You're fine with a women checking out in a marriage what's the difference?Breh, you literally advocate for women to give their bodies to men they are disgusted by. You cannot force attraction.
The idea is to stay married, It looks like a bad deal when you're young and you got all the options but when you're old then you understand.
My ex GF has an aunt with cancer never got married lived in the hood her whole life cleaning white people's houses. She had to move in with the ex and the fam is struggling to feed her the right foods.
If she was a single mother she'd be able to fall back on her adult kids.