You two are trying so hard. Stop it. There's a difference between being anti-social and personable and being anti-social and an a$$hole. Judging from his story he was the latter. My co-workers beg and plead with me to come out and chill, dinner, clubbing and I throw them a bone once every 3 months or so
but for the most part I respectfully decline. They still enjoy my company at work and we clown. I just don't fcku with them outside of work.
This dude seems like an entitled prick who probably felt he was above all that shh. Kobe learned the hard way you can't piss on ppl like that. You have to be personable. You don't have to be exchanging gifts at X-mas or no shh, but send out a X-mas card. Mr. Parish just don't know how to play the game. I agree it is a shock if you going from millions to 80K, but when you are an outsider you got to work your way up. This also speaks to a larger point of how short-sided athletes are, notably black. Every interaction is a job interview. Smarten up.