Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sixsixtwo]

Marriage From Hell - YouTube

 

[Rocket Scientist]

You got to look at a woman as an investment. Financial,mental etc...you have to protect your heart FIRST. People may say your extra guarded or paranoid. Take it as a compliment,men out here are naive to these women's games."She wont do that to me,she loves me".There is a thing line between love/hate simple. Now we have Steve Harvey writing these books and these women are thinking like us,acting like us,trying to be players and calling themselves "pimps".This is why the men or nice guys,choir boys are being played,women prey on these guys. Yet society says nothing about this. However not all women are bad...you either will be blessed by one or find a "diamond" in the rough.Its easy to find a woman,however keeping her interested is the hard part. I dont know who said it but a poster said "Thats why women like vanity and fashion because it constantly changes as do their moods/mindset" thats a real statement.

 

[MikelArteta]

You got to look at a woman as an investment. Financial,mental etc...you have to protect your heart FIRST. People may say your extra guarded or paranoid. Take it as a compliment,men out here are naive to these women's games."She wont do that to me,she loves me".There is a thing line between love/hate simple. Now we have Steve Harvey writing these books and these women are thinking like us,acting like us,trying to be players and calling themselves "pimps".This is why the men or nice guys,choir boys are being played,women prey on these guys. Yet society says nothing about this. However not all women are bad...you either will be blessed by one or find a "diamond" in the rough.Its easy to find a woman,however keeping her interested is the hard part. I dont know who said it but a poster said "Thats why women like vanity and fashion because it constantly changes as do their moods/mindset" thats a real statement.

 

[Sharp]

If you don't have any children and you're not married consider yourself blessed as you are able to start fresh today and take full advantage of these principles.

Me personally, I'm diggin myself out of a ditch, because I am going thru a divorce plus I have children. I don't want cats to make the same mistakes I made.

Marriage does not benefit you. You can have that same level of commitment and a long term relationship without being legally binded. Being legally married only give you administrative perks such as life insurance, pension, health insurance, etc. and her your last name.

Do not have children based on the fact that you believe she is a good mother because this won't matter when you're separated and she's coming for your head. Have children with a woman because she is a sensible person and will do what is in the best interest of the child without trying to destroy you if your relationship goes sour.

Children are big bargaining chips for women, so be careful of dating women who have nothing. EVen though I don't condone it, dating women with kids gives you an indicator of how women treat the father of their child once he's no longer in their lives. Date one, not seriously tho, just to get a feel and a reality check of what might happen if you have a kid with a chick and you split up.

Keep it simple.. don't even think about having kids with a woman until you are already 5 years in, which means stay away from these chicks in their 30s with no kids... they're not going to wait that long. My secret... go for a woman in her late 20s with a career. She will make more sensible decisions regarding children because she will also be heavily affected by her choices.

 

[sixsixtwo]

MarkyMark's Thoughts on Various Issues: Taking the Red Pill, by Nightstorm

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[MikelArteta]

MarkyMark's Thoughts on Various Issues: Taking the Red Pill, by Nightstorm

markymark is a pioneer

been reading his blog for years, his archive cache stuff on google are legendary

 

[MikelArteta]

MarkyMark's Thoughts on Various Issues: Taking the Red Pill, by Nightstorm

man this tshould be posted i know folks are lazy to click external links here

In my blue pill days, I was often depressed because I thought the only way to happiness was the love and affection of a girlfriend. Those days are long gone. There is too much I hate about women's behavior and thinking that makes me despise them as human beings.

1. They aren't accountable for anything. They would rather quickly blame someone else, or use reverse psychology on you and somehow make it seem their fukked up behavior is your fault. You made them do this!

2. They will NEVER admit to a fault. Same as point one but with a different twist. The reality is, you could bust out facts, figures, numbers, truth.. and they will openly deny their own behavior and call you misogynistic instead. What turned me off from women in my early red pill days wasn't the fact that they was doing wrong, but it was that they was denying it when confronted with it. As if they had nooooo idea what I was talking about. They would NEVER... NEVER... NEVER... fess up to the wrong doings that they committed. If they even did, it would be a half-assed fess up like.. well YOU aren't so good behaving yourself either!

3. Masters of usery. They talk about men as if they was machines, not human beings. Infact, they have been so coddled, so pampered, so spoiled from reality.. that they have lost any sense of humanity in them. Its one thing to protect a child, but if you over-protect them, they become useless. Most women have become useless and even though they know what it takes to make a man happy, refuses to be a "slave" to that man.

4. bytching, Nagging, Attitude. I don't know why women think this is in any remote way attractive to a man. I level of desire to feel a woman bytch is about the same as I feel as someone stabbing me in the back with a knife. I don't want it. Ever!!!

