Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

[the bossman]

Plus it's like if you have a serious gf or whateve you have to meet their parents and i'll be dead honest...i don't want to.

I already know with who i date 95% of they family ain't gonna like me cause I'm Nigerian and West indian. Most of you yanks are weird about us and just don't like our culture and there's the clash. Even with african americans.

So I'm rather just meet with and sleep with random chicks. Have the harem. I never had the opportunity to and honestly I would rather do that. I was a loser for the majority of my 20s and in a city where really only white guys was eating. Women wasn't checking out brothers like me period.

Yea...maybe it would be different if i wasnt nigerian and west indian. But i can already tell that's what it is.

these are all excuses bruh. you can be as successful with women as you want to be whether it be having a harem or finding a wife.

Exactly. I'm Ghanaian and I've got family members who went to Ghana to get themselves 'docile' Ghanaian women who they thought they could bring back and control. One of them got a job as a nurse in an LA hospital and started fukking with one of the doctors while my cousin was still studying. She dumped him less than a year and now living it up in America

the ether that nikka must have felt. My uncle from Cameroon went thru the same shyt

Not to mention the headaches of their extended family. Very few americans can actually deal with a foreign woman

nikkas really have no idea how simple they sound on that 'just get a foreign woman' train.

could have been married to four different women , got straight asked 3 times........

I have no issue with getting married, I have no issue with not getting married..... my mom and some members of my family have called endless family meetings about this....smh

From the age of 17 my life has been too unstructured and I guess I have too much of a laissez faire attitude to life...

Im going to marry my girl Im with now tho....

mom be stressin the hell out of me about that shyt too talkin bout she want grandkids. how old are you bruh

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I need to make 60-70k. It will be enough for me to pay off my debt and still save money while I'm living with my sister and mother.

How much your thot gotta make

 

[havoc]

How much your thot gotta make

I don't know. What's important to know to me is that she has to be responsible with her money and work with me to build wealth.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I don't know. What's important to know to me is that she has to be responsible with her money and work with me to build wealth.

Y'all looking to adopt

 

[havoc]

Y'all looking to adopt

I have been thinking about it. I don't want to be concerned about having kids, because that isn't my main focus at this time.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I have been thinking about it. I don't want to be concerned about having kids, because that isn't my main focus at this time.

Is 33 too old?

 

[havoc]

Is 33 too old?

Nikka, who you are fooling ? You the one with the 6 figure bank account. You should be the one adopting me. How about giving a brother a job so that I can move back to Atlanta.

 

[Elle]

What does someone e;se's marriage not being successful have to do with you? When I hear guys(or women) say they don't want to get married because they know to many people who divorced, it always make me laugh. Someone else's mistake has nothing to do with who you chose o marry ad if you will get a divorce. If you chose someone who is compatible with you instead of whether or not she has a big booty, you will be fine.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Nikka, who you are fooling ? You the one with the 6 figure bank account. You should be the one adopting me. How about giving a brother a job so that I can move back to Atlanta.

I think you got me confused with the other man breh, I'm just trying to get in where I fit in

 

[Jahmal]

I miss the @Jahmal threads where he would be bragging about smashing broads on tinder. This new jahmal dun changed up

Tinder fell off. I'm on that SoulSwipe wave

 

[Jahmal]

I need to make 60-70k. It will be enough for me to pay off my debt and still save money while I'm living with my sister and mother.

whats your current salary?

 

[DrX]

i think putting off children or getting married waiting for money is a bad idea...because u just get old and then itll be too late , i think thats going to really hurt our generation

 

[Originalgangsta317]

Lol@ good people being in jail. (Unless they are innocent)

you can't be this ignorant

 

[¢apitali$t Migraine]

Pick which most closely applies.

A) I'm not ready financially

B) I'm not meeting marriageable women

C) I'm too fulfilled being single

D) I'm Gay and haven't come out the closet yet

E) Still working on my IT Certs

F) Other

C. Although I thought I was ready to ghead n get a bytch n start a family, I said fukk that shyt. I really don't like children and I get tired of a bytch after a few months, so why subject a bytch to me acting out due to repressed unexpressed disappointment at my blunder of a choice to marry her and breed with her?

This ain't 1946 and I ain't no goddamn peasant. I'm a cash getter yet I remain calm, I ain't in no rush to share my shyt with a hoe thru sickness and in health. bytches know I'm undependable n selfish n inconsiderate af once I done got what I want, and that really ain't bout to change no time soon. Plus I'm paranoid so I can't never trust.

 

[Paradise]

The replies in here are huh yeah…..

Guess it hurts to know how black men actually view wanting to marry a black woman…. or lack thereof