Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Yep always got to make sure you're protected. Girl of your dreams today can be woman of your nightmare tomorrow. Never know.

 

[drugxglory]

I need to print all these pages and save it for my future son/sons

 

[kevm3]

On doing favors for women, I will do a favor if it doesn't involve money and if she doesn't ask for them often, so I know she really needs it and I know she's willing to or has already done for me a favor in return. There are genuine women you can do favors for, but you have to sort them out from the leeches who want to put you in a 'category' and use you to 'come up.' I will do a favor for a woman sometimes and see if she reciprocates or if she comes up with some excuse. If she has an excuse, she's not getting another favor from me again.

 

[darius19]

say brehs, what are some underrated/overlooked signs that a woman is into you? not the obvious ones that everyone knows

 

[Turbulent]

when a female asks you for advice, more often then not, she's not looking for advice. see a lot of times you gotta read between the lines with a certain type of chick. Girls will tell you about their "problems" and say they don't know what to do. you offer sensible advice and invest energy into trying to figure out how she could solve her problem. she says thanks and goes on and does the exact opposite. there are a few reasons why she talks about her problems:

-sometimes they just want to hear themselves talk.
-sometimes they're trying to brag about something "subtly"
-sometimes they are trying to gossip about someone else/talk about someone

most of the times they're trying to mold you into their BFF. trying to condition your mind into feeling simpathy for her. they want you to invest your energy into thinking about them and their issues. be very careful with those types. this is often how simping starts.

whatever it is, don't waste your time explaining solutions over and over again to some hard headed dummy. logic can't even help her cause she's not even trying to solve her problem. she's about the attention. if a chick tells you about a problem she has, offer her a solution only once and that's it. then observe what happens. if she follows it, she might be smart. if she doesn't, put her in the "silly attention-whore" category and never waste time explaining shyt to her again in the future. when she tries it again, just nod and subtly change the subject.

 

[MikelArteta]

when a female asks you for advice, more often then not, she's not looking for advice. see a lot of times you gotta read between the lines with a certain type of chick. Girls will tell you about their "problems" and say they don't know what to do. you offer sensible advice and invest energy into trying to figure out how she could solve her problem. she says thanks and goes on and does the exact opposite. there are a few reasons why she talks about her problems:

-sometimes they just want to hear themselves talk.
-sometimes they're trying to brag about something "subtly"
-sometimes they are trying to gossip about someone else/talk about someone

most of the times they're trying to mold you into their BFF. trying to condition your mind into feeling simpathy for her. they want you to invest your energy into thinking about them and their issues. be very careful with those types. this is often how simping starts.

whatever it is, don't waste your time explaining solutions over and over again to some hard headed dummy. logic can't even help her cause she's not even trying to solve her problem. she's about the attention. if a chick tells you about a problem she has, offer her a solution only once and that's it. then observe what happens. if she follows it, she might be smart. if she doesn't, put her in the "silly attention-whore" category and never waste time explaining shyt to her again in the future. when she tries it again, just nod and subtly change the subject.

i agree, everytime i talk to or see my godson mom she's crying about her baby daddy, everytime i tell her to file for custody and get child support since the little nikka was born nearly 3 years ago, every time i get the oh I will. This year i finally started to say nothing, "he said hes not bringing him back" me

 

[Scotch Hall]

Dope thread, hopefully it will save some n1ggas on here that suffer from polydipsia

 

[winb83]

 

[MikelArteta]

1. There are very few virgins left. Once upon a time, decent, hard-working men were almost guaranteed a virgin bride with whom they could raise strong, healthy families that were the foundation of traditional society. Thanks to the Sexual Revolution, women nowadays are used-up by the time they are ready to settle down with a decent man. Surveys in the United States and the United Kingdom have revealed that girls typically lose their virginity at the not-so-ripe age of 15. It was also revealed recently that young women have more sex partners than young men, and also report cheating on their partners twice as often. This is downright scary when you consider that females are more inclined to understate their sexual activity, whereas males have a tendency to inflate their numbers. Sloppy seven thousandths? I'll pass.

