Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I be saying the samne shyt man

To girls too and they still dont get it.

that's the thing man, i have no problem at all helping someone move and not getting paid, or if you don't drive and you live close taking you to the grocery store so you can load up, i always volunteer and do mission trips, but you give a women a inch she will take a mile.

i remember when i lent a female friend 100 bucks cuz she was short of her rent and i felt sorry back in the simp days, "ill give it back as soon as i get paid reincar": , did i get the money? nope, i check her fb and i see this chick out at a club, writing how shes at a hotel for the weekend with her best friend

so i deleted her from facebook, of course when she found out she got irate at me, and asked me why? i said because you disrespected me, you know that you owe me 100 bucks and you took my kindness for weakness and spent that money getting your hair done and paying for a hotel.

did this chick apologize or anything? nope she gets into guilt trip mode, fine reincar i guess we are no longer friends, ill give you the money next time i get paid ill just go without food this month

and all i said is ok, and that was it, i did get my 100 bucks back but that was the last time i ever did any favors for her, and its not like i was wanting to hit, or asked for sexual favors or any favor, i was just being nice and helping out someone in need because i had the money and instead i was disrespected and

now when my "female friends" ask, hey can you lend me 50 for groceries or something, im like nah, just go to the local food shelter if you really need food

sad to say but women are ungrateful and the sooner you realize the better, ive seen it time and time again.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Someone needs to fill a brother in on how to "escape" from certain situations. You know, the ones where you don't want to hurt feelings but it's like, "yeah, I gotta go" type deal.

 

[Ohene]

Its the main reason I couldnt believe it when my ex broke up with me.

Here was a girl who I've known (barely since I was 7) until I was 17. From 17 to 19 we became extremely close and finally decided to become an actual couple. She at first was the one sending all the subliminals to me. Making me a skype account so we could talk/see one another while I was away at school. Making my password on skype her name and my brithday number. Adding herself on skype and putting wifey under the user title or whatever. All this before we were even a couple.

It brought me to a crossroad.

Do I live the player life and experience university aka be a manwhore,.

Or do I do the responsible thing and wife this chick that I am beginning to love and see potential in the future with on some ride or die shyt

Chose the latter. Kept it real so far as to notify my other 3,4 players that I was on a leave as a coach and was finna be with this one chick. Not to give up on the team so to speak but just to be honest and good with it

And the rest I wont get into but theres a little tidbit buried somewhere in this thread. But for her to act like my abrasive, completely honest attitude where I say what ever is on my mind was too much for her all of a sudden was foolishness. Yes I may have done one or two questionable actions but to override 2 years of work due to 2 or so weeks of a bad spell is absurd and still baffles me. Then to turn around and have me see you in clubs on facebook, "I'm not a player but I crush alot status months later on facebook", and to catch word of you having a new boyfriend about 4-6 months later? Disgusting. Til this day I still have theories as to what was really going on behind the scenes. But ill never know The 180 rule friends. They can turn in a matter of seconds and its like they dont even know you anymore.


PS: Always delete a bytch of facebook when you break up

 

[MikelArteta]

Someone needs to fill a brother in on how to "escape" from certain situations. You know, the ones where you don't want to hurt feelings but it's like, "yeah, I gotta go" type deal.

honestly you have to be abrupt and just lay it out and bounce, don';t string her along just bounce.

the worse thing you can do is stay longer than you should, because this will probably happen, you will fall deeper in love with her, become more emotionally attached and she will probably dump you, and youll be like damn i should have dumped her when i had the chance.

many men date women with major red flags and think they can handle it whether kids, raped or molested in the past, emotional problems, live to far, and they know they should cut it off but they stay and try to make it to work, not wanting to hurt her, and then in the end they get kicked to the curb.

and how can i say that? because i was once one of those men, dated a girl who lived like 2 hours away this is also the native american chick who cheated on me, her last relationship was a abusive relationship, and i treated her special even her parents loved me, i'd go up there like twice a month for the weekend, after a few weeks of dating her i realized how she had severe emotional problems, and that i should get out of this, i even brought it up and she started to cry, how she';s never had a guy as great as me, and she doesn't want o lose me, and we can make this work

so yeah fast forward 3 months later she cheats on me with her abusive ex boyfriend who put her in a womens shelter

and now i don't care, whenever i feel like its time, no crocodile tears, or threats of ill cut myself or hurt myself even bother me go ahead i won't be talking to you again your dead to me anyways is my motto

stop worrying about these chicks because when they will be done with you they wont worry about you

 

[Ohene]

Someone needs to fill a brother in on how to "escape" from certain situations. You know, the ones where you don't want to hurt feelings but it's like, "yeah, I gotta go" type deal.

There is no escape route.

The only way to have the 6th sense is too feel the heartbreak yourself and to go through all the motions of thet break up.

The stupid excuse for breaking up.

The no calls/texts/replies

The lies and deceit

Seeing the facebook pictures and all that

and finally...hearing/knowing that she has moved on. That no matter how shyt you feel...it wont bring her back or make her like you but if anything make her feel that much better. Thus, no choice but to move on yourself.


Only then you will know that A) You must look out for yourself...fukk feelings B) What girls are capable of and C) How yo hedge the risk of a relationship in your favour so that whatever happens...you can at it and KIM

 

[MikelArteta]

Its the main reason I couldnt believe it when my ex broke up with me.

Here was a girl who I've known (barely since I was 7) until I was 17. From 17 to 19 we became extremely close and finally decided to become an actual couple. She at first was the one sending all the subliminals to me. Making me a skype account so we could talk/see one another while I was away at school. Making my password on skype her name and my brithday number. Adding herself on skype and putting wifey under the user title or whatever. All this before we were even a couple.

It brought me to a crossroad.

