Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

[dennis roadman]

Lets not start the whole women are the same all over the world bit again

Is every culture the same all across the world?

If the answer is no then why do you think the women raised in different cultures wont have different perspectives of life and how they interact with men?

I know American culture is shytty at best

I know American women are shytty there are a few diamonds out there granted

American culture ruins people

People in foreign countries are happier overall

Its kinda difficult to find happy people in the richest country on earth

Everybody on prozac and anti depression medicine

Why do you think that is?

i never said women or culture were the same all over the world

you disappeared quick from the brazil thread slobbering all over the idea of a brazilian woman cooking you 3 meals a day once i showed simple researched facts contradicting whatever anecdotal assumptions you were spewing

and yeah i remember that, if the coli discusses brazil, i know about it

people in foreign countries are happier overall, that must be why the visa application process to the US is so rigorous and condemned by nearly every diplomatic mission and immigration rights group people wanna come to the US, PERIOD. the country has MAJOR issues and is not anywhere close to "the best", if such a thing were to exist, but the fact that people from outside wanna get inside says that this ridiculously subjective idea of "happier" that you cling to is just garbage.

to be honest i think you're projecting your own fears. you've had bad experiences with american women but aren't ready to give up on women in general (and for that i salute you, you're not as lost as some of these coli idiots), so you grasp tightly on the idea that somewhere across the deep blue wandering sea, there are women worth marrying

and you're right! but it's not because they're foreign. it's because there's someone for everyone on this planet, humans are social co-habitators
if i were to speak in such broad terms as you, one might assume im saying "american women are the best". but im not. im saying they shouldn't listen to someone like you that has no idea what they're talking about

 

[freetroit]

i never said women or culture were the same all over the world

you disappeared quick from the brazil thread slobbering all over the idea of a brazilian woman cooking you 3 meals a day once i showed simple researched facts contradicting whatever anecdotal assumptions you were spewing

and yeah i remember that, if the coli discusses brazil, i know about it

people in foreign countries are happier overall, that must be why the visa application process to the US is so rigorous and condemned by nearly every diplomatic mission and immigration rights group people wanna come to the US, PERIOD. the country has MAJOR issues and is not anywhere close to "the best", if such a thing were to exist, but the fact that people from outside wanna get inside says that this ridiculously subjective idea of "happier" that you cling to is just garbage.

to be honest i think you're projecting your own fears. you've had bad experiences with american women but aren't ready to give up on women in general (and for that i salute you, you're not as lost as some of these coli idiots), so you grasp tightly on the idea that somewhere across the deep blue wandering sea, there are women worth marrying

and you're right! but it's not because they're foreign. it's because there's someone for everyone on this planet, humans are social co-habitators
if i were to speak in such broad terms as you, one might assume im saying "american women are the best". but im not. im saying they shouldn't listen to someone like you that has no idea what they're talking about

People want to come to America for business purposes breh

America is a fukking corporation for petes sake

I just got off the phone with one of my African queens who was here to get her degree and she went right back to south africa to do her business

I done had too many experiences with black women from africa ,the Caribbean and latin America to know for a fact they are better and superior to American women in every facet except financial


So brehs dont listen to this debbie downer as nikka

If you a relatively decent looking man with a lil swag you will get to be with some of the finest black women god ever cteatedif you not too p*ssy to leave America

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

why would i get married due to my age lol? this is a stupid question

 

[LadySimone]

I see shyt with my own eyes, don't need TV. But, your mind is made up, so you make excuses for what you want to believe. If my kids need the perks, they can get it with me, but we know most likely the courts will give her the children, so it is what it is. She is not living off of me. I don't care if its just extra pocket money. Women need to stop using children to get extra money, and the excuses like the ones you gave are for dumb asses. At least have a good excuse if you are going to play that game! You act like a woman can't work, and provide as well. If she has the children most of the time, she needs to pay her share. Why is that so hard for you to understand? If its too hard!for her, then give them to me.

That's cool. Don't give her extra money but since she gotta wake up an hour or two earlier everyday before she go to work to get YOUR kids washed clothes fed and ready for school why not give her a bit extra time? Oh right you can't do that can you? Or how about when the kids are sick? You taking off work to look after them? You leaving work earlier to go get them?

