Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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[The Message]

My man Rein and his list made marriage sound like a post nuclear apocalyptic wasteland. lol Especially #15

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[Not By Bread Alone]

I don't know, reading it just gives me a sad feeling.

same here

no one here believes in unconditional love?

 

[MikelArteta]

same here

no one here believes in unconditional love?

[/quote]I was getting out of my car this morning, and my little Yorkie stuck out her paw and scrapped it on my hand wanting me to pet her. She's so nice. She does this a lot--though it's a bit annoying when I'm driving--because all she wants is some love and a little attention. I pet her on the head and she's happy, and will lay down and sleep on a longer trip.

A dog will give a man unconditional love; whereas, a woman may or may not keep you around depending upon the prevailing winds. I don't have to buy my dog a food dish lined with jewels.


My dog doesn't get crabby and vicious for no reason because she loves me unconditionally. My dog doesn't run up a charge account at Macy's, and she doesn't spend $50.00 to do her nails. My dog doesn't take drugs, drink alcohol, or crash my brand new car. My dog doesn't stand there and "bytch me out" for not being sensitive to her needs. All my dog needs is a little love, attention, and her food.

Overall, the quality of life with my dog has far exceeded any relationship I have had with any woman. If you want to know where you stand with a woman, just run out of money. If you have a woman that stays with you when you're broke or in a setback, then you have a good one. The value of any relationship depends upon unconditional love, and that's more evident with my dog.


My guess is that animals are not subject to evil as people are. Even wild animals seem to be more behaved than mankind. Animals don't strap explosives on themselves and then go blow up other animals. You don't see eagles or vultures flying over the elephants dropping bombs on them. When was the last time you saw a socialist animal? Animals don't shave their faces, armpits, or legs, put on makeup, they don't get pierced or get tattoos, take drugs, engage in homosexual activities, nor do they cross-dress. You will never see a male lion shave his mane nor his beard in order to look like a female lion. You don't see them working on their "six pack" (I have a one pack). You'll never see animals joining the freemasons or other satanic cults. Animals have more freedom than people

She doesn't mess with my mind; doesn't say yes today and no tomorrow. She doesn't tell me she loves me today, but tomorrow she wants a divorce. My dog doesn't pole dance at drunken parties. My dog doesn't pick up "stud muffins" at bars. My dog doesn't make porno films. My dog doesn't take me to court (you lawyers..don't get any ideas) and she doesn't make any unreasonable demands. It is a perfect relationship as I don't have to entertain any of her relatives. My dog is my friend and not my adversary.
If I was ever to consider getting married again, the woman would have to (at the very least) rise to the level of the behavior of my beautiful little dog. Dogs and animals stay within the natural order in which God created; many people do not. is lovable, my ***** is kind, my ***** is considerate, and she hardly causes me any trouble. She doesn't mess with my mind; doesn't say yes today and no tomorrow. She doesn't tell me she loves me today, but tomorrow she wants a divorce. My dog doesn't pole dance at drunken parties. My dog doesn't pick up "stud muffins" at bars. My dog doesn't make porno films. My dog doesn't take me to court (you lawyers..don't get any ideas) and she doesn't make any unreasonable demands. It is a perfect relationship as I don't have to entertain any of her relatives. My dog is my friend and not my adversary.

If I was ever to consider getting married again, the woman would have to (at the very least) rise to the level of the behavior of my beautiful little dog. Dogs and animals stay within the natural order in which God created; many people do not.
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in essence dogs offer unconditional love

women nope

 

[MikelArteta]

Your eyes are open now. You have finally put 2 and 2 together and realized the "modern woman" and everything about her is an illusion. Everything you, me, and millions of other men, both young and old have been raised to believe is a lie. Women really are the weaker sex. They aren't equal and the worst part? They never were. It can be tough to have a deeply held desire for something warm, intimate, romantic and good be smashed to pieces by the reality surrounding you. Some men get angry while others choose to live in denial - refusing to let go of the illusion because the truth is too depressing. Some never recover.

Out of the ashes of awareness, however, the Phoenix is reborn.

For those who have the courage to face the truth about modern society, women, relationships, and marriage there is an upside. You'll begin to gain a greater sense of self as a man and you will begin to understand your own worth. You'll no longer find desperate fulfillment in the arms of a woman, but instead you'll find fulfillment in your beliefs, your faith, your principles, your intelligence, your strength, and your natural authority. You are a man. You are the Father, the Husband, and the Adult. You lead, women follow. Women cannot give you purpose as it isn't theirs to give - it is yours to choose. But be prepared! A man whose mind has been freed from the fog of politically correct hype is a threat to the establishment that feeds it. A man whose mind has been freed is a man that cannot be controlled any more - and that makes you dangerous.