5. Entitlement. They have the strongest self-delusion that they are worthy of something just because they was born a woman.What they don't realize is the worth that they do have, was given by men. Take out men, and what worth do women have? ZERO! They will be living under bridges within less than 3 days. I have seen women who say things like "they don't deserve me!", perching herself up on her own pestal! As if she was some dam royal queen! In the words of Jesus, "If I honor myself, my honor is worth nothing". These women flatter themselves and honor themselves with self-worship to the highest degree with no shame. Am I suppose to go out of my way and indulge a woman with this completely made up fantasy that she is important? So important that I have to stand on the close side of the street curb so I can get hit by the car and not her? HELL. NO! Not only will I not do that, I REFUSE.

6. Cherry Picking. They demand all the privileges men earned through their sacrifice for free!!! Except with a twist. They don't want to sacrifice or be responsible or accountable themselves because their just 'ladies". So not only do they not qualify for the position, they refuse to play the full part. Yet men handed it over on a silver plate. Not only that, now that they are.. "equal"... they want men to STILL give them the benefits of chivalry and opening doors up for them.. and treating them like ladies.. who are "equal" to us. In reality, they are cherry picking the hell out of it and everyone knows it but wont' say a dam thing about it.

7. No sense of FAIRNESS, HONOR, or JUSTICE. Women are the most selfish creatures on earth with only the mere emotional delusion that their feelings for another human being is "love", while ignoring the fact that real love is actions, not feelings. They don't care about other women, let alone men or their children. They are number one in their life, they will destroy by the powers men gave them to destroy the very same men. They have no guilt and no remorse. If they happen to do feel something is wrong, they will shut it out via the sisterhood. At least men think about themselves and women. Women, only think about women, period.

8. Drama. Last but not least, their desire for drama. I have no pleasure or peace in being a jester for these bytches just so they don't get bored. Which only sheds light on how truly pathetic and boring their lives are. I have had women admitting to me that they literally purposefully will just out of no where bad-mouth a man right in front of him just to get him to start a fight with them. Unlucky for her, it went over-board and that drama lead to her being stressed out. Well, not so wise are we!

Women expect men to not only be there for them for everything hand and foot, but also expect us to smile when they wipe us like toilet paper and toss us away. Were suppose to be grateful that her majesties feet has put mud on us. Were suppose to be happy that she even took the time to shyt on us.

When I see women now days, I don't see pretty little innocent girls who get beatin' up by big strong bad mean men. I see evil witches who want to torture everyone else because they themselves have no love for anyone else, except themselves.

For that, screw them. Screw them to hell. They can rot with their cats. There has been too many examples of good men being destroyed by these bytches that one should even remotely entertain the thought that he should be with one as a "soul mate". Your just another fiddle in a woman's life. When you come out, some magina will come in and take over. Her whole life is nothing but a play where she manipulates, controls, and decimates men at her will.

And the biggest irony of it all.. is men are blind to it, and men LET them do it.

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A "good man" is one who keeps paying out w/ asking nothing in return and staying out her way as she chases her emo/drama porn dreams.

and i agree with this, like i said you can lend a woman money, and you can see her out going on vacation, buying new clothes, getting her hair done, and you ask her back for the money she owes you, and you will be portrayed as the bad person.

 

[MikelArteta]

Most women in the US have become the female version of the sick, unattractive man with bad BO. Unlike men who tend to be one way and stay that way for all of their lives, women change dramatically and quickly, depending on how good they are. When they are 16, they are hotter than hell. At 23, she's still cute. Cresting 30, she looks like hell. And by 35, she's dog ugly and hanging out at K-Mart. This doesn't happen with normal women. It doesn't even happen all the time with abnormal women with very good genes (look at Pamela Anderson), on the outside. It always happens on the inside. That woman who you totally fell in love with at 21, who screwed you over at 23, you wouldn't even recognize today. Her personality is nothing like it was back then (if it ever was, but that's a different story). The important thing to understand is, it has nothing to do with you. Because it has nothing to do with you, there is nothing you can do about it.

This is probably the biggest reason why women seem so scarce in our culture, even though they outnumber us. A woman has a shelf-life of age 15 to 35, maximum. She's really only available between the ages of 20 and 29. After that, her unacceptableness becomes much more obvious. If they didn't want money from us, they wouldn't even bother to go shopping around for a meal ticket at that age. They wouldn't even pretend to be part of our social groups.

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[MikelArteta]

Could? Will is more like it. She WILL walk out of your life without remorse. This is a concept you absolutely must understand when dealing with western women. She WILL walk out of your life without remorse AND, depending on how embedded she was in your life, cause varying levels of problems WHEN she leaves AND, depending on how fukked up she is, try to harm you and/or any children you have together, up to the limit you allow her to.

You cannot ignore the implications of this when you decide what type of relationship to have with a woman. Choose wisely and in such a way that it limits the mischief she causes. Or else…..

Also, when she is with you, she is in no way limiting herself just to you. Another thing to know about before deciding if monogamy (a scam) is for you. You never know about it, but she is actively looking for other men the entire time she is with you and goes through a string of men (whether you are married, living together or just dating), the entire time you know her. You can’t let her know you know because she will just deny it and step up her search for your replacement. The moment she finds one, you’re gone.

