Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

Jahmal

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i think putting off children or getting married waiting for money is a bad idea...because u just get old and then itll be too late , i think thats going to really hurt our generation
How? Young and Broke AA people having kids is not the move. We would be better waiting and having kids when we are financially ready.
 

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How? Young and Broke AA people having kids is not the move. We would be better waiting and having kids when we are financially ready.
what if were never financially ready tho? this generation is getting up there...and the economy aint gonna magically recover over night ....if both parents are mature and committed, might as well just bite the bullet and do it
 

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No man should get married till he is somewhat close to fulfilling his potential as far as career and or passiong goes.

Most women want the finish product, not a work in progress

Sometimes i hear that girls want to grow with a guy and guys want to finish growing before they get a girl. Makes you think.
 

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what if were never financially ready tho? this generation is getting up there...and the economy aint gonna magically recover over night ....if both parents are mature and committed, might as well just bite the bullet and do it
More and more poorer Black families. Yes that will help out the community!
 
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in my 30+ years ive never wanted to be a husband... never... not once has it been a fantasy of mine to say i do...
 

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31 here :win:

Honestly I'm in no rush. I'm still having fun, traveling, going out, experiencing new cultures/places, just trying to enjoy life. Not ready to give all that up just yet. I have females in my life, but I'm not ready to pick one & settle down just yet. I believe marriage should happen organically, not just because I'm a certain age that society deems too old to be single.

A person can do that while they're married, with the person they are married to.

It's annoying when people say stuff like that like you can't do that while you're married.
 

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More and more poorer Black families. Yes that will help out the community!
in a capitalistic society everybody cant eat bro...and the biological window is small...we gotta keep the population going....and thats why i said as long as the house is stable with to committed parents


if its a single parent situation i agree to an extend
 
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