You are like a parent that has realized how spoiled, selfish, and arrogant the children have become. You begin to see them for what they are and instead of giving in to their selfish demands, whining, and temper tantrums you start setting rules, defining boundaries for behavior, and exacting discipline. You become a rock that cannot be moved or manipulated by them. Naturally the child will kick and scream and yell and fight you. But ultimately, the child will appreciate the fact that you have given their life what they've needed all along - order. Modern woman are no different . Though they may deny it, they are, in essence, overgrown children crying out for leadership because order brings comfort, security, and safety - everything women today desperately seek. Ironically, the very thing women rage against the most - submission - is the very thing they need.

Also, as you regain your manhood, don't be surprised if women actually find you more attractive now. We are men. We have been raised to believe that being a man is bad - that masculinity is offensive. That testosterone is a disease men need to be cured of because it offends and scares women. No. Masculinity only scares women because it reminds them of what they aren't and what they will never be....MEN. We already are what women want - by birth. Unfortunately, once you see women for what they are, it's hard to say the same about them.....

 

[MikelArteta]

It's worthless to be what a woman wants,
if what a woman wants is a slave.
Any woman with sense will realise that if the man is the only one doing the heavy lifting in the relationship:
what happens if he gets injured?
If she thinks she'll get a better deal elsewhere, she may simply be setting herself up for an extended series of pump-and-dump.
Unfortunately, many women confuse their ability to attract a guy to have sex with them,
with the ability to get a guy to commit to them.
The "gina tingles" are a very unreliable indicator of long-term relationship stability.

 

[MikelArteta]

I mentioned that marriage is a bad risk. She trotted out the "not all girls are like that" line, which I nicely handled with the hand grenade analogy (here's a box of hand grenades, choose one you think is a dud, then hold it and pull the pin and see if you were right or not). There's no way to know WHAT kind of girl you have until you're committed and it's too late to avoid being destroyed. Therefore, there can be women who are "not like that", but unfortunately it's irrelevant. Not all hand grenades are "like that" (meaning they explode), and there ARE duds... but because the duds can look just like the live ones, you'd have to be crazy to pick one and commit to finding out.

She rolled her eyes and basically said that if you don't know the girl by THEN (marriage time), then you're clueless. I replied that women can be master actresses, and you can only get to know the "real them" if they allow you to see it before the wedding, which many do not. And girls acting good look identical, in all respects, to girls who are REALLY good. So, there's just no way to know until it's too late

 

[winb83]

same here

no one here believes in unconditional love?

Unconditional love? For the most part all love is conditional and to say otherwise is just being idealistic. Love is just an emotion like say anger there's nothing special about it.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Unconditional Love is becoming a myth. The only ones at the end of the day who will truly love you for you is God and your parents (if your blessed with loving and caring parents).A woman can say she will love you if your broke,homeless etc....but all that is talk and when things get rough she realizes she has options and she will jet out of there quick.Does uncondtional love exists..... yes it does but its a slim %...THESE DAYS. Marriages and relationships in 2012 is different then back in the day.More options the less loyalty.At the end of the day its about what you can tolerate and at times what BS your willing to put up with.

 

[MikelArteta]

Unconditional Love is becoming a myth. The only ones at the end of the day who will truly love you for you is God and your parents (if your blessed with loving and caring parents).A woman can say she will love you if your broke,homeless etc....but all that is talk and when things get rough she realizes she has options and she will jet out of there quick.Does uncondtional love exists..... yes it does but its a slim %...THESE DAYS. Marriages and relationships in 2012 is different then back in the day.More options the less loyalty.At the end of the day its about what you can tolerate and at times what BS your willing to put up with.

or a dog

 

[MikelArteta]

Unconditional love? For the most part all love is conditional and to say otherwise is just being idealistic. Love is just an emotion like say anger there's nothing special about it.

dwell more on this i know you mentioned it at sohh and it was gospel

 

[winb83]

dwell more on this i know you mentioned it at sohh and it was gospel

To the people that believe in unconditional love if you raped and killed her mother would she still love you? We are human beings we have and maintain love and relationships because they're beneficial to us and because we approve of the person. As long as they stay within a certain boundary the love is there.

 

[T-K-G]

Unconditional Love is becoming a myth. The only ones at the end of the day who will truly love you for you is God and your parents (if your blessed with loving and caring parents).A woman can say she will love you if your broke,homeless etc....but all that is talk and when things get rough she realizes she has options and she will jet out of there quick.Does uncondtional love exists..... yes it does but its a slim %...THESE DAYS. Marriages and relationships in 2012 is different then back in the day.More options the less loyalty.At the end of the day its about what you can tolerate and at times what BS your willing to put up with.

isn't this a condition breh