shiiiiiiiit. I remember asking a chick straight up (but kinda on some joking shyt) if we could fukk (1st date). She was like "sure". Had me
what have you personally learned from being a nice guy to ladies?
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shiiiiiiiit. I remember asking a chick straight up (but kinda on some joking shyt) if we could fukk (1st date). She was like "sure". Had me
Bein TOO much of a nice guy will fukk your shyt up. I swear I had one of the baddest women I known in my hands... I still don't know why or how. but I know bein too nice fukked it up 
y'all don't even realize.
y'all don't even realize.Bein TOO much of a nice guy will fukk your shyt up. I swear I had one of the baddest women I known in my hands... I still don't know why or how. but I know bein too nice fukked it up
You were probably "p*ssy-nice". Basically, your niceness was so despicable that she couldn't even respect you as a man. Being nice is being respectful. You can be nice and still let a broad know you're not to be fukked with.
Yall seriously walking around treating women you're interested like shyt? That doesn't even sound right. Why would yall want a broad who can't appreciate a respectable man?
...and some waffle fries
Superstar
shiiiiiiiit. I remember asking a chick straight up (but kinda on some joking shyt) if we could fukk (1st date). She was like "sure". Had me
Clay Davis smilie would have been perfect.
Bein TOO much of a nice guy will fukk your shyt up. I swear I had one of the baddest women I known in my hands... I still don't know why or how. but I know bein too nice fukked it up
I kno your pain too well
its difficult to respect women and wife them up knowing deep down that they are 95% shallow, unintelligent, and likely have early signs of cervical cancer
so i dont
so i dont
SpeakherKnockin
Professional ThirstDodger
You were probably "p*ssy-nice". Basically, your niceness was so despicable that she couldn't even respect you as a man. Being nice is being respectful. You can be nice and still let a broad know you're not to be fukked with.
Yall seriously walking around treating women you're interested like shyt? That doesn't even sound right. Why would yall want a broad who can't appreciate a respectable man?
Chuuuuuuuuuuuch.
Carter G. Hoodson
Tarik is my name ✊✊✊
"They'll blow you off on the 2nd date" - CARTER G. HOODSON
Except for the part about you ditching that chick on the date, most of this doesn't sound like a$$hole behavior to me. It sounds like you're being confident, decisive and aggressive, which are traits every dude should have in order to succeed with women.You can't be a 100% nice guy to bag b*tches sorry. B*tches gettin' turned on by gettin' gagged, slapped, hair pulled, nice guys want to make love slow missionary style while listening to Gerald LevertB*tches always fantasize about some big strong mean dude givin' it to 'em hard, not being carried to a bed with rose petals and some guy eatin' em out.
Case and point, I had this latina real estate chick I had been chasin'. I did finally score a date, I invited my boy out to go with us to a double date. Mid-date, my boy was like let's ditch these hoes and hit another club, and this was right after I was grindin' the chick got her all hot. We waited 'til they went to the bathroom, and straight up bounced. that chick must have called me a dozen times that night. After I did that, she was on my jock hard.
Azzhole/cocky keys I use:
1) I always holler, but when it comes time for the contact info, I never ask for the digits, I just give mine. If you want you call me, if you don't, then don't. It establishes right then and there I'm not there to chase, and I'm not needy. When the chick hits you back, then you know you got her. That is how you start a stable.
2) Don't ask her opinion. Don't ask where she wants to go, what she wants to eat, if she wants to have sex, etc. Women for some odd reason associate decisiveness with strength. I used to ask chicks all the time their opinion, I learned the hard way to make a chick's decision for her, unless she specifically made a request.
3) Be aggressive sexually. Don't make love, f*ck, and f*ck hard. Women don't want to be made love to, they want to f*cked hard, worn out.
Please note this guide is not for pulling chicks, it's for establishing relationships and building a stable. If you want to pull a lot of chicks, all you have to do is lie and tell them what they want to hear, which I strongly recommend against doing, end up like McNairChicks need to know the deal. When she calls you, she knows already, that at some point that day, you will be f*ckin', that's how you get down. She knows if she needs something, to call another sucker. Once you get 3-4 chicks like this, my nig, you are
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When I think of a$$hole behavior, I think of calling a woman a bytch/hoe, disrespecting her in public, etc. Any right-minded female wouldn't want that type of treatment... at least they shouldn't want it.
Moose_Greyjoy
I DO Not Sow
The girl ur lusting over is gonna get banged out by the "a$$hole" and call u a friend......I stopped being the nice guy as soon as I finished high school.
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
You can be a nice guy and still get puss. You just cant be a PUSHOVER. There's a difference.
I've done it a lot in the past... but the problem is the expectations are higher for you. So you cant just smash a bunch of bishes and hit the on them. Also, chicks are less likely to have sex with you and just accept sex only. Because they realize you are a good catch and want to hold on to you. Leads to a lot of drama later. Trust me.
I've done it a lot in the past... but the problem is the expectations are higher for you. So you cant just smash a bunch of bishes and hit the
on them. Also, chicks are less likely to have sex with you and just accept sex only. Because they realize you are a good catch and want to hold on to you. Leads to a lot of drama later. Trust me.
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You mad smiley is an instant classic.
Back on topic...
There's nothing wrong with being 'nice' its just most dudes can't keep their cool and throw in all their cards when they like a girl.
TrueEpic08
Dum Shiny
shiiiiiiiit. I remember asking a chick straight up (but kinda on some joking shyt) if we could fukk (1st date). She was like "sure". Had me
FLOORED me when this happened to me in High School. I'm trying to Jedi Mind Trick these girls, and then one night my drunk ass just pops the question to a girl and she says yeah.
I had to re-evaluate my whole perspective and everything.As for what I've learned? Intellectual condescension works shockingly well. Don't outright tell her that she's stupid, but show her that you know just enough that you can actually teach her something that she'd be interested in learning. SO easy, especially on younger women (this works in reverse for the women as well. I'm, admittedly, a complete sucker for this type of thing). Do it in a nice, scholarly way that shows confidence, not cockiness, and you have a little something there.
I also echo what has been said about the nice guy/"nice guy" distinction. Being nice is something that should be lauded. Being a spineless idiot that degrades himself to becoming a tool to boost a girl's ego is not. That's a self-respect thing, not just a male/female relations thing.
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i know how to be an a$$hole... but dont yall ever feel conflicted when acting like that? sometimes, myself, i be like nahhh man... you know this isnt how you should be acting
Some of us it's not an act. Some of us honestly just don't give a fukk