Do I live the player life and experience university aka be a manwhore,.

Or do I do the responsible thing and wife this chick that I am beginning to love and see potential in the future with on some ride or die shyt

Chose the latter. Kept it real so far as to notify my other 3,4 players that I was on a leave as a coach and was finna be with this one chick. Not to give up on the team so to speak but just to be honest and good with it

And the rest I wont get into but theres a little tidbit buried somewhere in this thread. But for her to act like my abrasive, completely honest attitude where I say what ever is on my mind was too much for her all of a sudden was foolishness. Yes I may have done one or two questionable actions but to override 2 years of work due to 2 or so weeks of a bad spell is absurd and still baffles me. Then to turn around and have me see you in clubs on facebook, "I'm not a player but I crush alot status months later on facebook", and to catch word of you having a new boyfriend about 4-6 months later? Disgusting. Til this day I still have theories as to what was really going on behind the scenes. But ill never know The 180 rule friends. They can turn in a matter of seconds and its like they dont even know you anymore.


PS: Always delete a bytch of facebook when you break up

don't just delete, delete and block.

breh we've been there i lost 5 prime years of my youth 18-23 shackled up with one chick, who made me give up all my female friends, i remember before her i had like 150 chicks on my msn, like 100 phone contacts, every week i was going out with different chicks and i gave it all up for her, she was younger than me by two years (16 is consensual) in canada, so in university i never went to parties, never went to the pub, never got a chance to hit up all these girls, i was the good faithful negro, sacrificed so much ish in my life like law school for this chick only for her to be a selfish little bytch who put herself first.

And man that's what girls always do, i dont understand how after every breakup whether I've been dumped, or has dumped or it has been mutual. I always have a period of mourning where i just sit back and think about the relationship.

but females? nah the next day they are on a online dating site, or out clubbing, or rebounding with some guy. The worse is when they were with you they were nice never drank or clubbed, suddenly every weekend they are at clubs, drinking and word always seems to get back to you.

 

[kevm3]

just kick it real to her but with tact
say babygirl, i really enjoyed my time with you, but i got to go. got some thangs i got to attend to. we gonna have to connect again another time

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Cut your losses now man, I'm telling you, right now your still thinking that she needs me and ish get those thoughts out of your mind.

nikka I was engaged four months from marriage and I was disrespected and cut my losses, even though I was a fiend by the phone for a few months after pondering if I made the right decision. I wasted thousands and a good 3 years of my life.

same broad says she wants me to come out with her family i.e mom and sister tomorrow for the day aint never met em so its gonna be status

 

[MikelArteta]

same broad says she wants me to come out with her family i.e mom and sister tomorrow for the day aint never met em so its gonna be status

just say your busy, women love to do this to quell any fears.

she probably knows you heard her talking to other guys and you be questioning your role in the relationship, so to quell your fears you are going to meet the family, which will make you think, if she was going to break up with me or screw me over she wouldn't make me meet her fam.

just the same as if you feel something wrong and you tell a chick and shes like oh nothing is wrong nad you are like your sure and she';s like yeah, then she kissses your neck and makes passionate love to you and you think ah everything is great, then you get them papers dropped on you a week later.

 

[kevm3]

yeah that's real. Most females don't really appreciate sacrifice like that. You a fly fella turning down all these females for her, she wont' appreciate that. She's more likely to think she got you under her control... but you kind of let those women linger around but don't sleep with them, but let it be an open competition and you can bet she will grind a little harder for you...

NEVER turn down no business opportunity for a female. If she's really bout you, she will follow you. I learned this on my own. These women ain't never appreciated me turning something down to be with her. Typically they don't appreciate sacrifice like a man. Only thang they appreciate is a man getting flyer and flyer and not being controlled by their little butts.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

just say your busy, women love to do this to quell any fears.

she probably knows you heard her talking to other guys and you be questioning your role in the relationship, so to quell your fears you are going to meet the family, which will make you think, if she was going to break up with me or screw me over she wouldn't make me meet her fam.

just the same as if you feel something wrong and you tell a chick and shes like oh nothing is wrong nad you are like your sure and she';s like yeah, then she kissses your neck and makes passionate love to you and you think ah everything is great, then you get them papers dropped on you a week later.

already agreed to go bruh...i guess she was just being real friendly with those dudes i must be the main nikka

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Wanna step in and co-sign a few gems in here.

A woman knows if she will fukk/simp you within the first 10 minutes of discussion. Choose your words wisely.

If you want to get the attention of dime females, and you roll in a pack, make sure your packs swag is as tight as yours.

If a woman touches your legs or arms during idle chatter within the first half hour of meeting her, that is a guaranteed sign that she wants to fukk.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Aight a hypothetical ? to my brethren in here.Lets say hypothetically you been "blessed" with the woman of your dreams and you end up walking down the aisle.Do you sign a pre-nup before you marry the woman of your dreams?Even if she dont ask you too.Knowing the divorce rate is high.Why or why not.

 

[Captain Crunch]

Aight a hypothetical ? to my brethren in here.Lets say hypothetically you been "blessed" with the woman of your dreams and you end up walking down the aisle.Do you sign a pre-nup before you marry the woman of your dreams?Even if she dont ask you too.Knowing the divorce rate is high.Why or why not.

Yes
Even if she's the franchise player, she still can have a "career-ending injury", so I want to be insured.

 

[MikelArteta]

Aight a hypothetical ? to my brethren in here.Lets say hypothetically you been "blessed" with the woman of your dreams and you end up walking down the aisle.Do you sign a pre-nup before you marry the woman of your dreams?Even if she dont ask you too.Knowing the divorce rate is high.Why or why not.

Yes always

you have car insurance but don't plan on getting in a accident right?

even though you live in the safest area in the world you still got home insurance right? just incase