Yep it’s not an honest convo.
I don’t struggle with women either but the truth is I worked hard as heck on myself to be where I’m at in life.
But it’s also like brehs have to be exceptional to get cooperation from black women. Meanwhile I know damn well nonbm don’t have be nearly as well off as I am. And probably aren’t nearly as good as a partner as I was, And they get full cooperation immediately .
I get tired of having to prove to women that I’m a decent dude.
That’s the privilege wm have in regard to dating. Even to bw, they’re a million more times skeptical of us, and we have to pay the black tax, of over delivering to get half as much respect.
Like I’ve been in combative relationships where women were constantly looking for signs of me unfaithful, arggumentive for no reason or just testing me in general.
And I did nothing but treated them with respect. All because they’re carrying trauma from a previous relationship or situation then assigning that misplaced anger to me.
When like I mentioned I’ve always been respectful and handled my business as a man with women I had serious relationships with. This includes planning dates, being transparent in communication and being there in times of need.
Even when I had amicable splits with ex’s they couldn’t even twist their words to utter anything negative about me and how I treated them, but the funny this it’s like they wanted too. They just couldn’t think of anything I did. They weren’t used to ending a relationship that didn’t close on terms without cussing some one out.
But its like damn I have constantly run into women with unresolved trauma from a previous ex’s and they putting their issues on me.
It’s stressful and I’m tired of that why I take breaks from dating and even dealing with. And you know my networth keeps climbing and my career keeps taking off.
It’s kind of why I play down a lot of my current success in life, because I show people what I want them to see. I’d rather catch them judging me in a superficial element then know I’m doing more than aight.