2. STDs are on the rise. This is especially true in Anglosphere countries such as the United States, United Kingdom, Australia, and Canada. Another report, released a few years ago, showed that more than 1 in 4 teenage girls have been infected with an STD. These teenage girls from 2008 are now becoming young women, and will continue to accumulate sexual experience before "settling down" in their late-20s and 30s. What percentage of today's females will contract some sort of infection by the time they finally decide to give decent men a chance? Based on the studies above, I'd venture to guess more than 50%. I don't know about you, but I would rather not play Russian Roulette with my health -- especially when researchers are beginning to establish a link between STDs and various forms of cancer.

3. Mental illnesses are prevalent amongst young women. Studies also show that a large proportion of women are suffering from various mental health conditions and are more prone to these illnesses than men. One spokesperson for the Mental Health Foundation recently told the Guardian: "Mental disorders amongst middle-aged women have been on the rise in the last two decades. They are now the group most at risk of mild to moderate mental health problems." It is possible that the wonderful woman you plan to marry is actually an insane madwoman putting on a temporary act. This happened to several of my close associates. Don't think it couldn't happen to you.

4. Most Anglosphere women of the past few generations were spoiled growing up. Throughout childhood, their mothers and fathers showered them with gifts and treated them like princesses. Once they hit puberty, they realized their sexual power and capitalized on the inherent advantages of being blessed with two X chromosomes. Such preferential treatment invariably leads to unrealistic expectations later in life, which brings me to my next point.

5. Today's women demand only the best. The strong, loving, honest, capable provider of yesteryear is no longer sufficient for today's women. Your typical AW/WW has a laundry list of requirements that you are to meet if you wish to be in the holy presence of her vagina. You must be not an inch shorter than that magical 6' threshold. Because, after all, the difference between 5'11" and 6'0" makes all the difference in the world! You must meet her minimal attraction requirement. You must earn more money than she, as it has been determined that women are increasingly marrying up. You must be her personal entertainer and comedian. You must measure up to her past lovers in bed. Additionally, you must shower her with gifts and attention; jump through hoops at a moment's notice; cater to her every whim; perform various miracles; and walk on water a la Jesus Christ. Dying on the cross for her sins is optional.

6. Finding the right woman is nearly an impossibility today. Unlike our female counterparts, most western men do not have an unrealistic set of expectations. Typically, we want a baggage-free, attitude-free woman who will remain faithful, stay in decent shape, and meet our sexual needs. Cooking and cleaning are bonuses, for which you will receive much appreciation. As it doesn't take much effort to act politely, remain fit, and not take a few trips around the proverbial block before settling down, I'd say our expectations are relatively realistic. Alas, even these minimal requirements are too much to ask from today's women. Once you exclude women with tattoos, women who are too lazy to remain in shape, women with extensive sexual histories, women with STDs, women who have carried out abortions, women with children from other men, and women with nasty attitudes, you are left with 0.00000001% of westernized females. And even that may be an overestimation. So as not to be accused of generalizing (a favorite accusation of the feminists), I did note that 0.00000001% are "not like the rest" of females in the U.S., U.K., Canada, etc. But that's like finding a needle in a haystack, or spotting a liberal yuppie at an NRA convention. Not exactly favorable odds. I'll stick with my XBox 360, Playstation 3, and Nintendo Wii, thank you very much.

7. Women are easy to offend. In the words of one of my friends, "you have to walk on eggshells around women" so as not to offend them. To make matters worse, women have mastered the art of posing questions with no right answer. Common examples include:
"Do I look fat?"
"What are you looking at?"
"Are you attracted to other women?"
"Why are you getting a prenup? Don't you trust me?"
"Why do you want a paternity test? Don't you trust me?"
"Where do you see this relationship going?"
"Are you saying you want to end it?"
No amount of sex is worth having to put up with these type of mindgames. A lifetime of "having to walk on eggshells" amounts to perpetual psychological torture. No thanks.

8. She will have her cake and eat it too. Today's "empowered" women only want to be "traditional" when it is perfectly convenient for them. Examples include: When the waiter sets the check on the table, when something breaks and needs repair, and when physical protection is needed. You will play by her rules and live with her double standards -- because if you don't, someone else will. The numbers are in her favor, after all.

