Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Nintendough]

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[Brock Landers]

I've learned a lot over these last few years breh not to get so easily involved/attached to women or be so friendly/courteous to them because women out there are looking to take advantage of it. I was talking to my breh who mentioned this female at his work place asked him for some money to pay off some financial shyt that she had and really made it uncomfortable for him - do people not have any standards or pride? I've come across things like that myself so now I can side-step a bytch with an agenda in an instant.

 

[Sharp]

Be decisive. Know your intentions with the women in front of you. Don't treat jumpoffs like girlfriends. Don't treat girlfriends like jumpoffs.

Don't send mixed messages. Don't ever commit to a chick just because you think that's the only way she's going to let you fukk. You might laugh, but you have no idea how many men do this. It's all about diplomacy.

Why waste time deceiving a chick you're going to eventually discard anyway? That's a waste of mental energy. Of course you don't do this on day one. You do this once she starts inquiring. Let a chick know "I'm not looking for anything serious, I just want to have fun and enjoy the time I spend with you.: You are now covered. A true G will let a chick know the rules of the game before she decides to play.

But keep in mind, once you put her down as a jumpoff or friend with benefits, catching feelings and attempting to be with her is a no no. She would never be loyal to you if she was okay with being your jumpoff or friend with benefits.

 

[Ohene]

Be decisive. Know your intentions with the women in front of you. Don't treat jumpoffs like girlfriends. Don't treat girlfriends like jumpoffs.

Don't send mixed messages. Don't ever commit to a chick just because you think that's the only way she's going to let you fukk. You might laugh, but you have no idea how many men do this. It's all about diplomacy.

Why waste time deceiving a chick you're going to eventually discard anyway? That's a waste of mental energy. Of course you don't do this on day one. You do this once she starts inquiring. Let a chick know "I'm not looking for anything serious, I just want to have fun and enjoy the time I spend with you.: You are now covered. A true G will let a chick know the rules of the game before she decides to play.

But keep in mind, once you put her down as a jumpoff or friend with benefits, catching feelings and attempting to be with her is a no no. She would never be loyal to you if she was okay with being your jumpoff or friend with benefits.

I live by the golden rule

Not because I fear karma but because i am genuinely a good person. I cannot mislead a girl that really likes me because A) I would feel like shyt if I got the run around, and B) I would feel bad about doing it. Theres so many times I'va actually been veeery close to breaking my code and doing it mainly with these 2 girls ...but I always hold myself back. Ain;t worth it.

 

[planD]

Yes sir
I speak from experience as well I've made every mistake in the book.

Also would like to add don't think your girl is not like that or can never be, even the sweetest fruit can turn sour and bitter.

I've been there for chicks when no one else were, nor their parents no one, put my good name on the line only to be spit out and stomped upon, anything with teeth can bite remember that.

No matter how you treat a chick she may cheat on you, use you, leave you, string you along.

I posted this in another thread

you can save a man from a burning building and he will feel loyalty towards you for the rest of his life. No matter if this was your sworn enemy at one point, s because men have senses of honor and integrity whereas women are utterly bereft and incapable of developing these.

you can save a chick with two kids from a abusive relationship the first guy to ever treat her like a human being, and she will still cheat and leave you for her deadbeat baby dad who assaulted her

Damn, the cold, hard truth

 

[Mr. Pink]

Wiser men than us have pondered these questions brehs.
By the Lord of Chesterfield in "Letters to his Son":

As women are a considerable, or at least a pretty numerous part of company; and as their suffrages go a great way toward establishing a man’s character in the fashionable part of the world (which is of great importance to the fortune and figure he proposes to make in it), it is necessary to please them. I will therefore, upon this subject, let you into certain Arcana that will be very useful for you to know, but which you must, with the utmost care, conceal and never seem to know.

Women, then, are only children of a larger growth; they have an entertaining tattle, and sometimes wit; but for solid reasoning, good sense, I never knew in my life one that had it, or who reasoned or acted consequentially for four-and-twenty hours together.

Some little passion or humor always breaks upon their best resolutions. Their beauty neglected or controverted, their age increased, or their supposed understandings depreciated, instantly kindles their little passions, and overturns any system of consequential conduct, that in their most reasonable moments they might have been capable of forming.

A man of sense only trifles with them, plays with them, humors and flatters them, as he does with a sprightly forward child; but he neither consults them about, nor trusts them with serious matters; though he often makes them believe that he does both; which is the thing in the world that they are proud of; for they love mightily to be dabbling in business (which by the way they always spoil); and being justly distrustful that men in general look upon them in a trifling light, they almost adore that man who talks more seriously to them, and who seems to consult and trust them; I say, who seems; for weak men really do, but wise ones only seem to do it.

 

[Jesus]

I need help breaking it off with this girl I met on okcupid. She is cool and all, but damn she is annoying. We have been fukking around for like two weeks...and she knows where I live. I would be fine with her as a friend but not as a girlfriend. She is in the living room with me right now.

 

[Ohene]

Wiser men than us have pondered these questions brehs.
By the Lord of Chesterfield in "Letters to his Son":

so eloquent

 

[MikelArteta]

I need help breaking it off with this girl I met on okcupid. She is cool and all, but damn she is annoying. We have been fukking around for like two weeks...and she knows where I live. I would be fine with her as a friend but not as a girlfriend. She is in the living room with me right now.

just say you realized after these few weeks that even though they have been nice, that you are still not over your ex yet and still need more time.

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn, the cold, hard truth

it is, the thing is having my heart carved out of my chest thrown 100 feet to the ground, pounded into the pavement and lit on fire, made me change my ways from a nice guy simp into a man who demands respect and is not afraid to cut the cord from any woman whether she is a avg chick or a dime with a fat ass and titties and gives me a blowjob every day, that power that skill is something few men have.

