The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[mamba]

Shid. Feminist got girls out here acting like dudes, saying its equality.....ok

Act like a man all you want, just don't expect dudes to want to wife you though. Why wife when feminist got these girls giving it up for free?

It's almost seems too good to be true. Almost like a man created the feminist movement. Or at least the new generation of them

This one feminist chick let me hit literally 5 minutes from meeting me. And then she was posting online talking about "In my whole life Iv only had one guy romantically attracted to me and want a relationship. The rest have just been physical. I'm tired of being alone"

 

[mamba]

That's not to say everyone is blameless. I know a lot of girls that went through college not realizing that this would be the most eligible men they would ever be surrounded by. And then there's other girls who are looking for something serious, but the younger guys aren't ready to settle down yet. Then you factor in ages, location, dudes involved in criminal activity, men who are already taken, etc.

All I'm saying is that the issue is much more complex that people think it is. There's a lot of different things at play. A lot of black people, men and women, are feeling lost in the current dating landscape.

Very true. I think both men and women fail to realize that college is the best time to find a mate.

A lot of my non-Black classmates locked mates down during that time and married shortly after graduation.

They got mates before the real world hardened them and made them bitter and cynical.

 

[Action Mike]

I do.

Only type of girl I can even consider chasing is a Congolese girl

Where do they stay in London bro

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

That's not what I said at all.

A guy sent a message expressing that he is interested. I responded back with the usual small talk getting to know you questions. He responds with a closed ended response, no follow up questions or anything. At that point I let the conversation die because he is not showing interest. So basically, he is waiting on my to keep the conversation going; getting to know someone is a two way street. This has happened more than once with different guys.

So

2 way street but ur relying on the guy to continue the convo ?

You actually want the guy to show his masculine energy and pursue you ?

You want a guy thats just gonna lead while you follow ?

You want a guy that can carry a convo
And basically do all the work ?

You want a guy thats gone pull ya hair
slap ya ass put his thumb in ya butthole
While he stroking you from the back ?

You superficial tramp

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Where do they stay in London bro

Around East mostly

I don't even rely on those since I speak French I can rely on the girls out in France , Belgium and Switzerland

Saw a Congolese girls insta from Switzerland I believe I wanna marry her , I don't care about her past breh I just wanna be her future

 

[EndDomination]

Yeah. nikkas are going to complain because it would mean they would have to put in work.

Most men don't mind putting in work to get something of value.

What most men will not do is put in work to get something that other men have gotten or are currently getting for free. That's a universal principle all humans can relate to. We don't want to pay for something others are getting for free or at a reduced cost. We feel like we've been cheated in that situation.

Most men are against wining and dining in this current age because they know a lot of women are juggling dudes and are giving it up or have given it up for far less. Doing the "Netflix and chill" with one nikka and then expecting another to take you out for a nice meal and drinks to get the same thing is sending the wrong signal. Most men don't want to be the sucker in the latter situation.

Can you imagine standing in line for hours for the iphone 6s and paying $$$, only to have Apple give it away for free two weeks later? How would you feel in that situation?

Dap + Rep

 

[Action Mike]

Around East mostly

I don't even rely on those since I speak French I can rely on the girls out in France , Belgium and Switzerland

Saw a Congolese girls insta from Switzerland I believe I wanna marry her , I don't care about her past breh I just wanna be her future

Crime rate in east about to than thatif I don't find what im looking for

 

[Blackout]

Tis all

 

[MikelArteta]

There are more good black men than there are good black women.

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Crime rate in east about to than thatif I don't find what im looking for

Breh the Congolese girls out here in general aren't up to standards, you gotta get your French game up cause the best are in Belgium and France

 

[Action Mike]

There are more good black men than there are good black women.

This can't be said with confidence Breh...

 

[Yup]

Very true. I think both men and women fail to realize that college is the best time to find a mate.

A lot of my non-Black classmates locked mates down during that time and married shortly after graduation.

They got mates before the real world hardened them and made them bitter and cynical.

True...and some of them will divorce just as quickly (cynical side).

 

[Yup]

This can't be said with confidence Breh...

Do you see why I said what I was saying? Or do you still think I am "cray cray" about emperor.

 

[bcrusaderw]

There are more good black men than there are good black women.

 

[Yup]

Comparing non-black women to black women is a false equivalence. The societal structures are different, the situations are different. Some women, particularly white women, can approach men comfortably because they've been conditioned that way. They watch movies and see women who look like them, they see women who look like them on the runway, etc. They have the luxury to be bold because they live in a world where everything is set to give them those luxuries. Black women aren't afforded the same privileges.

That's not to say everyone is blameless. I know a lot of girls that went through college not realizing that this would be the most eligible men they would ever be surrounded by. And then there's other girls who are looking for something serious, but the younger guys aren't ready to settle down yet. Then you factor in ages, location, dudes involved in criminal activity, men who are already taken, etc.

All I'm saying is that the issue is much more complex that people think it is. There's a lot of different things at play. A lot of black people, men and women, are feeling lost in the current dating landscape.

Thank you. That's the point I am trying to make when guys say that Asian women and White women are like this why aren't bw like that.To this I respond well can I compare non-black men to black men then? The answer is always an emphatic no. So, how is that fair to BW?