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They're birds. The chicks bragging about how much they make very rarely make any realy money. It be the ones making 50k trying to pat themselves on the back. It's just misdirected low self esteem.
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They're birds. The chicks bragging about how much they make very rarely make any realy money. It be the ones making 50k trying to pat themselves on the back. It's just misdirected low self esteem.
I dunno that's just the way I am, I've seen it when my brother in law lost his job couldn't find work for more than a year, just my sister was working and they had two kids
. And I could tell it bothered him, whether you are making a dollar a hour or 100 a hour, whether you have to rob and steal or hustle etc., every man wants to provide for his family, and if I wasn't able to being married and having a family I would feel like less of a man. As well if you were always working while saying dating, courting, getting married and then finally not, whats to know she will stick with you for the struggle or jet.And well your mom is a good woman, the past generation was cut from a different cloth.
PartyHeart
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The funny part is that y'all are focusing on who makes more money and how that effects the relationship, when the real problem is obviously that many of you, particularly guys, are coming into a relationship trying to control or "dominate" another person. Many of you have deep, deep self esteem/insecurity issues and need to work on that before you ever even think about getting into a relationship.
I don't think a lot of women necessarily go out of their way to throw their success in men's faces. Its only natural for people who work hard for their success to be able to flaunt it in some way.
It's interesting tho, some women always talk about equality and want to be able to do what men do...so why do many find it troubling to take care of a man that makes less the same way a man would typically take care of a woman who makes less than him? Why do some women love to destroy traditional gender roles one day, but revert back to tradition when it suits them?
It's interesting tho, some women always talk about equality and want to be able to do what men do...so why do many find it troubling to take care of a man that makes less the same way a man would typically take care of a woman who makes less than him? Why do some women love to destroy traditional gender roles one day, but revert back to tradition when it suits them?
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I don't mind my woman making more money...but not too much more 
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There is a certain amount of money that will transform a woman's brain into thinking they run shyt (and by shyt I mean the relationship). A woman who feels like she runs shyt eventually feels like they can do better...and when a woman feels she can do better than say goodbye to your manhood. IMO when the roles of man and woman get thrown out of wack in a relationship it's doomed. A man can only go so long without feeling like a man and same goes for woman, women like to be kept...men like to keep.
It's okay for her to make a couple more dollars than you but when that shyt hit's the 30-50+ thousand it's not gonna work
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.There is a certain amount of money that will transform a woman's brain into thinking they run shyt (and by shyt I mean the relationship). A woman who feels like she runs shyt eventually feels like they can do better...and when a woman feels she can do better than say goodbye to your manhood. IMO when the roles of man and woman get thrown out of wack in a relationship it's doomed. A man can only go so long without feeling like a man and same goes for woman, women like to be kept...men like to keep.
It's okay for her to make a couple more dollars than you but when that shyt hit's the 30-50+ thousand it's not gonna work
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It's sad breh, as soon as I entered the thread I went
nikkas just don't understand that entering into a relationship with a woman who is making substantially more money than you is a trap.
Women need to understand that we don't see you guys as competition So it never going to be Any kinda jealousy.
Ain't That Something
Superstar
The coli only place where nikkas are content to be the woman in their relationship. Ya no better than the everything on they girl name but at least I'm getting p*ssy ass nikkas 
Let ya women lead ya'll brehs.
Let ya women lead ya'll brehs.
Elle Driver
Veteran
Who the fukk cares? Two incomes are better than one, especially in this day and age. Don't get in a relationship with someone if you're insecure, you'll project that shyt on to your partner and become a completely bitter wreck. Save yourself the trouble and just be single and happy.
Mountain
All Star
As much financial sense as marrying up makes, I dont think my pride as a man would let me do it.
Check the study and article below:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10097017
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/under-the-influence/201209/testosterone-and-dominance
Apparently the more testosterone a man has the more he wants to dominate, that may explain why some of us cant stand making less than our women whilst others dont care.
Check the study and article below:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10097017
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/under-the-influence/201209/testosterone-and-dominance
Apparently the more testosterone a man has the more he wants to dominate, that may explain why some of us cant stand making less than our women whilst others dont care.
Got dudes saying they wouldn't mind being stay-at-home dads.
Why don't you just cut your balls clean off while you're at it? No residue.No they haven't, which is proved by the low black marriage rates.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Y'all make things so complicated. 
who cares who makes more money.
who cares who makes more money.