 

[bouncy]

That's cool. Don't give her extra money but since she gotta wake up an hour or two earlier everyday before she go to work to get YOUR kids washed clothes fed and ready for school why not give her a bit extra time? Oh right you can't do that can you? Or how about when the kids are sick? You taking off work to look after them? You leaving work earlier to go get them?

They are her children too. Again, if she chose to divide the family up, she should be able to play her part. If she can't do it, give the kids to me. There is no more to discuss. You are trying to make me agree that paying my ex to take care of the children who live with her, is OK. It sounds ridiculous. The money grab would never stop if I don't put a line in the sand. She would start saying she needs a better house so the kids have room or some other shyt to get me to fund her lifestyle. I seen this shyt too many times. I even had chicks playing the game on me, but because they know, I know the game, they didn't go too hard with it, but if they tried it with me, and we have no kids together, imagine what they will do when she can make up shyt, and say its for the children!

The rest of what you wrote are exceptions to the average everyday routine. You don't make choices based on the exceptions you encounter, you make them based on consistent results. So, if I see a lot of women use children as money, and make a man's life hard, why would I go against doing what will help me prevent that? See the world in a man's eyes before you condemn him, but if you're selfish, this is something you can't comprehend.

 

[714562]

This thread has me shook, man.

I'm 25 and recently got out of a long-term relationship with a girl who wanted to marry me, but the feeling was not mutual.

Hope there's light at the end of the tunnel.

 

[Jahmal]

This thread has me shook, man.

I'm 25 and recently got out of a long-term relationship with a girl who wanted to marry me, but the feeling was not mutual.

Hope there's light at the end of the tunnel.

 

[dennis roadman]

People want to come to America for business purposes breh

America is a fukking corporation for petes sake

I just got off the phone with one of my African queens who was here to get her degree and she went right back to south africa to do her business

I done had too many experiences with black women from africa ,the Caribbean and latin America to know for a fact they are better and superior to American women in every facet except financial


So brehs dont listen to this debbie downer as nikka

If you a relatively decent looking man with a lil swag you will get to be with some of the finest black women god ever cteatedif you not too p*ssy to leave America

ok breh

i dont even live in the US full time and i disagree. but your about skyping with african queens keep you warm at night im sure

 

[Bless't]

The replies in here are huh yeah…..

Guess it hurts to know how black men actually view wanting to marry a black woman…. or lack thereof

That gif is great!!!

 

[Bless't]

Being single/unmarried after 30 isn't fun if you aren't out partying, busy or traveling ALL the time. Dont let anyone else tell you other wise. Its cool, its relaxing, its fun sometimes but over all its gets lonely quick.

If your living the typical 30 single life you probably want to settle down just haven't done it yet for whatever reason.


I love my freedom, I love alot of things about being single now, its just easy and relaxing. But I'd be a lie if I sat here and said, I miss not having some to lay up under me or just chill with on lazy days like this. I'm far from a extrovert and its still gets lame.



I think most men over 30 that aren't married fall under "haven't found the right chick" category. A mans financial is usually the last thing he worries about when he trying to marry a chick.

Yup.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

To completely answer this question, I would have to reveal very personal information, as result, would expose too much of my profile(much like 1984 did ). Not happening.

What I will say..... I use to have the hardcore romantic outlook on love & relationships. As a male, that is a terrible stance that can lead to financial and social suicide. Admittedly, the internet has opened my mind to the realities of dating and marriage. I now have a more logical view which allows me to make sound decisions.

I think the possibility of foregoing marriage; dying alone without siring any children is real. Most of the reasons have already been stated, so I won't bother to restate them. I'm not a black male from the stereotypical broken black household... my parents are still married and my father took care of his household. I know what a functional marriage and household looks like, but I just don't see it happening for me.

The reasons.... My psychological profile (commitment to anything is difficult for me, let alone a relationship), my physical profile (which I'm trying to change), and my financial profile (which isn't terrible, but not sufficient for marriage).