OPTiMO
SamsoniteMan
i know how to be an a$$hole... but dont yall ever feel conflicted when acting like that? sometimes, myself, i be like nahhh man... you know this isnt how you should be acting 
what have you personally learned from being a nice guy to ladies?
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Sierra Mist
Banned
I'm gonna say this. If you are a "nice guy" who is too scared to tell a girl how you feel and what you want you can't get mad when the a$$hole gets with her. All that means is he was the only one who had the balls to go over to tell her. If you DO tell her how you feel and she says "you're a nice guy, but..." then you need to tell that bytch that you'll be laughin at her in a year when she's a single mom. 
Anyway don't give these bytches any room to breathe and feel like they are amazing. No matter how beautiful a woman is, someone somewhere made her cry and made her feel worthless. Being evil is more rewarding than being good.
"I want a guy who's just like you, :inlove: that isn't you.
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Anyway don't give these bytches any room to breathe and feel like they are amazing. No matter how beautiful a woman is, someone somewhere made her cry and made her feel worthless. Being evil is more rewarding than being good."I want a guy who's just like you, :inlove: that isn't you.
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SpeakherKnockin
Professional ThirstDodger
i know how to be an a$$hole... but dont yall ever feel conflicted when acting like that? sometimes, myself, i be like nahhh man... you know this isnt how you should be acting
But wouldn't you want a girl who really liked YOU for YOU? I think when folks put up a facade it ends up back-firing on them in the long run because your true nature will eventually show itself.
Be yourself, and find someone who likes that. Any chick who's down with an a$$hole probably has self-esteem issues and aint worth the chase anyway.
Drew Wonder
Superstar
you can be a nice guy and still get women.
the problem is a lot of dudes confuse being a nice guy with being a bitch.
the problem is a lot of dudes confuse being a nice guy with being a bitch.
Sierra Mist
Banned
If you're pretending to be an a$$hole for the sake of attracting women it will make you look even more pathetic.
OPTiMO
SamsoniteMan
Thats what im sayin. When i do that a$$hole shyt, ive noticed some girls get off on it... its just not me though :shrug:
OPTiMO
SamsoniteMan
Not really true imo. Everyone has both sides in em. Its just somme people dont feel right being an a$$hole. I think everyones capable though
SpeakherKnockin
Professional ThirstDodger
I'm a firm believer in attracting what you put out into the universe. Send out the a$$hole vibes and see how the quality of women you attract differ from being yourself.
Yeah it may take a little longer to find a good thing but nothing of worth comes around that eazy, feel me?
Sierra Mist
Banned
Positively or negatively?
BlvdBrawler
Superstar
I've learned that regardless of what "works on women", I'm still gonna be myself, which is a nice dude. If they're looking for something else at that point, then cool. If not, that's cool too.
I've learned to just utilize both sides of the fence. If you can perfect being a considerate a$$hole, if you can make em feel special and replaceable all at the same damn time you will be
daily. BUT if you got you a good chick who dont have the same twisted urges/needs as most females than you dont have to play them games or you'll mess around and lose her
PhonZhi
Veteran
i think yall mistaking the terms "a$$hole".
women want a "man"...meaning a guy that can lead her,put her in her place and make her feel secure and protected. "bad boys" usually does those things more than the "nice guy"....."nice guys" are usually seen as weak and doesnt give the woman a "manly" vibe.
at the end of the day all women wanna be made to feel like little girls. "bad boys" do this..."nice guys" dont
...and some waffle fries
Superstar
Really it's not about being an a$$hole. Women just respect honesty. Nice guys are just too scared to say the wrong thing. Girls can sense confidence.