9. It's costly. At the bar, you will be expected to buy her drinks. At the restaurant, the humble suggestion of "going dutch" will be met with a level of scorn no less intense than the scorching fires of hell. You will be expected to pay her way on most, if not all, dates. You are also supposed to buy expensive gifts for countless occasions, including but not limited to: Valentine's Day, Christmas, her birthday, your anniversary, and whenever she manipulates you into feeling sorry for her. Wedding rings are expensive. Weddings are expensive. Honeymoons are expensive. Children are expensive. And last but not least, her shopping habits will prove to be expensive. By committing yourself to a western woman, you will doom yourself to perpetual wage slavery. You can bet your last rusty nickel on that. Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether or not today's AW/WW are worth the astronomical costs. You know my answer.

10. Men have lost power in the household. Due to the prevailing anti-male legal environment, husbands and fathers have become systematically castrated in western households. One misstep and your spouse could take you to the cleaners, impose restraining orders, or even have you imprisoned. Even perfectly innocent men are not immune to these harsh realities. The woman to whom you professed your undying love could leave you on a whim and be rewarded for her lack of commitment. That leads me to my next point.

11. Divorce sucks for men. Statistically, between 36 and 59 percent of marriages end in divorce, with women initiating divorce twice as often as men. No-fault divorce laws -- which allow women to file for divorce on the slightest grounds -- are now on the books in all 50 states. In divorce court, women are awarded custody of the children almost 90% of the time, with men often getting stuck with alimony and child support payments. One study, prepared by Melanie Cummings of the Children's Rights Council, reveals how post-divorce life can be financially devastating for ex-husbands. The analysis is mindblowing. In the hypothetical example used, a separated father with two children, who earns $55,000/year, ends up with a disposable income of only $14,000 after taxes and child support payments. Conversely, the mother, whose gross income is only $26,000/year, ends up with a net income of $44,000. If this alarming example of coerced, state-sponsored wealth-transference isn't enough to deter potential suckers (err, "husbands") from tying the knot, then I don't know what will!

12. Paternity fraud is rampant in the western world, with the U.S. leading the way. In some cases, men are unbeknowingly supporting other men's biological offspring. According to some studies, paternity fraud is as high as 30% in the United States. To add insult to injury, the non-biological father is rendered the de facto father in many states, resulting in continued child support from the "duped dad." Nothing spells justice like the victim having to pay for the guilty party's infidelity.

13. No child should be subjected to being brought up in this screwed-up social environment. As detailed in one of my previous articles, America is a social wasteland in which bullying, gang-stalking, and other forms of tormenting are prevalent. This is especially true in the public schools, where it is reported that bullying affects millions of students annually. I wouldn't wish my childhood upbringing upon my worst enemy, let alone my own children.

14. You are liable for the actions of your children. As if having kids didn't cost enough already, parents can also be held financially liable for their children's actions. "Nationwide, even good parents increasingly are being held responsible for tens of thousands of dollars in damages and other costs when a child breaks the law or otherwise misbehaves," MSNBC reports.

15. Quality of life declines after marriage. After toiling away at their jobs, men used to come home to appreciative wives, hot meals, clean homes, and regular sex. These days, men, who work longer hours than ever, generally come home to nagging shrews, crappy instameals, unkempt houses, and infrequent lovemaking. What the "bad boys" were able to get quite easily -- and regularly -- throughout high school and college, married men have to beg, plead, and buy gifts to earn. Not to mention that the "bad boys" got to enjoy these females in their sexual prime, whereas you, the emasculated slave, are left with damaged goods. Married men also experience minimal peace and quiet at home, especially if they have children. The constant interruptions will be enough to send any sane husband and father into a maniacal rage. Your hobbies? You can place those on the backburner. Your friends? You won't be seeing them as much. That toilet seat? You better put it down after every piss you take, lest you hear about it from your controlling, overbearing wife. Those chores, errands, and other honey-do lists? Have fun with those, sucker. If you plan on getting married, I hope you enjoy dry sex, because you will be getting screwed while Ms. Right wears the pants!