Lastly, the moment a woman “has you”, she no longer wants you and will stop trying. The moment you accept the monogamous relationship, the bad behavior starts and she will soon be gone. You can’t keep her. But, you can make her stay around longer by making her compete.

So, should you cheat on her? No, that’s something a p*ssy whipped man, who is unworthy of respect, does. The only thing that will earn bad behavior more than monogamy is lying about monogamy. Do you lay down the law and say, look bytch; I just want p*ssy from you? Maybe. That works, but only with the most fukked up women. These women are into finding new and interesting ways to make themselves and you suffer…..avoid them. The best way to do this is to never allow the monogamous relationship to form in the first place. You must rigidly control how fast and how deep the relationship develops. You must set limits. You must say no to everything she asks for. And you must severely limit the time you spend with any particular woman (once every two weeks is a good rule of thumb). Make the time you spend with her, intense, but limited (ie valuable). She will inevitably ask why. The answer should always be vague, never defensive, and always some version of, I’m a busy man with a limited amount of time. Never allow her to think you are monogamous with her or that the relationship is getting serious but don’t rub her face in the fact that you see other women (nobody’s business but yours). Don’t allow her to make you accountable for time you spend away from her. Don’t let her leave shyt at your apartment. And, whatever you do, don’t stop your behaviors designed to meet new women. In fact, since you have a woman, it’s a good time to step up those behaviors because this magically makes you much more attractive to women in general (and the effect is cumulative).

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[MikelArteta]

It’s very difficult to come to terms with how quickly an important relationship (important to you, not to her) evaporates. It’s happened to me. It’s happened to a lot of guys here. All I can say is there is a hell of a lot more going on with women, particularly women like this, than meets the eye. Much of it is intentional deception on their part, much of it is psychotic behavior (literally in this case, with a diagnosis like bipolar). Because of this, and because of certain patterns of behavior that go along with this, it just isn’t safe for you to still have her in your life. You need to train yourself to discount what women say and watch for patterns in what they do. In this case, she is telling you certain things but I think you should protect yourself from certain behaviours she is likely to engage in. What she says and what she does probably won’t match up. I think you should divorce her as quickly and cleanly as possible, take extreme measures to make sure she never again darkens your doorstep (and she probably will try to) and examine the many warning signs this one showed you to prevent all the others (and there will be others) just like her from coming into your life.

The point I’m trying to make is there are several major patterns you see again and again with women, relationships and divorce. The patterns are repeating and pretty reliable from relationship to relationship. Yours is one of them…..one of the more extreme and disturbing ones. Unfortunately, there are some dangerous behaviours that go along with this particular pattern that I think you should look out for.

One thing I am a BIG advocate of is men identifying women like this as early as possible and getting rid of them. There is no hope of making things work because the other person is just broken and can’t be fixed. If you try, you will be hurt, maybe even killed (I’m not exaggerating with that). Marrying them is one of the worst mistakes a man can make in life and if a man wakes up one day and finds himself in such a bad situation, he needs to be aware of what could happen (hell, what is likely to happen) and extricate himself carefully and in a protected way.

The first step is knowing what is going on. Groups like this can help, but what you really need is a support group of divorced men (men only!) to compare notes with and talk about these issues. I think you will be shocked at the similarity you would have with other guys going through the same thing. Similarity in behaviours from the women, similarity in ways of thinking, and similarity in what happens. But, there is also similarity in ways you can deal with these things too.

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[sixsixtwo]

 

[MikelArteta]

For example, if you have some fantasy about being in love with a guy, marry him and then have kids, but 10 years later you lose interest in that fantasy, the consequences of that are rather harsh. And women never seem to realize what is at the root of their problems. They tend to blame the problems on men. Blah, blah, blah... I don't love you anymore because you are boring, unromantic and a whole bunch of other things that are thinly veiled bullshyt with no basis in reality. The truth is they were never in love in the first place. Love has to do with what you do outside in the real world... your behavior and what you build with it. It has nothing to do with what is going on in your head, even though what is going on in your head may be fun and exciting.

I think a pretty basic thing every man needs to pay attention to when in any relationship is how much does the woman's behavior match up with what she is saying. She says "I love you", but does she act in a loving manner? Does she do things that are incompatible with a person who loves you? Most importantly, does she work toward long term goals based on nurturing a love relationship that is permanent, or is she just along for the ride. Very few women act in any way except just enjoying the moment. What that means is, your behavior and the decisions you make with regard to her should be based on that. I think it is inappropriate to be monogamous with someone who is just having fun times with you. Certainly it is not a good idea live with them, marry them and God forbid, have children with them. Those things absolutely require certain continuous and extended behaviours that the woman (and men and women are absolutely different in this regard) is just not interested in.[/quote{


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[MaybachMusic]

as a man the key to being in a successful relationship is to lie constantly, never tell her what's actually on your mind thats just gonna start problems.

lying won't get you anywhere, but alone. if you are a true man, what you are expressing won't be bullsh#t

 

[sixsixtwo]

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