In the past this was me, dumped by a girl, call her up repeatedly contiues playing the nice guy role trying to win her back, msgn her, calling her all the time, till shes in a relationship with a new guy and im

now i dont even do relationships but the last time i was dumped a few years ago, i was dumped through a text msg, instantly i went on fb and had to go through liek 4 months of posts deleting every post or like i did on her page, untagged me from pictures (why i said before don't write on chicks pages etc.)

that same day i packed up every gift this chick gave me in a box, and mailed it to her ups next day signature needed, i changed my phone number as well and deleted and blocked her from fb, months went by not even a peep from me (chicks expect you to crack and text em first), this chick created a brand new fb just to msg me on some "hey i was just thinking of you for some odd reason, i hope all is going well, if you want to talk my number is ......, if not see ya", i just deleted that fb msg and got on with my life.

No anger, no threats, no yelling, no why?, it felt good to be beyond that, ppl may be like reincar your a misogyst you hate women you are bitter but i say no

I just no longer fall for their tactics, i've mastered a set of skills basically knowing what a women will do before she does it because once you study a few you know them all, i've picked up when women were drawing away and ended the relationship before they could. I've spent hundreds and hundreds of hours, reading material, reading relationship forums, gaining knowledge and wisdom.



I've been in countless relationships and eh how they all start, the women feels a spark i feel eh nothing but go along with it, you spend more time together suddenly maybe a month or two month in you get that "I love you", and do you love me? as well with the "I never felt this way before" same song and dance.

I always remember when this girl i was dealing with told me that she loves me, and i asked hew how many guys has she loved and she told me just two.

I got into her email through my keylogger, and she had emails from all her previous bf, and in them when they were breaking up, "i love you so much, insert name, I really don't know how i can live without you"

and this was like 5 or 6 guys, love to women is just a word not a emotion, they are devoid of that. As a man I can literally say I have only loved two women in my life my ex fiance and the one that got away, but will i ever love another women again? i can literally say no, i will never give a women that sort of power over me.

 

[Tony_Siegel]

Experience that road/warzone called love early on fellas. Pass your experience on to the younger gods. Don't be embarrassed for having been "in love", smitten, or "damaged" in a relationship with a female. Still love your ex that got away? Cool, live with that feeling and use it to learn the ways of life... These experiences are pivotal points in a man's life that will help make your skin tougher.

Remember, we are men after all... Trillions of life forms had to die for us to be here. Appreciate your existence, and let someone fight for your worth for a change, instead of having/begging to prove your worth to others.

 

[JLova]

Gotta be a boss type of man if your expecting boss type chicks.


If you want to be fukking 9s & 10's you need to be a man who is doing something with his life. You cant expect a beautiful chick to wanna run with you, if you have nothing going for yaself.

They don't understand this, breh.

You got 4's expecting 9's.

 

[Sharp]

The most important thing that many of you have to learn is to be comfortable being alone.

But there's a difference between being alone out of choice and because nobody wants you. Once you're comfortable being alone, it will become easier for you to get rid of females and move on with your life when they bring the bullshyt your way. The only people who tolerate the nonsense are those who are afraid to be alone.

Consider being chick free a blessing. Somebody said this earlier: Be about your business and make that the center of your world, not no chick. Women are complimentary to the life you're trying to live, not the nucleus. I guarantee that once you're comfortable with being alone, you will make better selections on the chicks you decide to deal with because you're not dating women just for the sake of not being alone.

And also, women are highly attracted to men who chose them, not those who beg to be chosen.

 

[MikelArteta]

The most important thing that many of you have to learn is to be comfortable being alone.

But there's a difference between being alone out of choice and because nobody wants you. Once you're comfortable being alone, it will become easier for you to get rid of females and move on with your life when they bring the bullshyt your way. The only people who tolerate the nonsense are those who are afraid to be alone.

Consider being chick free a blessing. Somebody said this earlier: Be about your business and make that the center of your world, not no chick. Women are complimentary to the life you're trying to live, not the nucleus. I guarantee that once you're comfortable with being alone, you will make better selections on the chicks you decide to deal with because you're not dating women just for the sake of not being alone.

And also, women are highly attracted to men who chose them, not those who beg to be chosen.

the funny thing tom leykis was talking about this yesterday, how many men are to weak to leave the relationship they are in because they fear being alone.

I was once a man like that, always wanted a girl or a relationship, now i haven't been in a relationship in about a year and a half many have tried i'm just not interested.

I'm saving more money by not going out to movies, dinner, gas, etc. and just doing me, its been said time and time again when you are not looking is when you find someone great, the desperate dudes on dating sites, or at clubs and bars every weekend looking for girls always end up empty handed.

 

[Sharp]

the funny thing tom leykis was talking about this yesterday, how many men are to weak to leave the relationship they are in because they fear being alone.

I was once a man like that, always wanted a girl or a relationship, now i haven't been in a relationship in about a year and a half many have tried i'm just not interested.

I'm saving more money by not going out to movies, dinner, gas, etc. and just doing me, its been said time and time again when you are not looking is when you find someone great, the desperate dudes on dating sites, or at clubs and bars every weekend looking for girls always end up empty handed.

You end up bagging more broads when you're not even trying. There's something about your aura when you're about your business that has chicks curious.

Women love a man who they have to figure out. They get a challenge out of making a man fall head over heels in love with them. If you never give them that satisfaction and come off as the type of guy who stands by his principles, you will always stay in the top tier.

Yeah, these broads chase after dudes who trick and are probably highly coveted, but the dudes who get kept are the ones who aren't afraid to leave. Learning to be alone will make you not afraid to leave, thus making your value exponentially rise.