming back from the latter as a couple.

To me, this is a keeping it real goes wrong situation if one chooses to scrap. Any animal knows that in the law of the jungle, there is a time to fight, and a time to retreat. Never confuse the two.

I agree....and this is all well and good, if your girl is as level headed as @Juicy

Most are gonna either pop off at the mouth to this guy/shove him away (both of which will escalate the situation) or they'll step back and look at you like

Now if you go down the route of simply walking away (assuming this guy just lets y'all walk away) you'll almost certainly have to cut ties with this chick.

You're right, but its my hope that I would be with a woman who values commonsense over her own ego. Ideally when we get back in the car I would hope my woman would say " you know it took a real man to walk away from that crazy nikka, and not do anything stupid because of male pride. Aint nothin more important in this world but you and us, and that situation was fcked up but you handled it perfectly cause we're good. Now let me take you to popeyes, on me, get whatever you want, and after imma suck the skin off ya dck"

Now thats ideally. Now im sure she would feel a certain way about it because of emotion, and the way we are socialized as a society, like you said. We should have the strength and space as a couple to talk about it, and for her to hear my side, and the way I assessed the situation and the actions taken. If she cant respect it, then she aint the one to move forward with as my woman. Point blank.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

How many of yall nikkas would be willing to die for the respect of a man you dont' know from a can of paint...

Cause jumpin bad off of that is basically what you are agreeing to

shyt is animalistic.... nikkas need to think more than one second ahead

 

[MidniteJay]

Trying to keep a cool head I'll look for an opportunity to kick/punch that nikka in the balls. If he doubles over I'll knee his ass in the head.

Grab my girl and bounce.


What would really happen:

I hit the guy out of anger, throwing uncoordinated punches, I'll see that none of that shyt works and then

I proceed to get an ass beating of a life time.



Hopefully, after getting Pacquiao'd by this ruthless nikka, my girl takes me to the hospital and still love me

 

[rapdonttweet]

Your girl is offended and doesn't say shyt...she just looks at you to see what you will do...What do you do?

What kind of female is just gonna do nothing and let another man grope her and disrespect her like that? I get that dude's intent is to indirectly diss me, but he's still doing it directly to her. Would that shyt be okay if she were single? No, she'd tell him to fukk off.

lmao at a girl who would just say nothing and look at me. It would have me seriously questioning what exactly she is up to when I'm not with her. If your girl is the type to let men do things to her and say nothing, you are sharing that girl.

 

[Nemesis]

@Nemesis

I feel you, but as a man my number 1 job is to protect my woman, and keep her out of harms way. Now the way OP laid out the situation, both her and I are in a extremely vulnerable position. No disrespect intended whatsoever, but if you shoot one with that nikka, in an unfamiliar hood with no backup, there is a good chance you're either gunna get KTFO, or severely incapacitated. Now what happens if Bob Sapp takes advantage of your woman? If you woke up from your "sleep" to find that your woman was beaten and possibly sexually assaulted, would you still consider your actions the right course to take when you could have walked away ? There is no coming back from the latter as a couple.

To me, this is a keeping it real goes wrong situation if one chooses to scrap. Any animal knows that in the law of the jungle, there is a time to fight, and a time to retreat. Never confuse the two.



You're right, but its my hope that I would be with a woman who values commonsense over her own ego. Ideally when we get back in the car I would hope my woman would say " you know it took a real man to walk away from that crazy nikka, and not do anything stupid because of male pride. Aint nothin more important in this world but you and us, and that situation was fcked up but you handled it perfectly cause we're good. Now let me take you to popeyes, on me, get whatever you want, and after imma suck the skin off ya dck"

Now thats ideally. Now im sure she would feel a certain way about it because of emotion, and the way we are socialized as a society, like you said. We should have the strength and space as a couple to talk about it, and for her to hear my side, and the way I assessed the situation and the actions taken. If she cant respect it, then she aint the one to move forward with as my woman. Point blank.

I feel what you are saying totally , like I said I would never criticize anyone from walking away from a beatdown ......

personally Ive walked away from so many fights as I think its a lose lose situation, I would like to think that Im a person who has self control, its a lot harder to walk away than it is to fight but I think it makes you a better man

however everybody has that line that if it were crossed then they aint walking away, for me a man assaulting any of my loved ones in front of me is that line.... If I let it slide I probably wouldnt be able to sleep for a week , but to reiterate I wouldnt criticize the next man for walking away

 

[Duhmarcus Danderstein]

If you really want to play it safe: try not to smile so much when you with your girl.


Shady individuals are usually subconsciously under the impression that a joyous/gleeful demeanor as a sign of weakness (and i know that's gon' be tough to convey cuz you all smitten and on cloud nine - 'specially if the babe new, but you just gotta keep that shiit internal 'till y'all isolated from any potential dangers).

For me? I've seldom been tested like that cuz like the yellow portion of an egg; i'm yoked.

But if presented with that type of sitchayshun? If i can't walk away without feeling like my manhood/dignity would be compromised and it escalated to such great heights (cuz they kept testin' me. S.A.T's), best believe:


Like leftover food... i'm gon' scrap!


In hindsight, it's always better to just walk away. Like aforementioned, what if dude is classically trained in the arts of ass kicking?


Shiit, a playa healf insurance. I'ma flee the scene like dog insects.


Damb ya man killa cam and the poster ram dam family man stan.


.

 

[DaRealness]

Some of y'all negros are gonna fall for shaming, fukk around and end up getting yourselves killed over pride. I can understand if your woman's life is in jeopardy and you need to defend her, but if it's over some bullshyt that can be walked away from, then walk the fukk away.

Forget that ego, mind fukk shyt talking about, "I could never live with myself if I didn't do this or that" because when you're dead you ain't living at all, period. And while you're lying six feet beneath the earth, your woman is just gonna be getting piped down by the next dude and not giving you a second thought any ole damn way.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Some of y'all negros are gonna fall for shaming, fukk around and end up getting yourselves killed over pride. I can understand if your woman's life is in jeopardy and you need to defend her, but if it's over some bullshyt that can be walked away from, then walk the fukk away.

Forget that ego, mind fukk shyt talking about, "I could never live with myself if I didn't do this or that" because when you're dead you ain't living at all, period. And while you're lying six feet beneath the earth, your woman is just gonna be getting piped down by the next dude and not giving you a second thought any ole damn way.

Lot of these nikkas talk loud online but wouldn't bust a grape in a food fight

Throwing hands is very easy in online discussions

"I would hit that nikka with the SHOOOOOOORYYYYUUUUUKEN!!!!!"