Larry Lobster
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You're not a man if you never ate ass.
My son will know how to kill by 3.
You're not a man if you never ate ass.
The demonization of masculinity in men is what has hurt the black community as a whole. These days black women are damn near just as masculine as black men and that's a huge problem.What is "being a man"? Are the standards of "being a man" harmful to black male youth or just black males overall? What are the terms associated with the idea of masculinity? do you feel any pressure if you do not conform to this idea of masculinity? what part does the media play into these things?
I just wanted to bring these issues out into the open and see if we can have an conversation, if you all want to.
Because being a man is simply having a dikk and being of age based on your environment. Being a successful man who is useful means a lot more. A lot more.The idea of "being a man" has gotten so twisted and convoluted these days. One person will tell you being a man is being a crutch to a woman. Another person will tell you being a man is being some tactless, unfeeling force of nature whos only goal is to hoard success, money and women.
It seems like parents would have a hard time teaching what real masculinity is because there's not even a concrete definition on what that is. People just say what is convenient to them at the moment.
Yes and these women tend to emasculate their sons and their bfs/hubbys. A lot of black women tend to be bossy, overbearing and controlling. This doesn't set the proper dynamic for healthy family structure.The demonization of masculinity in men is what has hurt the black community as a whole. These days black women are damn near just as masculine as black men and that's a huge problem.
OP I have a question. What answers are you looking for because I see you debating with people who have one opinion. But not @Knuckles Red ect. Are you just looking for answers that prove you right? Or are you truly playing devils advocate?What is "being a man"? Are the standards of "being a man" harmful to black male youth or just black males overall? What are the terms associated with the idea of masculinity? do you feel any pressure if you do not conform to this idea of masculinity? what part does the media play into these things?
I just wanted to bring these issues out into the open and see if we can have an conversation, if you all want to.
What's ur idea of masculinity?Masculinity isn't toxic. There are just those who don't want to adhere to it and want to complain about it.
If you approve of feminity within black males then don't complain about blsck men not protecting y'all. You can't have it both ways.I'm gonna ask right now, what is wrong with a "black guy in heels"? what happens to those who do not meet you're ideas of "masculinity"?
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OP I have a question. What answers are you looking for because I see you debating with people who have one opinion. But not @Knuckles Red ect. Are you just looking for answers that prove you right? Or are you truly playing devils advocate?
If you approve of feminity within black males then don't complain about blsck men not protecting y'all. You can't have it both ways.
Nobody is saying black males can't be masculine. There are nuances in this discussion that you're clearly not picking up on. Your emotions seem to be getting the best of you. A common trait among the fatherless...No suprise fakkits like @Knuckles Red would dap the op
Only in the black community black males cannot be masculine to combat males of other races. This is a white supramacist tactic. But at the same time bw wants us to protect them. We cannot product y'all if your men ain't masculine enough. Double wammy.
No suprise fakkits like @Knuckles Red would dap the op
Only in the black community black males cannot be masculine to combat males of other races. This is a white supramacist tactic. But at the same time bw wants us to protect them. We cannot product y'all if your men ain't masculine enough. Double wammy.