Spin: Pushing mid-30s single with no kids is the absolute GOAT

[Shadow King]

i'm childfree but a lot of childfree people need to admit they want to be self-indulgent without being socially ostracized due to being middle aged with no kids like past generations

it's never "im childfree so i have more time to give back to the community or try to cure cancer or build some thing that outlasts me" it's just wake up late on weekends, run through hoes, travel whenever. Sometimes we millennials are like boomers on steroids when it comes to being indulgent and self-centered. A lot of boomers would have been DINKS if they could in the pre-social media/internet 70s/80/90s/2000s

My bro (40 this year) has two daughters. I can see how they helped my bro level up and stay on point. People overlook the financial stress of raising kids, but every breh oh here is making >100k apparently

Yes and no. Boomers also had much more class mobility. Having kids wasn't the daunting financial weight it is today.

 

[Ohene]

These dudes love the childfree life until their youth has passed and they realize that they've lived a lonely life. Meanwhile, my grandparents spend their birthdays surrounded by dozens of grandchildren.

A birthday + holidays is what…10 days out the year. Thats not even 5% of their days. Who cares?

 

[Killer Instinct]

theres no amount of p*ssy, material possessions, or vacations that could ever make me feel how i feel when im with my kids....



one of those things you have to experience to understand

This. Legitimately happy for those who genuinely feel like OP in their 30s, but some are definitely trying to convince themselves that mid to late 30s and no family or kids was part of the plan all along.

 

[The ADD]

This. Legitimately happy for those who genuinely feel like OP in their 30s, but some are definitely trying to convince themselves that mid to late 30s and no family or kids was part of the plan all along.

Or some people didn’t have a plan and are happy with the outcome…….

 

[MBwithadream]

I ain't got kids but raising my nieces is hell. But I thank Yah that I have them. One of nieces got boy I'm seeing about almost every night.

 

[The Radiant One]

A birthday + holidays is what…10 days out the year. Thats not even 5% of their days. Who cares

Especially since there is no guarantee that you have grandchildren and with how things are going your adult children may live with you or live far away

 

[maxamusa]

OP why you think you can't have none of the shyt you listed with kids

 

[maxamusa]

theres no amount of p*ssy, material possessions, or vacations that could ever make me feel how i feel when im with my kids....



one of those things you have to experience to understand

repped.

 

[maxamusa]

You can do that with kids


Grandma will happily look after them

it takes a village

grandma been letting me and momma turn up since day 1

 

[maxamusa]

Breh I am in a similar boat then recently became single.

I have never felt like the prize as much as I do now. These hoes need a lifeline and feel like I’m the ticket. shyts crazy as hell.

sugar daddy babble

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

- Having your own place
- Having your own car
- Can plan things at the drop of a hat without consulting anyone
- So much time for self improvement on skills, finance, health. This is underrated
- So many options to invest your money
- Meeting women with no commitments, and holding all the cards of engagement
- Cooking food whenever you like
- Travel whenever you like
- So much disposable income


Been going to live Boxing matched every weekend the past 4 weeks. Planning to go to a stand up comedy show as well. shyt is heaven

Dap + rep + being healthy and in shape

 

[maxamusa]

Imagine seeing a brotha who's not on child support, don't have multiple baby mommas, focus on his career, and doing well for himself in his prime and saying you don't trust him. That's what's wrong with the community.

post is high-key extremely stereotypical. your mental is rotted.



anyone who dapped that should be ashamed.

 

[maxamusa]

You can not have kids and be married

thats how I did it tho

 

[The ADD]

thats how I did it tho

?

 

[maxamusa]

Breh...our ability to have children will not change anytime soon. We're good. We can do it next year, or in 5 years. But while we don't have children? We can do whatever we want, at the last minute, without having to worry about child care. I love that shyt.

You ever got your girl pregnant before?