You 35 and up single nikkas, what you say when the fam asks you why you single?

[triplehate]

I got married late but they did see me with chicks in between

You gotta at least let them see a few failures so they know you trying.

I moved out the crib and was living with a chick (and had to move back cause she was a whore. )

 

[Scaaar]

I'm turning 35 next month and I've never heard of had that type of pressure put on me before. But I've also been married once in my 20s and have a daughter so they ignore me and figure I'm just being a hoe or something lol. My cousin on the other hand my Aunt is on his a$$ about getting a woman. But he's on that red pill/incels stuff so I told her that he might be a lost cause. Or the woman he eventually finds is going to do him greasy and take all his bread because he lacks experience with women

 

[rabbid]

I'll look her dead in the eyes and say bytch I might be gay. U know any single dudes out chyea? fukk that. You gotta overpower them with confidence they trying you cause they think it's possible.

 

[Dont@Me]

Just had this conversation twice when I went back home

I didn’t want to tell them the truth, so I just said I don’t think theres anyone out there for me at the moment.

If/when they do try to pull this gay shyt, I go into specifics and it’s something they don’t care to hear… as it makes them uncomfortable

Which is to me, American dating and marriage culture is trash. Room got quiet

"GAY?!? naw, I JUST got genital herpes from a broad last week! "

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

The last girl I dated for a month was a 31 year old Christian woman who claimed she wanted to get married and have kids. Our last date lasted 3 hours, just talking at a restaurant. So obviously we had a good vibe.
I texted her 3 days later asking if she was free to talk and she told me she was busy with work and would be busy for a month.
I never responded and she never hit me back.
That’s why I say that “shortage of black men/ no good black men” is straight bullshyt.

Im literally in the top 10% of all men when it comes finance, physique, mindset, and I actually want to get married. I know a lot of decent men experience the same thing just from what I see/read online.

Mfers just say that to duck accountability.

Just had a chick after 4 months breakup to “be alone and heal”

First successful good relationship and NOW you wanna sit down somewhere

Can’t make this shyt up

 

[Shadow King]

Not yet 35+ but society is no longer built for a man to be prioritizing and carrying an "I MUST!" mentality towards women.

 

[Admiral Ackbar]

"What day is it? Oh shyt, Saturday? I'm single today. She back with her husband for the weekend."

 

[Elim Garak]

Thecoli is wild even the age is the same over and over. If this doesn't show society programs people idk what does.

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/brehs-who-are-single-never-married-and-over-35.917823/

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/are-older-brehs-who-are-35-with-no-kids-or-a-wife-that-way-because-they-are-really-social-outcasts.1012650/

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/the-dating-game-for-the-35-up-guys-with-no-kids-no-child-support-alimony-gmb-mafia.917332/

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/if-you-are-over-35-why-are-you-single.573443/

35+ Single Brehs, What's your dating life like?

Where are you meeting women? Are you finding women down for sex without committment? What's the quality looking like? Are you meeting chicks that are wifey material (for you)? Do you want and/or are you able to pull the youngins (25 and under)?

www.thecoli.com

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/if-a-woman-over-the-age-of-35-never-married-no-kids-is-on-an-online-dating-site.71153/

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

They have so much other stuff to ask me about so nobody really asks. But I told mama a few years ago "im going to try to go out more and meet people"

She hasn't asked me since and I haven't met people

 

[ndthentherewasx]

"I'm not dealing with all that nonsense."

Then elaborate some, or not.


That's not me though

 

[Lord Beasley]

If you got a stable or a couple of ladies, it's cool to be single. If you 35 with nothing, yeaaah

 

[Killer Instinct]

There’s a breh on here who produces tranny porn. I don’t remember what his username was, but he had no shame in being a bussy connoisseur.

@Gunshi

 

[Zero]

Don't get mad at me because I can take full advantage of my money and time

 

[Givethanks]

The older generation is clueless on how modern relationships are.
They think you can get a job and just get married and buy a house.
They don’t realize that women now have unreal standards, an attention span of a fly, and will ghost or end a relationship just because.

Back in the day an average man with an average job could pull an above average or average woman with ease.
Now you have average and below average women who think they’re better/deserve above average men.

Yeah they are, I agree with that aboht Gen X and the boomers are kind of out of touch with today's life, but that's expected.

I don't like generalizing but I believe there is someone for everyone. I know everyday guys pulling everyday women, it's always someone I know (male/female) getting married on my social media.

I'm average as hell and I've always had women around. I don't understand if brehs family sees you around women, why would they make up rumours about brehs being gay? Or even ask why breh is single?

 

[Amo Husserl]

Been thinkin' 'bout hangin' my abstinence jersey up in the rafters.
Got a couple more seasons before the pickings get razor-thin.