Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I’m not at that stage where if a chick threw it at me I’d turn it down— at least I don’t think.

But I haven’t had that hunting mentality in two or three months. Work and everything be expensive is kicking my ass. And my social battery gets drained af.

I no longer try to create something with girls who aren’t into horror or wrestling or not willing to get into it. Sounds crazy. But knowing there are strong communities full of women with similar interests I’d rather go after them. It’s my life 24/7 and will be the rest of my life… I’ve been with chicks who didn’t like either and it doesn’t feel good.

And another thing that scares me is having a kid with the wrong girl. I’m team no condom lol. And I don’t know if my brain took longer fully to develop but it finally hit me if you have a baby with someone then you’re attached to that person forever lol.

Of course I know what it means but fully digesting the meaning of that is crazy. Chick could be mentally ill and pass it on to your children. She could be on social media making a fool of herself. She could make your life a living hell for 18 years… she could be one of those folks refusing to grow up and always going out every weekend. so much could go wrong getting the wrong chick prego


So now I feel like I do job interviews with 7 steps and the last few times chicks have been failing steps 1 & 2


TLDR; I haven’t made any moves recently

And I’m okay with that

 

[jesc07]

You mean like I should smash?

I know it's a wide open layup but she gotta wait in line and I'm not really feeling her like that


She had the #1 spot but she fumbled it plus she's let herself go since I last saw her. Like she hasn't been working out at all since almost a year ago while she was with dude

Hell nah leave this woman alone. The whole story sounds weird.

 

[Cynic]

Went to two destination weddings this year, one in LA, that was at a historic church in downtown LA, and over 100/150 people. Not sure on the costs, but probably like 30-50/60k, maybe more, photographers, hotel rooms, bunch of other shyt I'm not even thinking of. They had a full staff with walkie talkies coordinating the event. Both parents have money, so it's probably just writing a check.

The other is next month in Guadalajara. My boy told me that one is stressing him. Her family has money but is just like piecemealing it, and not just giving them a check.

I don’t attend weddings since I’m GMB. I just set the timer for 7-8 years and let things run their course.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

 

[The ADD]

I don’t attend weddings since I’m GMB. I just set the timer for 7-8 years and let things run their course.

 

[Guvnor]

Spoiler: ………..

Damn the comment section had me weak. people are foul saying things like her friends gonna say the man is insecure or throw subs talking about I keep my circle small.

Update, she unblocked me and sent me a Friend Request a couple days ago and a message talking about she owes me an apology. And that now we can talk, because she's single. And that the guy was jealous and toxic
I had legit forgot about this chick. I don't even see her the same anymore.

She showed up yesterday to a kickboxing class I was teaching and I didn't care. She says she wants to go out. I told her my schedule is full. She insisting but nah

Lmao chick crazy as hell in Texas too? Damn that's a waste. Texas got some bad ones too if that's where you at.

 

[Cynic]

Fvck all that.

 

[DJSmooth]

Update, she unblocked me and sent me a Friend Request a couple days ago and a message talking about she owes me an apology. And that now we can talk, because she's single. And that the guy was jealous and toxic
I had legit forgot about this chick. I don't even see her the same anymore.

She showed up yesterday to a kickboxing class I was teaching and I didn't care. She says she wants to go out. I told her my schedule is full. She insisting but nah

A hoe trying to treat me as a second option I always take as disrespectful af.

 

[Scaaar]

Me and my girl got into a big fight about this. Question fellas, how y'all feel about you girl occasionally going on girls trips maybe once or twice a year?

I told her I wasn't comfortable because I wasn't raised that way where women do that kinda thing. Was I unreasonable?

Yeah you're a bit outta pocket. What's wrong with her taking a girl's trip? Do you take a trip with just your boys? You should be able to trust her to go on a trip solo. If you can't why are you in a relationship with her. If she wanted to cheat she'll do it regardless. Being controlling like that will only cause her to resent you which will cause issues down the line

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah you're a bit outta pocket. What's wrong with her taking a girl's trip? Do you take a trip with just your boys? You should be able to trust her to go on a trip solo. If you can't why are you in a relationship with her. If she wanted to cheat she'll do it regardless. Being controlling like that will only cause her to resent you which will cause issues down the line

its not controlling. My wife knows better than to ask to go on a girls trip and even if she did thats a No. That's how affairs etc. start and its the same for me I ain't going on no boys trip cuz i know what might happen

The heart of men is desperately wicked and temptations will arise.

 

[twan83]

Me and my girl got into a big fight about this. Question fellas, how y'all feel about you girl occasionally going on girls trips maybe once or twice a year?

I told her I wasn't comfortable because I wasn't raised that way where women do that kinda thing. Was I unreasonable?

Depends on who her friends are and how they are is one thing
Where are they going is another question
I’ve let my wife do it twice but it was for a concert so she was gone like 2 or 3 days
I don’t dwell on the cheating aspect because if a woman gonna cheat she will no matter what and where it happens wont matter either
So I mean I can see why not let her and I can see why you wouldn’t
Everyone has different perspective on it I don’t think either is wrong it’s more situational and how your relationship is with her
But for me I don’t have an issue I trust her and I know her friends decently enough
Plus if she wanna play stupid games and do it get severe consequences so she knows how i roll
She bothers me more when she went twice on them talking bout missing me and seeing all the couples and shyt made her sad told her oh well enjoy yourself I am at home

 

[jesc07]

its not controlling. My wife knows better than to ask to go on a girls trip and even if she did thats a No. That's how affairs etc. start and its the same for me I ain't going on no boys trip cuz i know what might happen

The heart of men is desperately wicked and temptations will arise.

Scaaar is right. An affair is gonna start by you being controlling and not by the girls trip. The fact that y'all actually got into a big fight about it says more than you need to know. You don't want to look insecure in front of your girl...especially your wife.

 

[Scaaar]

its not controlling. My wife knows better than to ask to go on a girls trip and even if she did thats a No. That's how affairs etc. start and its the same for me I ain't going on no boys trip cuz i know what might happen

The heart of men is desperately wicked and temptations will arise.

It sounds like you don't trust her or yourself. Affairs can also start because you're repressing her and being controlling as well too breh. She doesn't have to go outta town to cheat. If she wants to she will. Dating someone in fear usually creates the very result you're trying to prevent from happening.

 

[Apollo Creed]

It sounds like you don't trust her or yourself. Affairs can also start because you're repressing her and being controlling as well too breh. She doesn't have to go outta town to cheat. If she wants to she will. Dating someone in fear usually creates the very result you're trying to prevent from happening.

Your mentality is why the game is in shambles. You all dont take relationships serious which gives room for all the fukkery and remixing of rules.

If you want to go on girls or guys trips dont get into a relationship just be friends with benefits

 

[Scaaar]

Your mentality is why the game is in shambles. You all dont take relationships serious which gives room for all the fukkery and remixing of rules.

If you want to go on girls or guys trips dont get into a relationship just be friends with benefits

Nah not all. It seems these rules that you're trying to dictate is why the game is in shambles. how are you in a relationship with someone that you don't trust? Y'all just sitting in the house staring at each other because you're afraid you or her might cheat is goofy behavior. Get off the internet getting all that negative info and go out here and touch grass. People aren't moving like that in real relationships. If she chooses to cheat then she just wasn't your girl and dump her. It's as simple as that.