Young women fall out of love with dating apps

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Pretty much. Pics seal the deal. Just get a friend to take pictures of you instead of doing it yourself and you'll do better on these apps.

A lot of these women do it to themselves though. They expect us to entertain them or be their support, but they don't offer us the same in return. You get what you give and most women on these apps don't understand that.

Oh they definitely understand. Women ain’t stupid. The problem is most men are so thirsty for a woman that those women can do the bare minimum and still get results. Men don’t hold them in mass to any standards.

Someone in here mentioned that women can’t run fast enough away from men. Well, they’re running from a problem they helped create. It’s kinda pathetic how women are constantly painted as innocent helpless victims and men are some hulking mindless mouth breathing aggressors.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Picture quality
Location
And your bio


Majority of men got trash profile and they swipe on everything

But will blame the women for being picky

The key is to play the algorithm game and swipe right on one or two profiles, and take time off from getting one the app. With my bad pictures and measly bio, I was able to eat really good in the post lockdown era. I got a lot of quality women with careers giving me likes or matches. The two reasons I got were that they thought I was cute or that they found my bio funny

 

[brandy]

Dating apps work for women if they are serious about dating. It's up to them. If they are serious they will find a guy. He might not be what they dreamed of but they'll find someone who checks most of the boxes they want.

Men on the other hand, there's not many serious women to choose from. That's why a lot of men just use the apps for smash and dash

I was in hinge for 2-3 weeks before I met my partner, who was on the apps for months. I was clearly talking to other guys, but he made it clear that he wanted commitment with him. He legit said, that I was the first date in months that didn’t ask for money, showed up on time, offered to pay, treated him to desserts to show appreciate for the great date, respectful communication, and consistently kind. I think that alot of ladies has truly lost the plot when it comes to dating.

With that being said, I think great women are on the app, but I think great matches who are serious and intentional tend to leave the app rather quickly. It’s been over a year, and we have been discussing settling down and family planning.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I was in hinge for 2-3 weeks before I met

my partner, who was on the apps for months. I was clearly talking to other guys, but he made it clear that he wanted commitment with him.

This is why men should get off the apps. He was on there for months while it only took you 2-3 weeks. Men are disadvantaged on these apps. Shoot I signed up this last Sunday again for hinge. Shuffled through couple dozen women and promptly deleted the app. Hinge is falling off hard

He legit said, that I was the first date in months that didn’t ask for money, showed up on time, offered to pay, treated him to desserts to show appreciate for the great date, respectful communication, and consistently kind. I think that alot of ladies has truly lost the plot when it comes to dating.

That’s been my experience as well.

With that being said, I think great women are on the app,

I agree. Good luck finding her though

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I’ve never been on a dating app but I know women who have and I wouldn’t recommend joining them to anyone looking for a long-term relationship.

 

[International Playa]

Dating apps are like looking for a needle in bundles of haystack. Too much trash you have to sift through.

I copy & paste a message to 25 women, about 5 women respond, 2-3 women lead to a decent conversation then about 1-2 women for a date.

I used dating apps on & off since 2017, 2 serious long term relationships, smashed 5 women on first dates.

Dating has always been a numbers game,

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

After my ex and I called it off I started using dating apps this summer. I had back to back experiences that made me give it up for my sanity.

First experience chick was digging me to the point she asked for my snap. I fell asleep one night without saying night. I woke up deleted by her. I message her on the dating app and she said she thought I was uninterested just because I stopped responding. She adds me back but the energy is 180. I keep trying to hold a convo but keep leaving me on read so I delete her.

Another chick I messaged for a month. She’s feeling me too. We’re talking about doing a bunch of shyt. One day she’s like it’s her friend birthday so they’re doing day drinking. I’m talking to her that day and she mentions we have been talking for a while now so I go to our convo on the app to see how long. I tell her “yeah you slid into my DMs a month ago.” And man she flipped out lol her drunk asss was accusing me of making her look thirsty by messaging me first. And I was tryin to tell her that wasn’t my intention. Drunk ass kept giving me attitude. I leave her on read and don’t text her for two days. When I do to finally discuss what happened she ignores the subject and short responds me.

I said fukk this shyt. Deleted her. Deleted all dating apps for my sanity lol.

Funny thing is I’ve just been smashing chicks approaching them in person… better success then the unlimited options online which I think is crazy

 

[GreenGhxst]

Was just talking to a woman friend of mine and she was mentioning how the effort of some men had her re-download and re-delete Tinder in 2 days.

