All of this is the reason I could not stand boys my age growing up. They used to annoy me so bad
I was always attracted boys older than me
I looked at them as kids until I got to college and felt I was on even ground
They literally do - mentally and physically.
It's science.
From a super technical biological standpoint XY chromosomes are technically a defect, but y'all wouldn't understand that. Just know that it manifests itself in small shyt like girls maturing faster than boys until a certain age.
I love how in denial some of ya'll are
When we were in Middle school most, if not all the girls were either the same size, or bigger than the boys. When we got to high school, biology started to run its course and that was the end of that. Meanwhile you have a bunch of adult sized toddlers running around playing stupid pranks on each other, ripping drawls , and talking about video games, trading pokemon cards or whatever else the fukk you were into that are INVISIBLE to most of the females of the same age, because you were immature as hell. That's why they were dating seniors, and upperclass girls were dating college dudes.
Its psuedoscience. If being docile means being more mature,well sure that is bias towards a womans nature.
The "fun" that boys have will probably always be more loud and may seem less cultured than the fun that women have. But that truth is the same at 9 years old. And how much did "women" really evolve from age 9 to age 35 mentally?
The reason girls wanted to date men who were seniors/in college points to the fact that men actually mature and show growth. So they can see a clear difference in a grown man and a teenage boys maturity level. Now think back to being around 15 year old girls,and now being around 30 year old women? Is there really much of a difference?
So whos really maturing? Females essentially just are what they are from birth. How men mold them is where the differences will come in#TheChildOfMan.
So i would argue women dont really mature at all which is why they may appear more mature. Whereas boys actually do evolve into men. Women are lucky to be born with default settings more conduscive to this zoo environment we currently live in
This is the definition of word salad breh.
"The reason girls wanted to date men who were seniors/in college points to the fact that men actually mature and show growth. So they can see a clear difference in a grown man and a teenage boys maturity level."
Well no shyt. That's exactly the point I was making. That's why @Coco Loco quoted my post reiterating that point by saying she wasn't really into guys her own age until they got to college where the guys matured more, and were on more equal footing. Functionally, Intellectually, Emotionally.
Now think back to being around 15 year old girls,and now being around 30 year old women? Is there really much of a difference?
100% absolutely there is. That's the primary reason why a 45 year old man would probably fukk a 22 year old woman, but not seriously date her. That's the primary reason why a lot of younger men want to fukk older women. They're more mature. They're more experienced. They are passed that long awkward stage of self discovery that a lot of women go through. They know who they are.
I talk to a 19 year old girl at my gym from time to time...She's obviously a child, and has a lot of room to grow. She undoubtedly will not be the same person in 11 years.
So i would argue women dont really mature at all which is why they may appear more mature.Whereas boys actually do evolve into men
This just doesn't make any fukking sense.