All things considered, pursuing women in feminized countries just doesn't seem like a favorable proposition for men. Furthermore, it seems as though a man's net reward with women is inversely proportional to his level of commitment, with marriage being the least cost-beneficial. Westernized women, with the assistance of gender-biased governments and legal systems, have all but destroyed the male-female dynamic in the West. Adapting to this new reality, men have elected to boycott marriage in staggering numbers, which will persist until men have more of an incentive to reverse course.[\Quote]


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[jalamanta]

 

[Po pimp]

I remember when I was 24, I hit up this chick on MySpace (back when it was still hot). I mean, she was a good looking 30 year old (will come back to this later) chick with no kids, her own place and a good job, so that was a plus. I admit, I was intrigued that this older chick was feelin' the kid. She told me I was a commodity because I was a handsome, educated black man with no kids (her words, not mine) with a decent job. She really wanted me to take her out. Problem was, I didn't have a whip. She had one, but would always make excuses such as "the man should always pick the woman up on a date." Thing is, she didn't even live that far from me...maybe 15 minute drive.

Anyways, I had only been at this job for about 4-5 months, but she actually had me contemplating copping a whip instead of my original plan of saving up a decent stash and paying off my student loans. I don't remember what happened, but I came to my senses and concentrated on me and ultimately stopped talking to her. Flash forward to approximately a year from that time, she got engaged. Not too long after that, she got married then later on, she had a baby. I dodged a bullet with her, because that definitely could've been me. I was young and stupid, so she could've very well trapped me. Not to say she was a bad person, but I was definitely not ready for that type of life just yet...and to a MySpace chick at that.

Let this be a lesson to you young cats who mess with older women. She may seem like a good chick and all, but once they hit 30, that biological clock is no joke. For the most part, she's gonna be ready to settle down, so if you ain't ready for all that, TREAD WITH CAUTION. Also, at that age, they've dated all types good for nothing dudes, so if a good one comes along, she's almost willing to ignore age if she feels this new guy has potential, because at 30, it's slim pickings. She'll gas you up and have you really feeling yourself. Next thing you know, you're changing diapers, and she completely falls off (arms looked a little flabby in the last pics I've seen of her).

 

[Tres Leches]

damn reincar came through and crushed the buildings

 

[Ohene]

when a female asks you for advice, more often then not, she's not looking for advice. see a lot of times you gotta read between the lines with a certain type of chick. Girls will tell you about their "problems" and say they don't know what to do. you offer sensible advice and invest energy into trying to figure out how she could solve her problem. she says thanks and goes on and does the exact opposite. there are a few reasons why she talks about her problems:

-sometimes they just want to hear themselves talk.
-sometimes they're trying to brag about something "subtly"
-sometimes they are trying to gossip about someone else/talk about someone

most of the times they're trying to mold you into their BFF. trying to condition your mind into feeling simpathy for her. they want you to invest your energy into thinking about them and their issues. be very careful with those types. this is often how simping starts.

whatever it is, don't waste your time explaining solutions over and over again to some hard headed dummy. logic can't even help her cause she's not even trying to solve her problem. she's about the attention. if a chick tells you about a problem she has, offer her a solution only once and that's it. then observe what happens. if she follows it, she might be smart. if she doesn't, put her in the "silly attention-whore" category and never waste time explaining shyt to her again in the future. when she tries it again, just nod and subtly change the subject.

most of the time I find they are looking for validation. for somebody to agree with them and their rationalizations for why an event occurred orwhy they made a particular decision

 

[Sharp]

Women themselves will admit that they are hard to please. There are men out there who spend most of their adulthood trying to understand women so that they can be better men and they fail miserably. Why? Because the key to having better relationships with women is not understanding them. The key to having better relationships with women is adhering to your principles, and getting rid of them at the first sign of nonsense that she refuses to correct.

Attempting to be a better man for women to like you is a waste of time and yields no positive results. These men inevitably turn into simps because they take advice from women who domesticate them for other women, who in turn use, abuse, and take advantage of this nice man with good intentions.

Never allow yourself to be forced to commit. Commit when you are ready and confident. It never ends up good when you commit to a woman because she asks you to. Some men get flattered when they are chosen. That shyt is a set-up. You never know why a woman is choosing you. I'd rather choose the women... never allow yourself to lose control of your relationship.

If a woman knows that you will never leave her, you might as well hand her your balls.

If a woman knows that you won't carry out any of your threats, you might as well hand her your balls.

If you keep allowing your woman to make all of the major decisions and you keep saying "whatever you want to do is fine with me baby", you might as well hand her your balls.

 

[MikelArteta]

Remember you cannot control how others think, feel or act. You can only control you. Once you start to accept that no matter what you do…you can’t control what is not controlled by you…then and only then will you gain a better understanding of you. After all… you are all you’ve got.


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