what have you personally learned from being a nice guy to ladies?

cleanface coney

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he look like one of them dudes who tryna get a fast chick
he should have found his lane, lil school teacher or something
he prolly had chicks peeping him out but he in the third lane they in first
 

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I aint got a bunch of money but i know for the most part i can get Majority of the females i want.
its not about money
It aint necessarily the money.
That's why I said you can't just focus on getting your money right. Overall, personality/confidence is more important than money. A few years ago I had no confidence or backbone and I struggled with dating. Badly. Give me a few million dollars back then, and I would still have been out here getting rejected.

I have more success with women now because I believe in myself and I have real confidence, despite not making much money yet. And I agree with OGCush about knowing which females to pursue.
 
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█ W.D.Y.D. █;266744 said:
Most people are only nice out of fear. Whether it's fear of rejection, fear of confrontation, whatever. So it's not really that they're nice people, they really want the same thing a$$hole dudes want, they're just petrified to actually go after it. That shyt is seethru and leads to failure or missed opportunities.

I really don't believe there are a lot of people that are just genuinely nice.
this is what it boils down to...being "nice" is a fake persona people put on for acceptance...if they knew how people really perceived them they wouldn't be nice
 

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Money won't fix everything. A dude can have a six-figure salary, a nice car, and a great house, but if he's a stereotypical "nice guy" with no backbone/confidence then he will struggle just as much as a "nice guy" with no money.

It'll be even worse of a struggle cause then those gold digging vulture women gonna look at you as an easy target. So you might get that trophy wife that's giving it up to other dudes while you're working hard at your job everyday.


That's why I said you can't just focus on getting your money right. Overall, personality/confidence is more important than money. A few years ago I had no confidence or backbone and I struggled with dating. Badly. Give me a few million dollars back then, and I would still have been out here getting rejected.

I have more success with women now because I believe in myself and I have real confidence, despite not making much money yet. And I agree with OGCush about knowing which females to pursue.

A lot of people are able to build their confidence thru external things like having money. Thats why dudes are able to pull hoes easier when they get cash. You're right though, if you're truly confident in yourself it doesn't matter if you're broke.
 

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I'm nice to females :to:

I used to get jumpoff p*ssy but I've been trying to find a lady friend to settle and I can't win if I have to act out of my element :sadbron:

chase the ideal not the individual.

honestly most of these women out here bring nothing but p*ssy and attitude to the table. ask yourself do you really want that just to stick your dikk in something warm and moist for a lil bit?
 
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