Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Also, your friends reflect who you are. Some of you may believe if you're the fly one in a crew full of bums that you're going to get the most play. Most chicks will overlook you and your crew. Stay surrounded with cats that are on your level. A team full of all stars gets more wins, than a team with one all star. Cause in reality if you're the only fly dude on your squad, you're better off rolling for dolo.

Real fukking shyt :myman:

I have always thought this way. Shamefully my friends although i love em...can be questionable in terms of going out with.

Whemn you go out its important to have a wingman who has the same/complimentary style as you. If you going out to bag bytches...youre wasting time going out with a dude thats just gonna post on the wall. If you the quiet mysterious type, make sure you got a dude whos the joker type of dude to fill both sides of the spectrum. The way you guys dress and think should be similar. If you dress on some fly fred perry and burberry shyt yet your boy stuck with his gear from American Eagle...he will bring you down playboy. If youre deezed or very fit but your boy is sloppy looking, best believe the 2nd girl is cockblocking your ass all night. Etc etc

Thats why nowadays when I go out i often go on dolo excursions to get shyt done or meet up with other ppl who are bout that life. Dont even have to be at a club or party...any type of social gathering.
 

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Real fukking shyt :myman:

I have always thought this way. Shamefully my friends although i love em...can be questionable in terms of going out with.

Whemn you go out its important to have a wingman who has the same/complimentary style as you. If you going out to bag bytches...youre wasting time going out with a dude thats just gonna post on the wall. If you the quiet mysterious type, make sure you got a dude whos the joker type of dude to fill both sides of the spectrum. The way you guys dress and think should be similar. If you dress on some fly fred perry and burberry shyt yet your boy stuck with his gear from American Eagle...he will bring you down playboy. If youre deezed or very fit but your boy is sloppy looking, best believe the 2nd girl is cockblocking your ass all night. Etc etc

Thats why nowadays when I go out i often go on dolo excursions to get shyt done or meet up with other ppl who are bout that life. Dont even have to be at a club or party...any type of social gathering.

ive learned this and didnt realize this until i moved home from school.

now i live in pittsbugh but my friends were from philly and london. we all had similiar styles and we were all about havin fun but all of our personalities were different but complimented each others different. we are all very well dressed and no homo but we aint a bad lookin bunch of guys they were on the soccer team and i hooped and was in the gym non stop.

but i didnt realize how much this mattered until i cam home and my friends werent about that life of getting and just wanted to post up and drink. so now i also kind of just been going out solo or doin w.e i need to do to get it in
 

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ive learned this and didnt realize this until i moved home from school.

now i live in pittsbugh but my friends were from philly and london. we all had similiar styles and we were all about havin fun but all of our personalities were different but complimented each others different. we are all very well dressed and no homo but we aint a bad lookin bunch of guys they were on the soccer team and i hooped and was in the gym non stop.

but i didnt realize how much this mattered until i cam home and my friends werent about that life of getting and just wanted to post up and drink. so now i also kind of just been going out solo or doin w.e i need to do to get it in

it sucks when your friends hold you back man :noah:

i been going through this damn near my whole life especially cause most of my friends at University are white. This summer is going to be different though. Some of my high school friends are about that life as opposed to other HS friends and Ive began to make more moves with em
 

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I dunno...I cant help but feel like most of yall are saying that 9's or 10s aka simply good looking bytches deserve a man that has his shyt going on...becasue they are good looking.

And that is one of the main reasons men go down the heartbreak path in the first place. They've done everything they can, the girl is clearly being waste but they like her and envision being able to walk around with her on his arm and receive daps and looks so they put up with all the bullshyt.

This is the same reason why dudes who are nerds with potential get mad when they see thugs taking all the women at a young age thinking "When I get my 6 figure salary and graduate as an engineer with job at an Energy Company...then theyll see." But alot of the time it doesnt even change for em and they still fiendin for some p*ssy. Cause thats a poor way to think. Why would you even want bytches who werent there during the grit and grind to want you just cause you on point now. Maybe my ego is too big but fukk that.

My motto is that a girl deserves what she goes for no matter how beautiful she is. Once a man is able to realize that if a girl is sexy as hell, yet still goes for dating idiots...then she is in fact an idiot and the two deserve each other. Once you walk forward with that mindset...youll save yourself a lot of bitterness, and resentment...and end up much happier with someone who truly cares for you. Dont let her know about that Lexus you about to peel off in after meeting her. Dont let her know about the fact you work at a Fortune 500 making moves and earning 70K a year. Everything should be taken at face value on her end when she first meets you. Don't discount yourself, and dont offer a premium.

I agree with this. A lot of so called "bad bytches" are really BUM bytchES with nothing going for them but their looks. I'm not about a woman like that, they shoudn't get a pass besides getting fukked..

Wifey should be a true ride or die chick that has something going on and is also smart. I'll take a broad like that over the "video chick" that feels she is owed something for looking good any day .
 

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Sharp is killing it


Even by just saying to a chick nice shoes and that's it she'll ponder was there something in my teeth was y hair not done right , you have removed the power from them.





