SpeakherKnockin
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Negatively of course. It seems like he wants to attract women but feels like he can't do so being himself. If a chick will only pay him mind when disrespecting her that speaks volumes IMO.
what have you personally learned from being a nice guy to ladies?
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Negatively of course. It seems like he wants to attract women but feels like he can't do so being himself. If a chick will only pay him mind when disrespecting her that speaks volumes IMO.
I'm a pretty nice guy. The thing is I have a backbone...I'm also very honest, straightforward and confident bordering on arrogance. Yall would be surprised how easily women give p*ssy up to nice guys.
I was raised to be respectful...if a broad is not feeling that, then I'll gladly move on to someone who appreciates what I have to offer. I've never cared for women who weren't worth a damn...maybe yall should follow suit.
I was raised to be respectful...if a broad is not feeling that, then I'll gladly move on to someone who appreciates what I have to offer. I've never cared for women who weren't worth a damn...maybe yall should follow suit.
Rocket Scientist
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There is a difference between being a "nice guy" and a "pushover"
I learned you can still be nice/respectful and treat women well, but you can't be the "nice guy" who doesn't have a backbone (notice the quotes around the term "nice guy").
I also learned to be more aggressive, stop hesitating so much, and embrace my sense of humor. I've still got some work to do, though. I'm a good dude but I find myself displaying the negative "nice guy" characteristics sometimes, even though I know better.
I also learned to be more aggressive, stop hesitating so much, and embrace my sense of humor. I've still got some work to do, though. I'm a good dude but I find myself displaying the negative "nice guy" characteristics sometimes, even though I know better.
Idk about all that honesty stuff to be honest. Imagine what 99% of male-female conversations would be reduced to if dudes decided to keep it really real
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My momma always told me that if I was nice to the ladies they would love me back. Well... She lied to me, so now she's dead.
You can be very honest with them....breh. It's all about how you say things. Your delivery is key. As long as you don't come across as a judgmental sour puss, then you're straight. It's much easier to fukk women when they feel completely comfortable around you.
Drew Wonder
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You can't be a 100% nice guy to bag b*tches sorry. B*tches gettin' turned on by gettin' gagged, slapped, hair pulled, nice guys want to make love slow missionary style while listening to Gerald Levert 
B*tches always fantasize about some big strong mean dude givin' it to 'em hard, not being carried to a bed with rose petals and some guy eatin' em out.
Case and point, I had this latina real estate chick I had been chasin'. I did finally score a date, I invited my boy out to go with us to a double date. Mid-date, my boy was like let's ditch these hoes and hit another club, and this was right after I was grindin' the chick got her all hot. We waited 'til they went to the bathroom, and straight up bounced. that chick must have called me a dozen times that night. After I did that, she was on my jock hard.
Azzhole/cocky keys I use:
1) I always holler, but when it comes time for the contact info, I never ask for the digits, I just give mine. If you want you call me, if you don't, then don't. It establishes right then and there I'm not there to chase, and I'm not needy. When the chick hits you back, then you know you got her. That is how you start a stable.
2) Don't ask her opinion. Don't ask where she wants to go, what she wants to eat, if she wants to have sex, etc. Women for some odd reason associate decisiveness with strength. I used to ask chicks all the time their opinion, I learned the hard way to make a chick's decision for her, unless she specifically made a request.
3) Be aggressive sexually. Don't make love, f*ck, and f*ck hard. Women don't want to be made love to, they want to f*cked hard, worn out.
Please note this guide is not for pulling chicks, it's for establishing relationships and building a stable. If you want to pull a lot of chicks, all you have to do is lie and tell them what they want to hear, which I strongly recommend against doing, end up like McNair
Chicks need to know the deal. When she calls you, she knows already, that at some point that day, you will be f*ckin', that's how you get down. She knows if she needs something, to call another sucker. Once you get 3-4 chicks like this, my nig, you are 
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B*tches always fantasize about some big strong mean dude givin' it to 'em hard, not being carried to a bed with rose petals and some guy eatin' em out. Case and point, I had this latina real estate chick I had been chasin'. I did finally score a date, I invited my boy out to go with us to a double date. Mid-date, my boy was like let's ditch these hoes and hit another club, and this was right after I was grindin' the chick got her all hot. We waited 'til they went to the bathroom, and straight up bounced. that chick must have called me a dozen times that night. After I did that, she was on my jock hard.
Azzhole/cocky keys I use:
1) I always holler, but when it comes time for the contact info, I never ask for the digits, I just give mine. If you want you call me, if you don't, then don't. It establishes right then and there I'm not there to chase, and I'm not needy. When the chick hits you back, then you know you got her. That is how you start a stable.
2) Don't ask her opinion. Don't ask where she wants to go, what she wants to eat, if she wants to have sex, etc. Women for some odd reason associate decisiveness with strength. I used to ask chicks all the time their opinion, I learned the hard way to make a chick's decision for her, unless she specifically made a request.
3) Be aggressive sexually. Don't make love, f*ck, and f*ck hard. Women don't want to be made love to, they want to f*cked hard, worn out.
Please note this guide is not for pulling chicks, it's for establishing relationships and building a stable. If you want to pull a lot of chicks, all you have to do is lie and tell them what they want to hear, which I strongly recommend against doing, end up like McNair
Chicks need to know the deal. When she calls you, she knows already, that at some point that day, you will be f*ckin', that's how you get down. She knows if she needs something, to call another sucker. Once you get 3-4 chicks like this, my nig, you are .Peruvian Connect
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Nothing. I'm a genuinely nice person. My niceness is not a ploy sot the end of the day i'm still who I am.
Non Sequitur
Creep.
You can't be a 100% nice guy to bag b*tches sorry. B*tches gettin' turned on by gettin' gagged, slapped, hair pulled, nice guys want to make love slow missionary style while listening to Gerald Levert
Case and point, I had this latina real estate chick I had been chasin'. I did finally score a date, I invited my boy out to go with us to a double date. Mid-date, my boy was like let's ditch these hoes and hit another club, and this was right after I was grindin' the chick got her all hot. We waited 'til they went to the bathroom, and straight up bounced. that chick must have called me a dozen times that night. After I did that, she was on my jock hard.
Azzhole/cocky keys I use:
1) I always holler, but when it comes time for the contact info, I never ask for the digits, I just give mine. If you want you call me, if you don't, then don't. It establishes right then and there I'm not there to chase, and I'm not needy. When the chick hits you back, then you know you got her. That is how you start a stable.
2) Don't ask her opinion. Don't ask where she wants to go, what she wants to eat, if she wants to have sex, etc. Women for some odd reason associate decisiveness with strength. I used to ask chicks all the time their opinion, I learned the hard way to make a chick's decision for her, unless she specifically made a request.
3) Be aggressive sexually. Don't make love, f*ck, and f*ck hard. Women don't want to be made love to, they want to f*cked hard, worn out.
Please note this guide is not for pulling chicks, it's for establishing relationships and building a stable. If you want to pull a lot of chicks, all you have to do is lie and tell them what they want to hear, which I strongly recommend against doing, end up like McNair
I hate that it has to be like this, but...
I'd also like to add: Be a nice guy with your words, not your behaviour.
...and some waffle fries
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You'd be surprise how str8 up asking works sometimes. You just gotta gauge on what type chick you dealing with and the vibe you getting.
High Society
MY Kind of People
A gentleman has learned that, it is not being nice to ladies which turns them off. It is men who have little to no options which turns them off. However, more often than not, a man who obviously has little to no options will find himself trying to overcompensate with niceness, which will not work.