what have you personally learned from being a nice guy to ladies?

[Emperor Sol]

So much knowledge dropped in this thread

 

[Tyuhnjko]

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[Sierra Mist]

Being nice has nothing to do with it. A women knows from the first moment she sees you, if she would give you the 'goods' or not. No matter how you act, if she wants you, she will deal with any bullshyt you do. Nice or not. She goin'.

truth right here. I tell dudes all the time you can never truly "win" a girl over.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

The majority of the responses revolve around naivete than being a 'nice guy'. For your own sake learn to differentiate between the two.

 

[concise]

That it doesn't work. you can never change how a female feels about you. ever.

So this is an implicit question.


Suckers.

If you're going to be nice, be nice because that's who you are and that's what you believe in. Attempting to manipulate people will only get you so far.

 

[Dooby]

Not being a nice guy doesnt automatically = you being a a$$hole.

Isn't the definition of not being nice an a$$hole?

I see it this way.

You can be a morally sound guy, but not a nice one. Nice as in letting her get her way all the time, catering to her demands, etc. etc.

You practically have to do what you want to do, the majority of the time, and she will respect that and follow along.

 

[Rominati]

Isn't the definition of not being nice an a$$hole?

I see it this way.

You can be a morally sound guy, but not a nice one. Nice as in letting her get her way all the time, catering to her demands, etc. etc.

You practically have to do what you want to do, the majority of the time, and she will respect that and follow along.

Yup-

A concept alot of dudes dont seem to understand is that women lust for certain men the same way men lust for certain women. Those type of dudes tend to demonstrate a certain type of "alpha male" swag.


Ironically enough, chicks fall in love with a nikkas attitude and confidence, way before falling over a nikka due to physical attraction.

You need this sort of spunk or aura around you, to pull mad women. Which really has nothing to do with being a nice guy or a ass hole. Its just that a$$holes tend to project this aura over a nice guy on the reg.

It really all boils down to self respect and confidence. Not mushing bytches in the face or not

 

[Tyuhnjko]

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[Blankthawtz]

this quote needs to be stickied...



that was me a few years ago

which one....NG or Bleep Bleep?

 

[Banned Account12]

Absolutely nothing & thats why im hard on hoes now

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[Blankthawtz]

The majority of the responses revolve around naivete than being a 'nice guy'. For your own sake learn to differentiate between the two.

so how do u as a female handle the choice between nice guy and bad boy when they holla at u?...what really goes through ya head and gets ya puzzy wet?

 

[winb83]

The majority of the responses revolve around naivete than being a 'nice guy'. For your own sake learn to differentiate between the two.

nice by the definition of the word is pleasing and agreeable. so to say one is a nice guy is to say one is a guy that consistently tries to please and be agreeable. basically that you go along with what other people want. recipe for disaster when it comes to women.

 

[Angel On The Rag]

congruence and consistence are key. women will do things at an unconscious level to test you. if you cave in or fold they'll do a little more the next time then a little more. its baby steps then one day you notice things have gone to shyt. she's undermined you so much that now she's in control. the worst scenario is when she's in control but you've convinced yourself that you do what you want cause you're nice but continue to do what she wants.

you can never go back with a woman. if you ever fukk up don't try to correct yourself and your standing with her just cut ties and meet a new chick. once you set the precedent you're stuck with it.

its virtually impossible to be nice and maintain control with a woman. by the very definition of the word being nice to someone is being pleasing and accommodating to them. men have used this strategy of being nice for so long that when you do something nice to a woman there's an auto response of trying to see what else she can get out of you.

being nice to a woman is like loaning out money to a friend its just gonna ruin the relationship. you can do good things for people because you're a good person but never be nice. always do things on your terms.

 

[BossDon]

but i'm nice naturally

am i fukked?

youre gonna have to learn how to hide the majority of that kindness homeboy. Despite what i just wrote, im a nice guy too. the difference is, im a natural shyt talker. so, i let the women see my shyt talking/a$$hole side 1st, then my nice side if i feel like keepin them around

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Not really true imo. Everyone has both sides in em. Its just somme people dont feel right being an a$$hole. I think everyones capable though

Its not about intentionally being mean, its about not caring what she thinks and not catering to her. You would be surprised how much a girls respect goes up for you when you make yourself a challenge.


Anyways I learned things the right way, When I was a teenager/begining of college I was a nice guy. I got p*ssy but I had to work for it, now I just don't care and it falls in my lap.


For example I was supposed to go drinking in the park with this chick last saturday but she flaked on me. The old me would have got pissed off but I just let it slide and acted like I didnt care. Now she is bringing alcohol to my crip and were gonna chill out!