Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

[Wiles]

31 here

Honestly I'm in no rush. I'm still having fun, traveling, going out, experiencing new cultures/places, just trying to enjoy life. Not ready to give all that up just yet. I have females in my life, but I'm not ready to pick one & settle down just yet. I believe marriage should happen organically, not just because I'm a certain age that society deems too old to be single.

 

[Colicat]

Plus it's like if you have a serious gf or whateve you have to meet their parents and i'll be dead honest...i don't want to.

I already know with who i date 95% of they family ain't gonna like me cause I'm Nigerian and West indian. Most of you yanks are weird about us and just don't like our culture and there's the clash. Even with african americans.

So I'm rather just meet with and sleep with random chicks. Have the harem. I never had the opportunity to and honestly I would rather do that. I was a loser for the majority of my 20s and in a city where really only white guys was eating. Women wasn't checking out brothers like me period.

Yea...maybe it would be different if i wasnt nigerian and west indian. But i can already tell that's what it is.

Stahp... My husband is West Indian ... My parents love my husband and his family... My dad and my father in law actually hang out, drink, play dominoes and shoot the shyt...

You want a harem because you want a harem... Nothing else

 

[capt_saveahoe]

or what about when he finds out that foreign women are as big a headache as american women, and will consistently fall back on "it's just my culture"

Not to mention the headaches of their extended family. Very few americans can actually deal with a foreign woman

 

[Ziggiy]

29. I'll probably be married again within the next three years....

 

[Unknown Poster]

Stahp... My husband is West Indian ... My parents love my husband and his family... My dad and my father in law actually hang out, drink, play dominoes and shoot the shyt...

You want a harem because you want a harem... Nothing else

Lol. Ok.

Yeah...that is something i rarely talk about with my family.

I was convinced most AA women just tend to stick with AAs. My family doesn't really associate with them and have some negative attitudes towards them. They never flat out said dont date or marry African American but my mother straight up told me she can't relate to african americans. I can't relate to them anymore. Simply because of how strict they were and how weird they were regarding me and my siblings with dating and relationships most of them never sought any out. Pretty much the idea was put in out heads to date/marry Nigerian. Well...there weren't that many Nigerians in pittsburgh if any.

I always feel just due to that they would never approve of who I date anyways so i don't tell them. And honestly if i got married i wouldn't even tell them about it let alone give them an invite.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Knew too many miserable married folks while I was coming up. It could be different and who knows what the future holds but for right now....naaaahhhh playboy. Plus I run into old married acquaintances that have the nerve to act hostile towards me because they aren't happy in their marriages. Had to check more than a few...we ain't cool no more as a result.

Don't hate because I didn't take that step.

 

[dennis roadman]

Lol. Ok.

Yeah...that is something i rarely talk about with my family.

I was convinced most AA women just tend to stick with AAs. My family doesn't really associate with them and have some negative attitudes towards them. They never flat out said dont date or marry African American but my mother straight up told me she can't relate to african americans. I can't relate to them anymore. Simply because of how strict they were and how weird they were regarding me and my siblings with dating and relationships most of them never sought any out. Pretty much the idea was put in out heads to date/marry Nigerian. Well...there weren't that many Nigerians in pittsburgh if any.

I always feel just due to that they would never approve of who I date anyways so i don't tell them. And honestly if i got married i wouldn't even tell them about it let alone give them an invite.

you're still blaming lack of ability to connect with people on being "foreign" when you were raised in pittsburgh and according to your repping, live in NEW YORK CITY

you're an american breh. and apparently a child of people from two different countries, yet you can't see yourself dating someone from another background? that's literally the home in which you were raised

 

[Nemesis]

could have been married to four different women , got straight asked 3 times........

I have no issue with getting married, I have no issue with not getting married..... my mom and some members of my family have called endless family meetings about this....smh

From the age of 17 my life has been too unstructured and I guess I have too much of a laissez faire attitude to life...

Im going to marry my girl Im with now tho....

 

[Unknown Poster]

you're still blaming lack of ability to connect with people on being "foreign" when you were raised in pittsburgh and according to your repping, live in NEW YORK CITY

you're an american breh. and apparently a child of people from two different countries, yet you can't see yourself dating someone from another background? that's literally the home in which you were raised

I dont have a lack of ability to connect to people. Im still getting over these hang ups i had about race and ethnicity coming up in my situation that i had for ages growing up in a racist ass city like Pittsburgh. For a while i just thought everyone was against me and it made me not want to talk to people. Then i realize that i have a likeable personality im funny i go out there and do my thjng here in new york and no one cares about that here...living in pittsburgh was the opposite so now im finally getting confident again with how i am with people and i just had managed a store where im talking to people and interacting with the public any days.

It was all in my head. Really. And if i had no ability to connect with people why am i so popular and have friends? I would be a shut in but really i never was.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Plus it's like if you have a serious gf or whateve you have to meet their parents and i'll be dead honest...i don't want to.

I already know with who i date 95% of they family ain't gonna like me cause I'm Nigerian and West indian. Most of you yanks are weird about us and just don't like our culture and there's the clash. Even with african americans.

So I'm rather just meet with and sleep with random chicks. Have the harem. I never had the opportunity to and honestly I would rather do that. I was a loser for the majority of my 20s and in a city where really only white guys was eating. Women wasn't checking out brothers like me period.

Yea...maybe it would be different if i wasnt nigerian and west indian. But i can already tell that's what it is.

you still a loser

 

[The ADD]

you still a loser

 

[Unknown Poster]

you still a loser

You a fuccboi bytch ass nikka and a fakkit. Dont even quote me.

 

[CrimsonTider]

You a fuccboi bytch ass nikka and a fakkit. Dont even quote me.

all in ya feelings

 

[Unknown Poster]

@CrimsonTider the biggest fukking drake stan calling me a loser. Lol. You are a punk son. You a drake stan you prolly want to suck his dikk and swallow his load. You got shyt taste in music too. You hate 90s ny hip hop nobody likes you b. fukk off son. You aint built enough to fukk with me you stipid bytch ass nikka. Stupid fukking dumb ass nikka. fukk you and your family for producing such a worthless piece of shyt.

Keep that shyt behind a keyboard son. Cause honetly i wouldnt hesitate to punch your face in you goddamn fakkit fukk.

 

[Unknown Poster]

all in ya feelings

What did i say about quoting me?. Get off my dikk you crack baby. Embarassing ass c00n ass sambo black man. Go fukk yourself and die.