Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

[Bless't]

I want it. In my soul, I want that life long partner in crime. It's only natural.

But will I allow myself? That's where shyt gets dicey.

One day... One day.

 

[Bless't]

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[GodinDaFlesh]

I'm not 30, but for me it's B. If I met a great ride or die chick that's down for life, I'd cuff her quickly.

 

[Unknown Poster]

I don't want to.

Honestly I'm still living life like i was in my 20s still. Im more concerned about making money and following goals i set for myself years ago. At the moment i really am not interested in having a relationship or getting married or having kids. Why? Cause everyone else does it? Lol


Im making up for lost time i spent 10 years in college....so what i would of done if i graduated after 4/6 years in my mid to late 20s as a college grad i am doing now.

And number 1...i haven't found the one. That's important.

 

[LadySimone]

Because she said no

Awww babe...

 

[the bossman]

Please avoid these Women like the plague. The time to marry a Woman (And you really shouldn't be marrying a Woman unless it's somehow to your advantage period as it pertains to her having higher income than you or you being able to expatriate or bringing a submissive foreign Woman in) is BEFORE your success not after. Why does the modern day Woman deserve to benefit from getting 1/2 of something she did not build and most likely will not help you maintain?

Now if you can find a Woman that has an equal amount of proven accomplishments and financial contribution then sure I don't see the problem but she still under most circumstances (95%) should NOT be an American born citizen or subscribe to typical American Feminist perspectives and outlook on life.

so what do you think will happen to this foreign woman once you bring her to the US?

 

[Diondon]

Not "single" but shyt...my standards may be too high combined with scared to take an L combined with many family men I be seeing look like they lose a step or sumn....its weird

 

[dennis roadman]

so what do you think will happen to this foreign woman once you bring her to the US?

or what about when he finds out that foreign women are as big a headache as american women, and will consistently fall back on "it's just my culture"

 

[Judgement!]

F) Never getting married, but I've been with my girl for years, through a lot of bumps & bruises.

We came to the conclusion that we're going to do this thing our way. Both of our families disagree, and still ask us when we're getting married.

The only successful marriage stories I know were my grandparents.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Plus it's like if you have a serious gf or whateve you have to meet their parents and i'll be dead honest...i don't want to.

I already know with who i date 95% of they family ain't gonna like me cause I'm Nigerian and West indian. Most of you yanks are weird about us and just don't like our culture and there's the clash. Even with african americans.

So I'm rather just meet with and sleep with random chicks. Have the harem. I never had the opportunity to and honestly I would rather do that. I was a loser for the majority of my 20s and in a city where really only white guys was eating. Women wasn't checking out brothers like me period.

Yea...maybe it would be different if i wasnt nigerian and west indian. But i can already tell that's what it is.

 

[Koba St]

so what do you think will happen to this foreign woman once you bring her to the US?

Exactly. I'm Ghanaian and I've got family members who went to Ghana to get themselves 'docile' Ghanaian women who they thought they could bring back and control. One of them got a job as a nurse in an LA hospital and started fukking with one of the doctors while my cousin was still studying. She dumped him less than a year and now living it up in America

 

[martin payne]

b and c

 

[dennis roadman]

Plus it's like if you have a serious gf or whateve you have to meet their parents and i'll be dead honest...i don't want to.

I already know with who i date 95% of they family ain't gonna like me cause I'm Nigerian and West indian. Most of you yanks are weird about us and just don't like our culture and there's the clash. Even with african americans.

So I'm rather just meet with and sleep with random chicks. Have the harem. I never had the opportunity to and honestly I would rather do that. I was a loser for the majority of my 20s and in a city where really only white guys was eating. Women wasn't checking out brothers like me period.

Yea...maybe it would be different if i wasnt nigerian and west indian. But i can already tell that's what it is.

legacy back

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

always keep these women on their toes. She must fear losing you to competition. You need to able to leave at any point if she doesn't live up to any standards you have. Marriage doesn't provide that option readily.

 

[yakamein]

6 certs 6 figures