And remember brehs any time a women says she has options just laugh she may like every chick has 100 guys who want to smash her but few who want to commit
He is,gotta shake hands with that nikka like this

Snoop Dogg ft. The Dogg Pound & The Dramatics - Doggy Dogg World [Explicit] - YouTube



The good game that various people are dropping in this thread is priceless. If you're young or just old and STILL super lame,you might think some of this good game,theories etc are far fetched,reaching doesnt apply to hoes you meet etc. YOU ARE WRONG. hOES ARE MORE ALIKE THAN they are different. A bytches only worth is how dedicated she is to getting down for your crown, IE effort toward keepin your nuts empty,pockets and belly full etc or anything that benefits you blatantly or indirectly. Out of pocket bytches or worthless,regardless of stature looks etc. Every straight woman has it in them to fall in line and bowdown,damn near worship a nikka. If that nikka aint you,then someone (like myself) is in the shadows and running your bytch. Never make it about a bytch,it's about you and YOUR STORY. Your story should read _______ was about his bizness and had --------,______,------- getting down for his crown doing what he needed done or wanted done along the way. You should never get off this path. nikkas make the mistake of getting off this path in order to keep a particular bytch. BIG MISTAKE. Every character in your romantic involvements are interchangeable,except you. Dont fukk with hoes for the sake of FUKKIN WITH HOES. Fukk with them cause they bring something to the table and the benefits outweigh the negatives.

When you meet a baaaaaaaaaaaaaad bytch,type of bytch you might dream about,dont sweat her. Dont think WHAT CAN I DO FOR HER TO HAVE HER. Think about what you can do for YOURSELF to have her and all the other bytches you think are fly. Meaning dont think maybe if i took her here,bought her this,fed her that etc. Instead think let me make sure i keep my scalp and face groomed properly ALL THE TIME (TEND TO IT DAILY IF POSSIBLE AND NEED BE),let me wear the right attire,let me keep myself in good shape,let me be in spots where higher level bytches frequently are. Let me learn the female mind and how i can hijack it. Guess what,that's exactly what the man of her dreams does :win:
 

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i probably mentioned this in this in like 3 threads before but the toenail thing.

if you ask your broad to clip your toenail for you and she does it with no hesitation or drama then you don't really have much to worry about with her at that moment in time.

a random little test my uncle (R.I.P.) mentioned to me and my cousins years back when he was telling us about how he thought a girl he was with was going to leave him and go back to the man he took her from.. he said when asked her and she did it without blinking an eye, he knew she loved him wasn't cheating... he cheated on her and she got him locked up by mistake... he got out and married her. :laugh:
 

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Not every form of disrespect is right in your face. If you call a woman to have a conversation or meet up once a week for lunch at a cafe and that has become a normal routine and suddenly she has a rushed attitude and says something such as "Oh, yeah im on the computer doing something plus I need to go clean the bathroom so we'll talk tomorrow, bye" something is fishy. When phony scenarios are thrown together on the fly,they will usually be two or more tasks thrown together to make the person seem busy. The scenarios will also be randomly put together, and not match. Instead of food shopping and laundry it will be taking a cousin to a job interview and a sky diving all within a few hours of each other.
 

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Slide your pinky in her butt when you are eating the cooch. If you can fit two in there off the bat, you ain't the first to explore that region.
 

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i probably mentioned this in this in like 3 threads before but the toenail thing.

if you ask your broad to clip your toenail for you and she does it with no hesitation or drama then you don't really have much to worry about with her at that moment in time.

a random little test my uncle (R.I.P.) mentioned to me and my cousins years back when he was telling us about how he thought a girl he was with was going to leave him and go back to the man he took her from.. he said when asked her and she did it without blinking an eye, he knew she loved him wasn't cheating... he cheated on her and she got him locked up by mistake... he got out and married her. :laugh:

And this is the man you choose to take women lessons from? :ld:

Run along son, we're looking for real advice.
 

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Also, your friends reflect who you are. Some of you may believe if you're the fly one in a crew full of bums that you're going to get the most play. Most chicks will overlook you and your crew. Stay surrounded with cats that are on your level. A team full of all stars gets more wins, than a team with one all star. Cause in reality if you're the only fly dude on your squad, you're better off rolling for dolo.

:whoo:


I need to stay in this mothafukka. Ya'll are droppin some potent knowledge for the kid.
 

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In the bible just read Samson and Delihah story, once Samson told her his weakness he was done finished. If you don't believe in the bible, take it as a parable.

Samson was a strong confident man messing with whorish women, who begged to know his secret to his strength , he lied, but she brought out the dont you love me dont you trust me
And once he told he was sold out eyes gouged out and mocked.


As a man never reveal your heart your deep secrets to whorish women (or maybe any women). You tell a woman your girl cheating on you destroyed you, when she's tired of you she's going to cheat on you to break your heart again.

Every man has a weakness never reveal it, or you will end up like Achilles with a arrow on your Achilles tendon

I have seen this happen at least 3 -4 times in my life. Not to me, but to people I know.

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