what have you personally learned from being a nice guy to ladies?

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Except for the part about you ditching that chick on the date, most of this doesn't sound like a$$hole behavior to me. It sounds like you're being confident, decisive and aggressive, which are traits every dude should have in order to succeed with women.

When I think of a$$hole behavior, I think of calling a woman a bytch/hoe, disrespecting her in public, etc. Any right-minded female wouldn't want that type of treatment... at least they shouldn't want it.

lol @ right-minded female
 

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I'm a naturally laid-back and somewhat generous guy. When people think they hustle me instead of appreciating me doing a nice act, I cut them off. These women really ain't that important for me to get some personality transplant and act mean or play these little games to keep them entertained. I might have missed some and may continue to miss some due to that, but those women weren't for me in the first place. If I turn into this lil spiteful, mean dude to get more hoes, I'm going to miss out on the one that's really for me because I'm not being me.

There's nothing wrong with being nice to women. Just don't let some of those unscrupulous ones HUSTLE you, aka use you as a come-up and stop being available all the time... you'll probably get your best run with women if you make them your 4th or so priority in life.
 

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A lot of you may not want to hear it, but there are Women who go to church who seek "Good Guys". and no, I'm talking about the stereotypical, yet hypocritical ones who you've may have run into the past. Good ones.
 

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I'm a naturally laid-back and somewhat generous guy. When people think they hustle me instead of appreciating me doing a nice act, I cut them off. These women really ain't that important for me to get some personality transplant and act mean or play these little games to keep them entertained. I might have missed some and may continue to miss some due to that, but those women weren't for me in the first place. If I turn into this lil spiteful, mean dude to get more hoes, I'm going to miss out on the one that's really for me because I'm not being me.

There's nothing wrong with being nice to women. Just don't let some of those unscrupulous ones HUSTLE you, aka use you as a come-up and stop being available all the time... you'll probably get your best run with women if you make them your 4th or so priority in life.

impressive advice, but these hoes got my mind like :to:
 

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A lot of you may not want to hear it, but there are Women who go to church who seek "Good Guys". and no, I'm talking about the stereotypical, yet hypocritical ones who you've may have run into the past. Good ones.




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man... at the end of the day.... women want guys with balls/back bone. I used 2 be a simp/nice guy when i was a youngin. that shyt gets you friendzoned, then NO one respects you. not even your mom. :snoop:
 

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You gotta be righteous in your intent. A lot of times, a nice guy has the same intent but he doesn't have the heart to go through with it like a man because he's afraid of how she'll perceive him. So he hangs around trying to do things he thinks women want, when she's really waiting for a real dude to show up and make her buy into his program.

So the nice guy is basically sneaky because he's trying to get in where he fits in by being "one of the good ones."
 

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A lot of you may not want to hear it, but there are Women who go to church who seek "Good Guys". and no, I'm talking about the stereotypical, yet hypocritical ones who you've may have run into the past. Good ones.

oh ok
 

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but i'm nice naturally

am i fukked? :to:

Yep, it is wut it is. This world full of bytch nikkaz and dumb hoes. When u actually have that rare quality of being a good person ppl can't understand it and they take it as a sign of weakness. Being nice ain gonna get u kno where but gettin clowned by nikkas and fuked over by hoes. Thats why u always should show love to anybody and everybody, but the minute they SERIOUSLY disrespect you (male or female) u let them kno God ain make u a MAN for no reason and stand up for your shyt
 

you're NOT "n!ggas"

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You were probably "p*ssy-nice". Basically, your niceness was so despicable that she couldn't even respect you as a man. Being nice is being respectful. You can be nice and still let a broad know you're not to be fukked with.

Yall seriously walking around treating women you're interested like shyt? That doesn't even sound right. Why would yall want a broad who can't appreciate a respectable man?

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nah breh you misunderstandin. this was a chick that genuinely liked me for me and at the time i couldnt understand it. other girls, yeah but i swear her? damn :wow: and i let that get in the way... cuz she never tried to disrespect a nikka, despite all the fukk shyt i was on. i think she thought i was just playin hard to get and finally figured i just aint like her... actually now that i think about it i'm mixin up bein a nice guy with bein insecure, but they kinda feel one in the same
 

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i think a lot of guys pass on that honesty bit because they scared to lose out on the "what could have's"......bein brutally honest with a chick u just met and diggin might ruin what could have been some "easy" puss....and some niccaz ain't built for them losses cuz hey..they don't catch them breaks as much as others....women sense that desperation...a nicca who could give a fukk if he lose out on some puss knows there's more around every corner....and i think women sense that sh!t too...it intrigues them at the end of the day...
 

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man... at the end of the day.... women want guys with balls/back bone. I used 2 be a simp/nice guy when i was a youngin. that shyt gets you friendzoned, then NO one respects you. not even your mom. :snoop:


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