She said the dude had “big texter” as his communication style but never initiated any conversation, just answered her questions and then said “you?” Asking the same question back

I think men are jaded by women which means they are giving less effort which is in turn jading women etc.

social media has given both sexes too much access to "locker room talk"

this is the result

 

[Wiseborn]

I was in hinge for 2-3 weeks before I met my partner, who was on the apps for months. I was clearly talking to other guys, but he made it clear that he wanted commitment with him. He legit said, that I was the first date in months that didn’t ask for money, showed up on time, offered to pay, treated him to desserts to show appreciate for the great date, respectful communication, and consistently kind. I think that alot of ladies has truly lost the plot when it comes to dating.

With that being said, I think great women are on the app, but I think great matches who are serious and intentional tend to leave the app rather quickly. It’s been over a year, and we have been discussing settling down and family planning.

I'm glad it worked out for you.

I guess y'all were both dating intentionally. First of all he had to not think the standard red pill thought that you were smashing a ton of dudes on the apps
And just the guesture of offering dutch is a nice touch. I think my overall longest relationship was from a girl who asked me out and offered to pay which of course I turned down.

 

[Wiseborn]

After my ex and I called it off I started using dating apps this summer. I had back to back experiences that made me give it up for my sanity.

First experience chick was digging me to the point she asked for my snap. I fell asleep one night without saying night. I woke up deleted by her. I message her on the dating app and she said she thought I was uninterested just because I stopped responding. She adds me back but the energy is 180. I keep trying to hold a convo but keep leaving me on read so I delete her.

Another chick I messaged for a month. She’s feeling me too. We’re talking about doing a bunch of shyt. One day she’s like it’s her friend birthday so they’re doing day drinking. I’m talking to her that day and she mentions we have been talking for a while now so I go to our convo on the app to see how long. I tell her “yeah you slid into my DMs a month ago.” And man she flipped out lol her drunk asss was accusing me of making her look thirsty by messaging me first. And I was tryin to tell her that wasn’t my intention. Drunk ass kept giving me attitude. I leave her on read and don’t text her for two days. When I do to finally discuss what happened she ignores the subject and short responds me.

I said fukk this shyt. Deleted her. Deleted all dating apps for my sanity lol.

Funny thing is I’ve just been smashing chicks approaching them in person… better success then the unlimited options online which I think is crazy

As you see talking to people in person is way better, They can hear your tone and see your facial expressions.

Even when texting since I use what's app I send hella voice notes not writing novels on text.

 

[315]

Crazy how saying what’s up to somebody in real life has become this novel idea to some lol

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

I been saying for the longest get off these dating apps and go outside, touch some grass, and meet women the old fashioned way by letting your nuts hang and opening your mouth and talking to them. You will ALWAYS have more success that way.

Also know yourself, stop thinking you are out of ANYONE'S league when you are objectively a 7 at best and make like $50k. That goes to men and women, nobody is realistic with themselves anymore, everyone swears they are the shyt and the greatest catch ever. Mufukka YOU AIGHT man, humble yourself.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I copy & paste a message to 25 women, about 5 women respond, 2-3 women lead to a decent conversation then about 1-2 women for a date.

Hell and that’s not even getting into the fact that half them broads don’t look nothing like their picture so when you end up meeting them it’s

 

[Art Barr]

Online dating been dead since 2007.
Whomever wrote this.

This shyt dated as fukk.

Online dating been the new age digital personal.
For close to twenty years now and been played out.

You have to be emotionally to available using an online site. That ratchet things up past what real life is like.

Everything is the same as it was.

Except people have rolled over different excuses for using offbrand shyt. Like it was a dope niche. When it was nuffin but a retread.
that was proven a long time ago as wacK.

mainly Online dating. Which is the same as dating from the personals out an ol school print newspaper. Which was a no no anytime I been alive. Internet dating is the same thing. Just with an interactive portal and a picture.
As well as the same dangers.
of using the personals back in the day.

Art Barr

 

[IGSaint12]

Was just talking to a woman friend of mine and she was mentioning how the effort of some men had her re-download and re-delete Tinder in 2 days.

She said the dude had “big texter” as his communication style but never initiated any conversation, just answered her questions and then said “you?” Asking the same question back

I think men are jaded by women which means they are giving less effort which is in turn jading women etc.

This is a late response but the problem is that the guys a lot of women go after are usually the top %5 in terms of looks and/or income. Those guys don't really have trouble getting matches so they don't have to put in the effort if they don't want to.