At the end of the day, I find it hard to believe a charismatic black breh with a good paying job is being passed up.
Bonus points for height and looks and it's game over.
I mean are we seriously denying that?
Why do you find it hard to believe? When it comes to online dating, good prospects get passed up all the time!
Remember that everyone on these sites are strangers. Next, women on average receive way more attention than men, so if a woman especially one who is relatively attractive get bombarded by a bunch of men, then by default said women is going to overlook quite a few sutiors.
They can't date every person who reaches out to them...